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Idk how much I've 'grown' as a 'person' over the years however I HAVE gradually turned into increasingly cartoonish parodies of myself which has been a blast actually

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people who hate kids and talk about hurting them should fucking die actually

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if you want you can come meet me in the astral realm tonight and we can hug

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meyoco_

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People: “So tell me about yourself”

My introvert ass thinking about who I am:

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i am once again asking you all to stop fucking using “lives with their parents” as an insult. humans live in groups, sometimes (frequently) those groups include multiple generations, get the fuck over it. it’s weird as hell to act like THAT’S somehow unnatural or creepy or pathetic instead of like, anything that actually matters at all.

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a reminder for nonasian people

you know… with this rise in interest in east asian culture and “aesthetics” over the past couple of years also comes with a rise in asian cultural appropriation… so for every nonasian out there who would consider themselves a fan of cutesy asian things or stuff like kpop or anime, you guys have an obligation to people of the culture you’re enjoying to be informed and educated about their struggles. it’s not right to love and consume cultures that’s not your own while ignoring the people who are part of them. read up on appropriation, the fetishisation and infantilisation of east asian women and desexualisation of asian men, whitewashing in media, xenophobia, the erasure of our achievements and the model minority myth. you owe it to us east asians to be educated on topics that concern us if you’re going to continue to consume media and content we make.

EDIT: if you’re nonasian please reblog this so that other nonasians can see it!!

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Thinking about one day being able to say, ‘our home’ and ‘my wife’ is therapeutic

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Beautifully said.

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reblog to give your mutuals a djungelskog

#djungelskog

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she asks me what it’s like, loving a woman when i, too, am a woman and she laughs, which is the one who sits and watches tv while the other one cleans? she asks: how does your love work, do you trade off who goes off with their friends while the other one stresses? but our love works like this: she saw her favorite dessert in our fridge and she waited until i came home so that we could split it.

#beautiful #love #❤

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what caused italians to make all those gory movies in the 70s and 80s

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Link ~~~

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Please ignore all my posts that look like I’m heart broken.... i’m just dramatic

#and have emotion regulation issues

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