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Most people don’t actually want to get to know you. They just want to show off and pretend they’re all that, as if they aren’t the most insecure people in the world. That’s why I love having fewer friends. I was always so desperate to have a huge friend group and to “be normal”, and looking back, I’m glad I don’t cause I repel fake people and that’s a good thing. That was always a good thing.

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And it’s also funny how the same people who say you have to open up and speak up are those SAME DAMN PEOPLE WHO REFUSE TO ACTUALLY ENGAGE IN A CONVERSATION WITH YOU. They refuse to be patient and understanding and wait for you to gradually open up. They just ignore you and immediately move on after asking you why you’re so quiet. Mmkay so what the fuck was the point of all this???

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I’ve been treated like something was wrong with me my entire life, and have been told that to my face, and look where I’m at now… I am still the exact same person I was when I was six years old, I just know a lot now and have realized that the people around me were just fucking ignorant as hell and disrespectful towards anyone who was different. And on top of that I’m autistic, makes me even more pissed off cause the ableism from others was just potent.

I’ve always thought I’d just magically turn into this loud, extroverted person once I got older, and that’s not how life made me. The deities did not make me that way. They wanted a Badass Silent Goth Bitch and they got it. The only thing I’m missing is the expensive dark castle so I can stand before a tall glistening window, and watch all the peasants wandering down below.

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I’m glad my friends are all neurodivergent and my partner is. Ion want none of you neurotypicals. I ain’t for you. You can’t handle me and you never will.

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The sad part is that it was also black people doing it. ALWAYS YOUR OWN PEOPLE REINFORCING HARMFUL STEREOTYPES. I can’t stand that shit! Complain about white people generalizing all black people, and then go and do it to your own ethnicity, and then wonder why shit ain’t changed.

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If anyone has a problem with shyness or quietness in any way, especially from black people, I do not like you. This blog is not friendly towards you and you can fuck off. This blog will always advocate for shy quiet people, especially shy quiet black people.

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As a shy and quiet person, I love the fact that I’m mysterious to people. That they lose their minds cause they can’t fathom the idea of someone not running their mouth for no reason, and just sitting there minding their own business. Bonus if you’re black cause they expect all black people to act loud and extroverted, and that’s not me.

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shoutout to all the fat people i've seen wearing whatever the fuck they want in public. shoutout to the fats who wear the skimpiest clothing. shoutout to the fats who wear alt fashion, including cutesy kinds. shoutout to the fats who go to the beach shirtless or on bikinis. shoutout to the fats who wear stripes and light colors, or other clothes we're told aren't flattering on us. shoutout to the fats who wear athletic wear. shoutout the fats who wear the comfiest oversized clothing. shoutout the fats who wear what they want regardless of what thins/"fits" think.

all of you are marvelous and have slowly but surely inspired me to wear whatever the fuck i want as well. i wish you and all other fats nothing but happiness and comfort in self expression <3

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I swear I’m not racist by the way my best friends are white! I love white people!!! I’m 2% white!!!

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Teach Consent | End Rape Culture | Yes Means Yes

If She’s Not Having Fun You Have To Stop

“We’ve begun to raise daughters more like sons… but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters.”

- Gloria Steinem, feminist, journalist and activist

“This is what consent looks like”- Planned Parenthood

Lots of sharable graphics / printable posters from this awesome campaign here

Watch Sad13’s (Speedy Ortiz’s Sadie Dupuis) “Get a Yes” Video

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More info:

7 Rules For Fun And Consensual Sex, Courtesy Of Planned Parenthood

Education about consent is sexual assault prevention.

More posts on teaching consent and consent culture

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Labour is going to win the general election and then say this doesn’t go far enough.

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“The way people treat you is a statement of who they are as a human being. It’s not a statement about you.”

— Unknown

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So when I first listened to Little Things by One Direction I thought one of the lyrics said: “stomach with eyes” when talking about insecurities, and I was like “Oh, wow, you have eyes on your stomach? Neat. So many different features people have. The human body is so diverse. Kind of odd though.” But the actual lyrics were: “stomach or your thighs”…

And I didn’t realize that until a very long time later.

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It’s so ridiculous cause if one claims to be progressive and leftist, and claims to be determined to unlearn their bigotry and to learn and GROW, they should be open to recognizing fatphobia, and how deeply ingrained it is in society. And how horrible it is. And how casually it seeps through everything. It’s not that hard.

They can write all these essays about how you need to go deep into your brain cells and pick every single piece to change your way of thinking for other bigotries, talking about how “it’s hard but you still have to unlearn it”, or something like that, but when it comes to fatphobia, suddenly it’s too hard??? Suddenly you don’t have to unlearn it??? Uuuuuugggghhhhhh

Whenever I see Harry Potter and JK Rowling criticized, it’s always for transphobia, anti-semitism, and racism, but NEVER the blatant and disgusting fatphobia present in her books. Progressives, leftists, and people who are part of other minorities don’t give a shit about fat people.

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FUCKING GET EM!!!!

-Mod Worthy