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Rejection-based/RSD Affirmations

self Now as many people who struggle with issues with rejection know, this problem is very annoying and can be debilitating in social situations and relationships. The following is a list of affirmations meant to assist/ combat the feelings of inferiority, shame, and awkwardness that these thought patterns can often bring. I hope these are helpful and ease some of this discomfort.

I know my truth, and that is what matters.

I am allowed to be proud of my talents, regardless of what others say.

My interests are valid, and I am allowed to be passionate and excited about them.

I am lovable, even if some people do not like me.

I do not have to apologize for being authentically me

People disagreeing with me does not mean that my opinions or perspective is invalid.

I am likable

I am strong

I am worthy of the time and attention of others.

I do not have to apologize for my feelings

I do not have to apologize for my hobbies and passions

I do not have to apologize for having needs

I do not need to apologize for my feelings

I have value, just as I am

I am allowed to have and voice my opinions and thoughts.

I don’t have to be liked by everyone to be happy.

I didn’t do anything wrong.

I am allowed to make mistakes.

I am worthy of respect

Even if some people don’t like me, that doesn’t mean there is something wrong with me.

I hope these are helpful to whoever needs them. You are valid you are lovable and you don’t have to act like anyone else to be worthy of love or attention. You can get through this, I am proud of you.

Keep fighting,

R,S,B

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BOTTOMS (2023) + movie references and parallels

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willow: behind the magic - “the new cast”

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shout out to the costume design of Willow (2022) that made the men wear the necklines they deserve while giving the women badass knight fits

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Totally

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Darling, there is no arrow that can pierce your heart that does not first pierce mine.

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(thinks about how caramelinda and lazuli first met) (thinks about lazuli dreaming about caramelinda long before she ever met her) (thinks about lazuli seeing her across the ballroom before the war and knowing for a certainty that she was her future wife)

✨ kofi link in bio if you’re feeling generous ✨

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Oh my love, how you have left me.

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“Now, the fact that Lazuli didn’t tell me. That stings.”

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owl season 3 predictions??? mine is that the boiling isles is weirdmageddon style and all the townies band together being general baddasses. this will grant us the lilith/willow dads, boscha/hooty, darius/alador content we’ve been waiting for

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i want them carnally #munamascfriday

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i am not normal about them at all

Josette Maskin from MUNA by, Marissa Kaye

#muna #josette maskin

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cydney from princess cyd is very autistic. just so you know

#princess cyd

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So I asked nonbinary reddit this a while back:

And they really went all out, here are some of my favorite responses:

And of course, the most confusing of all to cis people:

Link to the original if you wanna see more responses! 

Edit: first off, wow I did not expect this to take off like it did, thank you! 

Second, this somehow made it onto TERF and anti-sjw tumblr and their replies are just proof they have no sense of humor.

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new pride flag for the people who don't know how to respond when asked about their gender identity/pronouns

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i’m not normal about them AT ALL