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problems w ace idpol

I’ve been blocking a ton of people on the “no-sex bar” post and like what I’ve been bothered most by is the assumption that a space with only- or predominantly-ace people would be completely devoid of sexual harassment or “rape culture” simply because us Filthy Allosexuals™️ aren’t present.

Workplaces are supposed to be non-sexual environments, and yet people still get pressured into quid pro quo exchanges to keep their jobs or get promotions they’ve probably already earned, people still get sexually harassed, people still face discrimination based on their gender and sexuality.

Public spaces are supposed to be non-sexual because lewd conduct is illegal. And yet, people are still catcalled and groped.

The issue is not that we don’t have “non-sexual spaces”, the issue is that we have a culture geared towards male entitlement and the dehumanization of non-men as being consumable for men in some way or another.

The fact that people think men, even ace men, will somehow completely cease all forms of harassment and violation of others’ autonomy simply because you say “no sexual contact allowed!” shows how absolutely ignorant most of y’all are to how the world actually works.

And this is a big reason “ace discourse” and the presumption that all ace people should be inherently queer concerns me. Because even if you do create “ace safe spaces”, when you allow people who are materially in social classes of power (ie. cishet men) to be in those spaces, they are inherently not going to be safe.

There is always going to be a problem with communities who refuse to self-crit and reject any “outside” (which is stupid considering ace ppl want to be “acknowledged” as being queer/LGBT) criticism as to the material implications of those identities.

One of the biggest problems will be predators can hide behind the wall of identity purism and y’all will protect them because it’s more important to “protect aces” than to protect folks who are marginalized under pre-existing social stratification.

You are aligning yourself w someone who benefits from and contributes to misogyny, rape culture, and homophobia solely on the basis of completely fluid and self-applied labels that you expect to go absolutely uncriticized.

It’s bewildering to me how people are so committed to constructing their own narrative of oppression and discrimination that they simply refuse to acknowledge the way oppression exists as a material force. The inability to differentiate between the “micro-labels” that detail the minutiae of your romantic and sexual experiences from identities which serve as markers for oppression by a cis/heteronormative is not only counterproductive, it’s also massively dangerous.

The fact that folks get burned at the stake for making those kinds of statements is just 🤷🏾‍♀️ absolutely ridiculous but what’re you gonna do.

#i agree with this post but i feel its worth noting that even if you create a 'safe space' where only marginalized ppl are allowed #thats not a guarantee that abuse or sexual harassment wont happen bc those things are normalized in our society even beyond #traditional dynamics of power

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mis tesoros... <3

#QUE BELLOS #gohan bailando rancheras... #hanvi #dbz

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#dbz #hanvi #celebrating that we finally got to the saiyaman arc in our dbz rewatch ^_^

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this art is so funny to me its like theyre doing that hot girls standing with car to promote it thing but they both look like butch lesbians

#teen gohan rly did look like a butch lesbian its moe #dbz #hanvi

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Title: Ties of Blood

By: Studio Shamparin’ Gompa

Published: 1992/12/29

This one made me laugh. 

From what I can tell Mirai Trunks decides to leave before they fight Cell and sucks Vegeta in a ‘human capsule’ for his mom.  When Trunks un-capsules him Vegeta asks who the old woman is, which is why Bulma’s mad before getting emotional and jumping him.  There’s more to this story, but it’s not so easy to puzzle out just by looking.  I’ve given it to a translator so fingers crossed we all get to read it in the future.

#LMAO #this one is great #dbz #vegebul

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the essential dykes to watch out for

#when will this be me

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Grima's favorite, probably

#fe13 #henry

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me every day without fail: I'll do [chore] when I get home

me when I get home:

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#jjba #jotaro #jolyne

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could you imagine being a man, a sis gender man, who is really into sounding other men. It's just the only way for you to get off really. But one day you meet a man that you really like, and you just connect with him on a whole other level. And you guys finally get to the point where not only are you in the bedroom with each other, but you're starting to get more open with each other too. About all the things like. The only issue is, is that this man is transgender. He does not have a penis he has never pursued any sort of bottom surgery. So he still has the whole set, the labia menorah menorah the majora Little China adequate Torres. And he also has a urethra. Now he's willing to indulge in your special weird little thing. You're sounding. And you guys finally get to the bedroom and you have your little sounding pole or whatever it is they use. But you realize some thing very quickly. Do you know where the clitorises you know where the clitoris is, but where… Is the urethra? Riddle me this Batman

i've tried answering this ask in three different ways and each time it deleted whatever i added. labia menorah menorah the majora Little China adequate Torres. Every time i try to find a new angle to work on this answer with i read another sentence that makes me wince so hard i forget 3/7ths of the english language. labia menorah menorah the majora Little China adequate Torres. i literally am trying to think of any kind of response but verbally i keep repeating it. "labia menorah menorah the majora Little China adequate Torres." it's like a spell. it's fucking addicting. it's the only way i know a human being sent it because that was for fucking sure speech to text happening right there for a single sentence. labia menorah menorah the majora Little China adequate Torres.

#this one is making me laugh too hard i need to get it out of my sight

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It’s really heartening how much people on this site came together to help Ahmed @90-ghost. He’s in Egypt now with his younger brother waiting on his mom and older brother to join them. The issue now is living expenses. Life is extremely difficult for displaced people, and the future is uncertain. If you’ve ever wondered how you can help a Palestinian displaced by the genocide, here’s one way to do so.

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god gives the most fuckable mutuals to the most faraway soldiers or whatever the saying is

#GRRRRRRRR

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Some tweets belong on tumblr. One such case

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taboo kinks like pedophilia/rape/incest are not innate to transfemininity or to queerness or to autism and this current wave of attempts to naturalize them as such is alarming and suspicious

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#pkmn #gym leader morty

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don't get me wrong i absolutely love it when these bitches go AAAAAAAAAAA and their hair changes color and they start punching each other at super speed (the movies in particular are REALLY good at this) but also like it when they interact with each other and we get to know them as characters and there are silly shenanigans about being aliens with super strength living on earth. super had a lot of episodes like this which is what got me hooked on db after all this years and its also why the tournament of power was a huge disappointment for me like man who cares about jiren standing in the same spot for 15 episodes show me vegeta training bra

honest to god toriyama is (was lol) a PUSSY for not letting gohan remain the main character idgaf if 40 year old men think gohan is whiny or whatever. dragon ball is peak when its being slice of life and not when goku is fighting the same guy for 30 episodes

#db posting #sorry for having strong opinions about db. in 2024