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questioning culture is being out as one thing, but starting to think for a while that another label fits better, but always being too unsure about every label and too embarrassed to ever tell anyone

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Questioning culture is wondering why you feel uncomfortable being called woman, but girl feels nice. You really don't believe in gender and find it pointless, but you like you're fem identity. I'm wondering is it because I don't feel matured enough so woman feels like something a title/label I'll grow into at a certain age?

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Questioning culture is wondering why you feel uncomfortable being called woman, but girl feels nice. You really don't believe in gender and find it pointless, but you like you're fem identity. I'm wondering is it because I don't feel matured enough so woman feels like something a title/label I'll grow into at a certain age?

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#questioning #questioning culture #questioning gender #gender #i don't know your age so i can't tell you whether you will just grow to feel like a woman within the next few years #i don't think people really associate man or woman with themselves until like their mid twenties but that's just my guess as an enby #and i think that girl has become basically equivalent to guy as well as boy so it describes more stages of development #and could also be viewed as a more general term including all ages of that gender #on top of that i think guy feels less restrictively gendered so someone might identify as “just some guy” #because it's more vaguely masculine than boy or man #and that might be the case for you as well #maybe girl just feels like a little bigger of a box

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questioning culture is keep finding labels that describe u more everytime to the point u have no idea what to label urself anymore

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#label hoarding really is a mood #aka i dont know but all of this sounds relatable #questioning #questioning culture

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there is a blog for people questioning their identity, including sexuality and orientation right here!!!

hi sorry I know that this isn't really an aro/ace question but is there one of these blogs for people questioning their orientation or sexuality

Submitted July 5, 2023

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Questioning culture is managing to convince yourself that you think of your transmasc non binary crush as a girl and are actually straight, despite them not being a girl and you not being straight.

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#ah yes the imposter syndrome #dont we love it #tw transphobia mention #imposter syndrome #questioning culture #questioning #questioning orientation

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gender questioning culture is not feeling like you’re one or the other, but rather an unidentifiable blob that you can’t seem to put a label on….

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#questioning #questioning culture #gender #questioning gender

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so ive been questioning my gender a lot more recently. im afab but i dont rlly vibe with it. i hate having breasts and it literally feels like having a penis would be like finding the last puzzle piece to a puzzle for me but i dont think i can fully be a man. i dont rlly view myself as one either its just manly features like a flat chest and bulge would make me so much more comfortable within myself

that sounds like you have a lot figured out already! If you know what makes you happy or comfortable, finding a label to describe that might not be as important anymore, but if transman or transguy don't sit well with you maybe something broader like transmasc might.

#if you want to try and see how you like you appearance with a flat chest and a bulge you could try binding and packing #you can make packers yourself from socks #theres a few tutorials out there #you can also buy some if you would like specific functions #don't bind with makeshift binders including layering sports bras or too small bras #if you cant get a proper binder try loose clothes with cuts that hide your chest well #generally speaking black tends to hide more as well #questioning #questioning gender #advice #gender #questioning culture

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Sexuality/romantic orientation questioning culture is thinking you've finally got your identity worked out and then realising that actually people who are [gender you didn't think you were attracted to] are Actually Quite Cool and you would date them, and having no idea whether it's actually attraction or not.

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#questioning #questioning culture #questioning sexuality

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Gender questioning culture is thinking you have it worked out and then one thing happening that changes that completely.

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#questioning #gender #questioning gender #questioning culture

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hey so I think, or thought I'm aspec, aroace or something. But also me when women.. (and sometimes enbies/gnc folk)

like women are (can be) really hot. but like I don't think I'm attracted to them really? I have a way easier time telling when women are attractive than when men are.

But yeah I was kinda wondering what it could mean like having a type who you aren't like attracted to really, like don't want to date them, fuck them, befriend them or be them, but think are hot.

Another thing that got me questioning is a thing where I've - kinda jokingly - said my type is like pretentious people, and don't really know any. And if I just haven't met my type basically..

Also if anyone else relates to any part of this?

hi anon!! maybe check out aesthetic attraction, that might be what you're experiencing! here's an explanation of it to get you started

hope that helps!!

#questioning #not questioning culture #mod t #advice

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Questioning culture is identifying as a bi girl and then getting a crush on a boy which causes you to question your entire life because all your sapphic friends make jokes constantly about how being attracted to men is gross and bad but god damn he’s so funny and cute and then all you can think about is this boy and maybe you are just straight but also girls are very pretty. Help please I am so confused

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#questioning #questioning culture #questioning bi #bi #questioning orientation #hmmm boys are pretty though #and cute #and handsome #and hot #and charming #and beautiful #and very fucking attractive #and there is nothing wrong with being attracted to them #there is also nothing wrong with not being attracted to them #there is definitely something wrong with making people feel bad about being attracted to them though #did I mention funny? #and kind #and cool

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Questioning culture is going “new dnd campaign just dropped: Time to make a pc w/ my transname-in-questioning (and a meme-y last name for the little bit extra plausable deniability of “no this isn’t Gender Exploration what do you mean???”)”

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#questioning #questioning culture #questioning gender

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Back again with questioning culture is coming back to this blog a year later and all you said before is now being pulled into question again to the point maybe unlabeled seem easier for you.

I love life /s /hj

welcome back!! I also just came back to this blog after like half a year (but can't promise anything towards regular posting, I might if the queue works again) I also noticed I still have a ask from you from a while back so that might pop up soon!

#mod t #questioning #questioning culture #the return of the confusion

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questioning culture is reigniting your identity crises every time you see a fictional character of similar gender and/or traumas to yourself (/lh)

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I feel like this has been asked before but what does gender "feel" like? What does it mean to "feel" female, male, demigirl, nonbinary, agender, etc? I may be overthinking it, but I'm afab but never felt like passionately female or anything, but also never felt *not* female and I can't tell if that's a very cis experience or an agender experience or smth. I don't have any gender dysphoria or euphoria either and also don't dress overly feminine but certainly not androgynous or masculine so idk.

it has been asked before and i thought I'd get that ask again so i linked the post in my resources (pinned post)!!

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is it possible to be demisexual towards some/all genders (minus one) and allosexual towards one gender?

so for me particular, i experience romantic attraction to people of all genders. i know that for sure. but recently I've been thinking about sexual attraction, and i realize i never feel spontaneous sexual attraction towards genders besides women.

the other day, i was thinking about my current crush (who is a guy) and I realized that if we were in a relationship, I would not initiate anything sexual as of my feelings/sexual attraction to him right now but I would be fine (more than fine, i think) if he initiated things. It's like a whole thing of "i'm fine with or without it" but then again i'm not sure if i would develop sexual attraction towards him if we became closer (such as if we were dating) so i guess i'm wondering, would that be an aspect of demisexuality towards people who aren't women or am i just a panromantic lesbian who would be willing to do *stuff* with a guy i genuinely care about?

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either is possible. your attraction can be technically to any gender but be different depending on the gender, but you might only be attracted to women sexually. in any case i recommend checking out @variorientedcultureis .

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