people often say
“my prayers go unanswered”
and that God is silent.
and sometimes i wonder
if maybe their prayers have already
been seen to
maybe God has been speaking all along,
and they just
didn’t know it.
maybe we are born with a question
and before we know how to form it
the world is there, already, as an
Answer.
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I liked your post,
sent you a picture,
gentle nudges to say "hello."
I never closed my door,
not to you.
You just don't come over
any more.
It's like running into each other
in the virtual grocery store,
and you say things like,
"Oh my goodness, they're getting so big!"
and "yeah, life is trucking along."
and then you say, "Well, I should be going."
I'd hoped you'd say, "Let's grab coffee."
(I didn't suggest it
in case you said no.)
but you didn't, so I say,
"Good to see you, say hi
to the family."
And I go home,
and I make my steak the way
you did that one time,
seasoned and seared and really good.
I should've risked it.
I should've asked you
if you wanted to grab coffee.
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“Jacob have I loved, but Esau have I hated.”
No one cares what Esau did, in the time between. Jacob, the thief, was stolen from and gained two wives for it. Jacob, who closed his eyes to the sacred, wrestled with God and was given a new name. Jacob, blessed and blessed and blessed again. Jacob, beloved.
No one cares what Esau did, in the end. The only thing they remember is he forgave.
No one cares.
So I open my mouth, with smiling lips, and I forgive.
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Golden Rule
My son is six months.
When he cries to be fed,
he must be fed now,
too small to brook
any delays with grace.
I tend to procrastinate
feeding myself, which is
admittedly, something of a
problem. And caring for him
kind of makes me wonder:
There's wisdom in heeding your body,
wisdom in meeting your needs.
Oxygen mask on yourself first, yeah?
So why do I delay
the care of my own self?
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"When will you be home?"
you asked me, and I started to answer
how long till I reached my house.
That wasn't your question.
You wanted to know when
I'd be in your town - my hometown - when
would I come for a visit?
I realized then that isn't home.
Not anymore, not since
all the changes and growth and new ideas.
People talk about outgrowing places.
I just never really thought
it would happen to me.
Not till you asked when I'd come home.
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i want to be happy
and i am, i think
but i keep trying to capture happiness
and it tastes strange between my teeth
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“I want to chop all of my hair off,” said the girl. It was an announcement made casually.
The old woman said nothing.
“Did you hear me?” The girl lifted her chin. “I said I wanted to chop all of my hair off.”
“And where will you be,” the old woman said, not exactly kindly, but certainly not unkind, “when your hair is in pieces around you and you hate it because you stayed so patient, year after year, for it to be long?”
“I want it off!” shrieked the girl. “I want it all off!”
For everyone knows that the best thing, when you don’t feel beautiful, is to make yourself feel a little strange, a little new, a little not yourself. Not ugly perhaps, but putting on ugliness like brand is preferable to having it come upon you as innate as your own existence.
“Your hair has been short before,” the old woman wisely said. “And you hated it.”
“No, I didn’t,” argued the girl. “I didn’t hate it. I didn’t like it, but I didn’t hate it.”
The old woman said nothing. She was probably thinking about people choose things they know they don’t like, just to have the chance to choose at all. She would know about that, as an old lady. Really, people aren’t so different in age. They make the same decisions, they just look different because the choices are grander, more important, more agonizing if wrong.
The girl had gone quiet. A smooth hand slid between a gnarled one. They didn’t look at each other.
She said, quietly, “I wish you didn’t hold your sadness close to you. It makes me feel like I’m not here.”
There was a wry twist of lips. “I can still hear you,” she told the girl amusedly.
The girl was nonplussed. “I know that,” she said. She swung their hands back and forth. “But there’s a difference between hearing and listening. Sometimes I feel as if you stopped listening.”
“That’s how I grew so old,” the woman said softly.
The little girl said nothing, but nodded at her with companionable eyes. They patted each other’s hands.
The sunset fell, a red one that made the world seem scarlet; objects and stones seemed to pulse, as if this new energy was the true world beneath the commonplace. For now all was to be seen, at least until twilight cast her gauzy veil upon everything and all that was strange would become commonplace again.
That’s me, thought the old woman. That’s what I am.
And, because twilight had come, she sighed and went back inside, patting her own hand.
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It is a slow drip
from head to page,
no matter how riotous
the mental fountain of words.
Ah well.
I will not complain.
Even a slow drip
can fill a cup with time.
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My Lover Dies For Me
There are no good men left,
they say.
And I look at them and laugh.
My love dies for me.
We have no bullets whizzing through,
only the deaths
of a thousand paper cuts:
chores stacking up,
the everything at once
of children, bills, life,
sickness and health.
My lover dies for me,
taking on the weight
of the whole world, while I
fight to take it back
(or at least half of it).
This is why we fight:
to make the other rest,
to outshine the other's care.
My lover dies for me,
the best of all who live,
my sanity, my safety.
My lover lets me live;
and I, without my lover,
would be lifeless.
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Do you know how I
love you?
You have ruined me for
any others.
The bar set so high,
they don't
even know to try to
pole-vault it.
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"This house you bought,"
they told us,
"was a house of love.
She was a good woman."
Friends and neighbors alike
united in their praise.
I think we sensed that,
when we walked through the house.
Family pictures everywhere,
the trappings of her ended life,
her faith and her music and,
in one room,
the penciled heights of children.
This house we own now,
I tell you,
is a house of love.
We have a legacy to uphold
with friends and neighbors alike
united in our home.
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On top of
the unending
everything else?
Tonight i have
a hangnail.
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theology
It feels like
everyone's just arguing about
who's in, who's out,
who counts as loved.
But I
just want to play
the childhood game
and bring you
under my umbrella
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I was thinking about your future,
as sisters do,
imagining what it would be like
For you, I imagine it
golden, and full of love
Renee Olstead-love-that-will-last
I imagine some things will be different
than you’d want
but they’ll be good too
And I think you’ll have kids now
and you’ll be tired and exasperated and
full of so much joy with them
You thought once you might have one
with that one guy
and the idea dismayed you
I don’t think,
with this new guy,
the idea would dismay you now
So I’m imagining your future
golden and full of love
and I’m hoping for you
it’s perfect
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I put his shoes and socks on him
and took him for a walk.
He walked into a mud puddle
before he’d even reached the park.
Shoes and socks can dry, my dear,
and so will little feet,
so splash around, my little clown,
and never mind being neat.
I fed him dinner, fed him well,
gave him a little fork.
But it was his small fingers
that scooped potatoes and pork.
Eat your food, my little love,
and we’ll wash hands when you’re done.
More important that you eat,
and no harm in having fun.
I popped him in the bath that night
with toys bobbing all around.
But they would not do as well as I,
as we very quickly found.
Splash around, my little duck,
and I will splash with you.
You grow too fast; you do not last,
So I’ll treasure these times with you.
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Little teeny papercut
don’t know whence it came
right here on my forefinger
(the writing one, a shame).
Now I live in agony
or mild annoyance, at least
until it’s all healed over
and my suffering is ceased
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I am weary, I am weary
For you, my love, I go on
For you, my love, I will find
fresh wells of compassion and patience,
I will care for my own body
so that I will have energy
to care for yours too
over and over, my love, I will help
I am weary of the work,
But that does not mean I will give it up
Not as long as you need me,
and need me gentle and kind and loving
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