honestly though what people lack is just basic human compassion because how else can you reduce tony’s final cap 3 reaction to the usual “spoiled brat” talk while completely skipping over the fact that zemo dug deep into the throes of his history and came up with a way to emotionally eviscerate him and hone him into a loose canon to destroy steve, a friend tony spent the whole movie trying to protect. tony’s history and undigested pain were used to twist him up so that steve would lose everything. tony was used as a weapon, not in a hydra-brainwashing sense or a supersoldier sense, but in the most BASIC, HUMAN SENSE where he is LITERALLY CORRUPTED BY GRIEF
and it’s not something that just ~happens good lord guys he was literally emotionally tortured o n s c r e e n and yeah yeah yeah i know!! bucky was tortured too!! no ones saying he wasn’t but people ARE saying tony just acted out of entitlement and complete lack of empathy like fuck off