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Finland: ok so our country is called Suomi
Afrikaans: Finland
Albania: Finlandë
Amhara: Finlanidi
Arabia: Finlanda
Armenia: Finlandia
Catalan: Finlàndia
Czech: Finsko
Danish: Finland
Dutch: Finland
English: Finland
French: Finlande
Galician: Finlandia
German: Finnland
Hungarian: Finnorzàg
Icelandic: Finnland
Indonesian: Finlandia
Irish: An Fhionlainn
Italia: Finlandia
Norwegian: Finland
Polish: Finlandia
Portugese: Finlândia
Romanian: Finlanda
Slovak: Finsko
Slovenian: Finska
Spanish: Finlandia
Swedish: Finland
Tagalog: Finland
Turkish: Finlandiya
Finland: um no
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Just remember, these are elected officials and our tax dollars are being used for this.
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pahvikalu · 5 years
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Man, B99 did Holt so right. He’s not just gay as lip service, he’s visibly gay. We see acknowledgement and dealing with homophobia and racism, and his success despite it. We see him advocating and supporting other queer black officers. We meet his husband, not just as a “here he is” but as an actual relationship. Kevin isn’t just a carbon copy of Raymond nor is he a comical opposite. They are similiar enough that you understand how they fell in love, but they are unique personalities. They have troubles and arguments, but stay together and support each other. Honestly they are one of the best on screen couples I’ve seen period, let alone a gay one. He’s also a stoic character who remains stoic while still warming up and having humour and connection with others, without changing his personality to make it easier for the writers. He’s an enjoyable character, and respectfully treated, and I love him and the writers and the actor.
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Haluaisin ihan kauheesti olla osallisena jossain lukupiirissä, mutta en sosiaaliselta peloltani kykene. Musta tuntuu muutenkin, että niissä on usein vaan vanhempaa porukkaa. Eikä mua kauheesti huvittais lukee jotain sotamuistelmia, vaan vaikka ihmisten moninaisuudesta ja sellasesta. Plus mä en tunne ku yhden ihmisen, joka oikeesti tykkää lukemisesta, niin oman lukupiirini perustaminenkaa ei oikeen onnistu. Nettilukupiirit olis kyllä käteviä, mutten tiedä niistä mitään
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Grading my 3rd graders papers and I see this 😭
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hey, lesbians are lesbians even if they’re ace or aro. we aren’t less important, our opinions on lesbian issues aren’t less relevant just because we’re also a-spec.
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me: *writes adult email*
me: *hits send while screaming loudly*
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I want to tell y’all a story about supporting and loving your partner, starring my amazing wife.
I’ve mentioned before that I had an eating disorder for many years, and though I consider myself “recovered” there are aspects of my disorder that I still struggle with today — being quite a bit heavier than my wife is one of them.
When my wife and I moved in together back when we were still girlfriends, I was at my skinniest. She used to pick me up all the time and lift me off the ground, and I’d laugh and kick out my legs ‘cause I was just delighted to have her holding me.
But I started gaining weight as I went through recovery, and where once we were pretty close in size, I began to get bigger. And bigger. And bigger. And she remained her naturally petite self. I began to almost dread when she’d try to pick me up, sure that this time she wouldn’t be able to get me off the ground.
But every time, even if I protested, she’d lift me up and say something like: “See, you’re not so big that I can’t lift you!”
And one time I just blurted out: “But someday I’m going to be so fat you won’t be able to.”
She looked me dead in the eye and said: “No you won’t. Because if that ever happens, I’ll start working out.”
It was the best possible thing she could have said to me, because she wasn’t saying I wasn’t going to get fat — neither of us knew that for sure. She was just saying that I was never going to be “too fat” for her.
And every time I worry about getting bigger, I remember that I’ll never be so big that she can’t lift me, because baby knows how much I love being held, and she’ll change her own habits to ensure that I never feel “too big” or “too heavy” because in her eyes I’ll never be “too” anything.
Anyway, there’s a moral to this story: Find yourself a partner who will never consider you an excess. You should never be “too much” to someone who loves you — too big, too loud, too passionate, too awkward, whatever your “too” happens to be. And even as you change and grow (in my case, literally), the right person will be there through the changes, to tell you that you’re always just right for them.
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I feel attacked rn
Me: “Yeah I read all the time! I’m always reading a book-”
My books sitting unread on my bookshelf:
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“Thief” by Woshibai
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actually good wlw movies
bc im sick of yall copypasting the netflix lgbt section. these are all movies i watched and can confirm theyre good. some of them have lesbian themes rather than romance but its better than watching like, loving anabelle or sth. my personal faves have an asterisk next to them.
but i’m a cheerleader (a classic)*
miao miao (no romance but SO GOOD. totally worth it) *
alto
imagine me and you
the handmaiden**
the hunger (!!)*
the incredibly true adventure of two girls in love*
joven y alocada*
mosquita y mari
the girl king (period drama!!)
addicted to fresno
la belle saison
liz in september
the summer of sangaile*
carol
life partners
vampyres
contracted*
appropriate behavior*
reaching for the moon*
violetas: tensión sexual
bye bye blondie
les chansons d’amour (half abt a poly w wlw, half abt a mlm relationship)
pariah*
the children’s hour
valerie and her week of wonders (lesbian themes)
therese and isabelle*
circumstance
el niño pez
water lillies
fucking amal
rent
rara
drool* (HONESTLY THIS IS RIGHT UP THERE W BUT IM A cHEERLEADER. A MUST WATcH)
with every heartbeat
im still going thru my list so i’ll update this when i got more. feel free to ask me abt triggers or plot or anything else about these!!
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