Hi! I'm Philip. 38. TX. History. Music. Foreign things. ISFJ. Christian. Trying to be the best person I can be. I often use this as a place to vent about my struggles with depression or loneliness, but there is so much more to me than that. Please get to know me! I'm always happy to talk. If you want to see what I look like, type "self" in the search bar on top. Thanks! :)
I had a dream last night, and two of my friends from high school were in it. I haven't seen them for 15 years now, and I'm not quite sure what brought it on. But I wish I could tell them I miss them and see how they are doing, but I have no idea how to get ahold of them. I checked and couldn't find either of them on facebook. Now I'm really sad. :(
I stopped trying to put myself out there, I don't take enough chances, and I don't ask anyone for help. I don't use all the resources available to me. Whether it's a chicken or the egg thing, I let my self esteem, depression, and anxiety stop me from getting what I want. And yet I still let it stop me, even though I know it's doing it.
You can't win the game if you don't play. It's my fault I'm alone. And honestly, I deserve it if I can see that and I'm doing nothing to change it.
Not gonna lie, lack of intimacy is making me really sad lately. I just have keep hoping and praying that everything will turn out the way it's supposed to, and that I have enough patience and serenity to handle whatever happens.
I had a dream last night that I lost my virginity, and it was a really nice experience and she said I did good for my first time. And she liked me and wanted to be with me. Then we had sex a couple of more times, and in the middle of it, I realized I was dreaming and I woke up, and I was going through the motions and everything.
I never have dreams where I have sex. Ever. I don't know if it's because I forgot to take my medication yesterday or what.
But I woke up and it made me so depressed I can't stop thinking about it.
I'm so tired of being lonely. I want to give myself to the right person, and it doesn't feel like it will ever happen.