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Thinking about the dichotomy of "I feel uncomfortable/triggered in the presence of x/y/z environments I would like to be someplace without that" that I constantly see online and when I tell my therapist I really get uncomfortable when people raise their voices around me even if they aren't actually mad and her response of "you can only control your own reactions and emotions, it's not really fair to police others on how they should exist in your presence" and honestly it sucks to hear but she's right.. it's good to have people be conscientious of what triggers you but really it's up to us to do the hard work of building that emotional resilience. The idea of people around me having to be hypervigilant of what they say and do lest I start getting dysregulated does not sound fun at all, I want people to feel comfortable being themselves around me and that means training my dumb lizard brain to chill tf out. Living in a constant state of avoidance sucks ass for everyone involved.
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tiktok objectively sucks in a lot of ways but I will admit that getting to witness thousands of allegedly heterosexual young women have an identity crisis in real time after attending Olivia Rodrigo's Guts tour is both a) not something I'm seeing on tumblr and b) an absolutely magical experience
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for ages i thought i didnt like drag because of internalized homophobia but it turned out i just don't like bright lights and loud music and really visually complicated things
spd is homophobic i guess is what im saying
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professor-rye · 4 hours
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It's always
"When will fanfic writers update their stories?"
And never
"Does this fanfic writer have adequate enrichment to engage in writing behaviours?"
Fanfiction writers (Scriptor fictus) are intelligent animals who need plenty of enrichment as well as encouragement! If they're stuck in poor conditions (e.g. have studies, work, have to actually write to have something written) then they require the proper enrichment to engage in more healthy behaviours, like writing. Remember, due to poor breeding and socialisation, over half of all fanfic writers suffer from low self confidence and executive dysfunction so take care of them!
Give your fanfic writers proper care. Fanfiction writers are a life long commitment.
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professor-rye · 4 hours
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I never want to hear conservatives go on about repressive censorship in China, North Korea, and Iran ever again
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professor-rye · 4 hours
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hey
hey you
do the backs of your knees hurt
do you have weird knee pain
does standing feel upsetting
congrats!
you probably have hyper extended knees!!!
what’s that?
it’s when your tendons extend further than a straight line, commonly on knees and elbows
so instead of your leg being like this:
| thigh • knee | calf
it looks like this
\ thigh • knee / calf
essentially you’re probably over straightening your legs so that your knees are going behind your legs like a big obtuse angle. and that overstretches all the tendons in the back of your legs. which makes them go ouch
so soften your knees. it’ll save your life or at least your knees
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Daily Mirror, England, January 31, 1923  Image © The British Library Board. All Rights Reserved. 
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professor-rye · 5 hours
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Idiots to lovers implies that they stop being idiots when they finally get together, but that is just not true, they will always be idiots
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deadass should i comment on like YEARS old fics i get nervous to i dont wanna be annoying
Yes! Comment!
The author will likely really appreciate it! And if they don’t nothing will come of it!
It’s a win/win!
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YOU want your favourite character to be safe and happy. I want mine exhausted, beaten down, covered in scars and blood, made the wretched plaything of a terrible higher power. is that so much to ask.
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It’s so fun that for the low, low price of 5.99 a month I can watch a man’s soul die in real time.
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legend of vox machina got me thinkin of my favorite twins again 🥺🥺🥺💖💖💖💖
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He seems to be well liked by animals.
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professor-rye · 5 hours
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"we live in an uncaring universe"
false. i care very deeply. am i not a part of this infinite universe?
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