nrhodact

[nrhodact]

what the point of mmf threesomes if the dudes don’t fag out a lil

#Why I don't trust a certain group of people writing m/f/m and describe it as a love triangle turned poly. Bet it's just them touching the - #woman but not each other

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It feels impossible sometimes to talk about your experiences as an asexual person without getting lumped in with purity culture because it’s somehow simultaneously true that society hates sex and puts sex everywhere so both people who want to express their sexuality and people who don’t want to participate in it end up having knee-jerk reactions to each other because we’ve all built up defense mechanisms ready to trigger at a moments notice so you try to talk about how sex and romance is everywhere and inescapable and you don’t wanna be involved with it and then people blame you for the kink at pride discourse when you weren’t even thinking about that

#asexual problems #asexual

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was anyone going to tell me that the pope's dressmaker posts dick and cock on instagram or was i supposed to find out for myself

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Hey, I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. Also fuck the person interrogating you

I'm sorry to you; I heard Freydis/Taylor harassed you for talking about how sex-less books get less attention, and I think that issue is at it's worst in the indie space. I'm really sorry for how they treated you. In private, whenever the topic of sexual books having an advantage in the indie space was brought up, Freydis/Taylor would get upset and reference how anti-sex corporations are hurting creators (which is true), but Taylor would take it too far and get disproportionately upset about any, like, random person who complained about how sex-focused indie book spaces are. (This seems to have been their main shtick — referring to real issues for marginalized people then using that as a way to bully others, taking things too far over and over again. )

If anyone told them to relax, Taylor fell back on their status as a person of color and saying they were asexual. The race thing turned out to be a lie, so I wouldn't be surprised if the ace thing may as well have been too. I should say that I didn't see Taylor's back-and-forth with you on Twitter at the time but seeing it now, I'm not surprised at all.

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BEEEEAAAAAANNNNSSSSSSS!!

(I stayed up late for this. Go watch Ramshackle NOW)

[nrhodact]

'so pretty'

#tlt #the locked tomb

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Trans men with bottom dysphoria, trans men who use prosthetics, trans male tops, post bottom surgery trans men etc deserve to feel valid and desired and represented. I've noticed that there's such a lack of representation in art and writing and pretty much anything for guys like me, and it has always made me feel as though I won't ever be loved unless I use my "front hole". I know I can just make all this rep myself, it's just the feeling that no one else cares to create positive depictions of us that's eating me up inside, and it especially hurts how many people are quick to assume that I use my "front hole" just because that's the only way they think trans men can have sex. We, like any other type of trans man, deserve to be loved the way we are, not pressured into fitting a standard for how trans men "should" be or how others view us.

#THIS THIS THIS THIS THIS #I've complained numerous times on my ig about hating that cis x trans mlm stuff where the trans dude is the bottom is so common #I know there ARE trans men who want to bottom or who want to date cis men but why are they Always the ones to get rep / art / fics / etc #I genuinely cannot relate to trans x cis or botom!trans dude stuff AT ALL and it sucks cuz there's barely any other stuff out there #it makes me feel like ppl cannot comprehend sex where a cis dick isn't involved or where a trans man does not want to be penetrated #rlly infuriating and lame #trans #transmasc #>

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Trans men with bottom dysphoria, trans men who use prosthetics, trans male tops, post bottom surgery trans men etc deserve to feel valid and desired and represented. I've noticed that there's such a lack of representation in art and writing and pretty much anything for guys like me, and it has always made me feel as though I won't ever be loved unless I use my "front hole". I know I can just make all this rep myself, it's just the feeling that no one else cares to create positive depictions of us that's eating me up inside, and it especially hurts how many people are quick to assume that I use my "front hole" just because that's the only way they think trans men can have sex. We, like any other type of trans man, deserve to be loved the way we are, not pressured into fitting a standard for how trans men "should" be or how others view us.

#LAUGHING HYSTERICALLY #YOU FUCKING SAID IT BESTIE!!! #i stopped reading fanfic with trans male characters bc it's always ALWAYS the same shit #and a lot of the time it feels like ppl are transing male characters just so they can have a vageen to put a peen in #and i hate reading that shit. it feels so reductive #(and on top of that it's also like... there are other holes to put things in. why does it have to be That One) #(there are SO many different ways to have sex. queer ppl have been having queer sex since the dawn of day) #(and yet so much queer fanfic erotica looks like.... cishet-normative sex with a thin layer of queer paint over it. why?) #like yeah totally cool for ppl who are into that kind of stuff but where's the rest???) #in all my years i have come across #a thousand fics of cisman peen in transman vageen. #and among those thousand there's been only one (1) that didn't feel stupidly reductive. that felt like it was written with care #that felt real #and for those thousand there's been exactly one (1) fanfic with a trans man topping his (cis man) partner #like. what's up with that? what's up with those numbers? #again totally cool if cisman peen in transman vageen is your thing. if you feel that represents you or your desires #but the difference in numbers is SO disproportionate and we gotta ask. why is that? #and more importantly #can you do better? #> prev tags

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life aint so bad. you could have hazbin hotel mutuals

#i watched it. it sucked. hope that helps #when people learn that the widely hated thing can be hated because it sucks and not because people told them so

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#i think you should break up/not date someone who straight up thinks cuddling is cheating #this question is a red flags test #allo romos are fucking dumb #and unhinged

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Greek novelist Auguste Corteau and his husband Anastasios Samouilidis, the first homosexual couple to be married at Athens' city hall, March 7th 2024

#gay history #greek

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The word you might be looking for is grey-ace! Or at least that is the term I use for myself to describe it. And I do know what you mean about the pick-me aces, that are too self absorbed/always surrounded by allos to the point they forget that sex repulsed aces exist and their feelings matter equally to ours.

I wonder why allo's are obsessed with sex favorable aces🤔

Oh right, because they can't muster allyship let alone remind themselves of our existence unless they are kinky or sexual. 🙃

When we said asexuality was a spectrum we did not mean ignore every asexual that doesn't satisfy your allo fantasies.

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the lyctors are generally a lesson in irony but specifically the "saint of patience" being consistently fucked over by being too late feels especially potent. he's convinced he could have saved his brother, given five minutes to change his mind. he finally tells John to give up his imperialist revenge fantasy ten thousand years after it began. he doesn't go to bat for Mercy against John until she's already dead. patience was Alfred's virtue and inaction is Augustine's downfall!

#tlt

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fucking horrified at the amount of girls coming out the woodworks to tell me how its good to say "i fucking hate sissies" as if that isn't, y'know, what the conservative men on my street would say about me

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enough with the reader x fiction flooding every tag I Do Not want to be railed by that man

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Seo is autistic coded

#perfect buddy #xxx buddy

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So some Helldivers 2 players have the media literacy of a fetus and are begging Arrowhead "not to add politics into the game." In this case, obviously a dogwhistle for POC and Queer stuff (Ignoring that all 3 crew members of your Super Destroyer are black.)

My response? Pride Capes.

I want Arrowhead to add Pride Capes come June and I want all of the LGBTQ Pride Flags.

I wanna see Trans Capes billow beautifully in the shockwave of an ICM.

I wanna see Non-Binary Capes decorated with the blood of an Automaton Hulk.

I wanna see Gay Capes sway majestically in the Super Destroyer which has wind to blow your capes weirdly enough.

Pride Capes!!

It'll scare away the Neanderthals and we can be left to defend Democracy in peace. Plus, they'd actually look sick as fuck.

#Helldivers