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best thing i ever accepted about people is that most people are just kind of gross like, physically
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outcast-stomp · 20 hours
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Frothing at the mouth every time I see a sex ed resource that says "use condoms" without any further elaboration. "Condoms prevent STIs and pregnancy in the vast majority of cases when used correctly" but then they don't talk about what correctly IS
Correct use of a condom means
Using the right size, because if it's too big it can slide off or leak and if it's too small it can break or come off. Condoms usually come in 5 sizes, I'm sure you could find others outside of that as well but in ten years of sex work I found they covered everyone
Using lube, even if you think you don't need it. With the exception of oral sex, condoms should always be used with lube, 100% of the time. Most important lube should be applied to the outside but a drop in the tip of the condom before putting it in is also a good idea
Being mindful that latex is prone to wearing out, being damaged by heat etc. Condoms should be kept somewhere cool, not folded in wallets or sat on in back pockets and should be changed between activities and after about 15 minutes of any vigorous activity. Ask me how I know (a condom snapped on my leg when a client was pulling out, because I didn't change it when I should have)
The penetrative partner should hold the base of the condom when they pull out, and should do so immediately after they ejaculate so the condom doesn't leak or come off as the penis gets flaccid
Bonus: a lot of people think hand stuff can't transmit STIs. Wrong! If you give your partner a handjob and then touch yourself you can get HPV, herpes (low risk), and infections like chlamydia and gonorrhea
This isn't meant to be stressful, and the most common STIs are the most treatable - and often curable - but getting gonorrhea in your eyes after a facial still extremely sucks and yet no one talks about the fact that any mucous membrane can be effected, not just your genitals (yes this includes your mouth and throat)
In ten years of doing sex work where I saw 10 clients a day most of the time I've had 4 condom fails ever. One was what I mentioned above when it snapped on my leg, one was a client on top of me didn't get off fast enough after he finished and the condom came off, and the other two were a Glyde brand magnum that was inexplicably twice the thickness of a regular condom and didn't stay put on anyone so I suggest just avoiding Glyde entirely (their water based lubes also stain fyi). With all other brands correct use = extremely safe
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outcast-stomp · 1 day
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i always assumed the infamous ☪oe✡is✝ bumper sticker was american because it was such a quintessential part of a certain era of american politics but when i found out that the image was originally created for an israeli museum i was like ah. yeah. that tracks
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outcast-stomp · 2 days
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found in: Gay by the Bay : a history of queer culture in the San Francisco Bay Area by Susan Stryker 1996
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outcast-stomp · 3 days
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It's honestly crazy that discussion around testosterone HRT skews so much towards the beginning stages of it (to the point that you have dozens of guys thinking their transition is "failed" if they don't pass by like a year in lol) and what the initial changes of the first couple of months to years look like, like the classic laundry list of those early basic changes like bottom growth, voice drop, etc, when IMO literally none of that compares remotely to the depth and intensity of the long term total masculinization you start to experience like 3-5+ years in.
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outcast-stomp · 4 days
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every time someone talks about someone "faking disability to live on welfare" or anything to that effect i think about how my mom worked in law and directly knew of a case of a guy who had terminal brain cancer with an estimated few months to live and got rejected the first time he applied for disability income. like, he was 100% going to die and that wasn't disabled enough to not have to jump through a million hoops and get lawyers involved. non-disabled people "living off of welfare" is such a non issue because i cannot bring myself to care about the like, 3 people who maybe successfully do it compared to the thousands of people rejected who need aid
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outcast-stomp · 4 days
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new pins :)
by Abprallen on etsy!
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outcast-stomp · 5 days
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You are allowed to exist alone in public btw. You're allowed to go to the movies alone and go out to eat alone and hang out in a park alone and go for a walk alone and whatever else. It isn't weird or creepy, it doesn't make you lonely or a loser or whatever. You are allowed to just exist as yourself.
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outcast-stomp · 5 days
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People against piracy fail to realize that no, I can’t just ‘buy it.’ They stopped making DVDs and Blu-Rays. They’re barely offering digital copies for download. I am not spending money I could use for food or bills to pay for a subscription service just so I can always have access to a beloved piece of media. Especially not when the service will remove media on a whim without concern for how the loss of access to that piece will make its artistic conservation nigh impossible.
For example, I recently learned that Disney+ had an original film called Crater. It’s scifi, family friendly, and seems cool - I would love to buy it as a holiday gift for my little brother! But: it’s exclusive to D+ and THEY REMOVED IT LITERALLY MONTHS AFTER ITS RELEASE.
The ONLY way I can directly access this film is through piracy. The ONLY available ‘copies’ of this film are hosted on piracy websites. Disney will NEVER release it in theaters, or as something to buy, and it may NEVER return to the streaming service. It will be LOST because we aren’t allowed to purchase it for personal viewing. If I can’t pay to own it, I won’t pay for the privilege of losing it when corporate decides to put it in a vault.
So yes, I’m going to pirate and support piracy.
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outcast-stomp · 6 days
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transfemme and transmasc solidarity! (prints available)
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outcast-stomp · 6 days
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There is always endless money for war...
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outcast-stomp · 7 days
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I wonder how many people realize that we wouldn't have most of the genres of electronic music we have today without black people, and what it says about that when you consider how much various electronic musical disciplines are more often associated with white people.
If it weren't for funk, jazz, soul, disco, dub, dancehall, and more, we wouldn't have house, techno, drum and bass, UK garage, even most forms of industrial dance music.
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outcast-stomp · 7 days
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We are Doll Chaser! We're an all trans punk band from Minnesota and we are so excited to share what we've been cooking!
Our first release of singles, titled together as Living The Dream, releases on Friday January 5th! Pre-save on Spotify now, and keep your eyes open on every other major streaming platform
https://distrokid.com/hyperfollow/dollchaser/living-the-dream-2
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outcast-stomp · 8 days
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I made a little zine!
You can download and print it yourself here
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outcast-stomp · 9 days
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oh no! that character from that old cartoon or anime you watched as a child is actually not gender goals but a transmisogynistic joke!
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outcast-stomp · 9 days
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"oh college is really expensive? can't you apply for scholarships?" here is a simulation of the average scholarship website's search results
-Future Leaders Scholarship: write a 500 word essay on how your experience in high school student government influenced your desire to become a political lobbyist
-$500 Supporting Strong Students Scholarship (must have 3.75 or higher GPA to apply)
- Coca-Cola Scholars - must submit a 5 minute long video explaining how your future career goals will benefit your community. (Note: by submitting, you agree that the Coca-Cola Corporation, as well as its affiliates and subsidiaries, reserve the right to use your image and voice in any and all promotional material without notice, in perpetuity)
-Women of Color in Upper-Division Biochemistry Research Scholarship
- $2500 scholarship for Future Educators in Engineering, Chemistry, and Computer Science. (Humanities, Arts, or Education majors need not apply)
- $25000 NO ESSAY scholarship! Submit this simple form of demographic information for a chance to win! (there are already 150,000 entries)
-Lockheed Martin Student Achievement Grant
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