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part of being an ally to trans men is not being a dick to cis men for their appearance btw

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Enjoy life, enjoy food, gain a little or a lot of weight who cares!! This is your life, you live how you want and do what makes you happy!! 😊

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Horniness is not intrinsically less pure than any other human motivation

#I made a sandwich because I was horny

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Okay but when their belly is just about to touch the mattress, like a hand on their lower back or just one more bite and it will be softly pressed against duvet.

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"This story shouldn't be too long, maybe like 10k words"

*Writeup of initial thoughts and the first round of bits of scenes I have in my head quickly passes 3k words*

#yet again: fuck! #why do I specifically think it'll be 10k words every single time it's never 10k words #I'm sensing... maybe like 30-40k but I'm probably clowning about that too who knows

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"ummm you know the writer only included that because they have a FETISH right?" is always so funny to me as a disparaging comment, because imagine if people spoke that way about nonsexual interests. "the lord of the rings? didnt the author only write that because he was interested in linguistics? thanks, i'll pass" "yeah, i used to love spongebob as a kid, but i can never see it the same after finding out stephen hillenburg is a marine biologist :/"

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any time I play a game with a customizable character & I say I wish they could be fatter people without fail, every single time, are like “it’s fantasy 🙄”

ok what if in my wildest fantasies where i can fly or do spells or ride dragons or date trolls i’m still chubby? what if I don’t aspire to skinniness and my weight is already my idealized self what then

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*Anon Clarified: "The act of feeding" means whatever method by which the person gets the food into their mouth (Ex: Putting food in your partner's mouth/feeding them by hand).

#Also this is why I'm always saying feedism and weight gain kink - while related - are not synonymous!

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*Anon Clarified: "The act of feeding" means whatever method by which the person gets the food into their mouth (Ex: Putting food in your partner's mouth/feeding them by hand).

#Picked weight gain only #Because I do like feeding but only the concept in fantasy #feedism polls

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I will always be a sucker for weight gain as a result of happiness and as a form of self love.

Gaining weight because you're living your best life.

Gaining weight because you love how you feel.

Gaining weight because you're being spoiled and loved and cared for.

That's top tier feedism imo.

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okay shit's getting serious I started a moodboard for the new story and songs are starting to remind me of them again 👀

#The writing version of nesting

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In regards to feedism, kink, and queerness, there's like, a specific loneliness inherit to queerness that resonates similarly across people from marginalized or niche identities. There's an alienation in being a deviation from the cultural norm that is pervasive in your life when you're queer. It's not *unique* to queerness, but it can certainly be a big part of it for a lot of people. Failing to meet or agree with the status quo is, above all else, isolating.

Growing up queer and neurodivergent has consisted of 1000 little 'oh shit' moments of realizing that I don't understand or relate to the people around me. I realized over and over that everyone has so many expectations for how I should think and how I should act that I'll never be able to fit into because they're antithetical to who I am. Which led to me feeling isolated from the world as a whole until I found my own community of queer friends.

Growing up with a natural inclination to feedism felt pretty similar tbh. It, like queerness, is lonely in its own way. It's odd to grow up being taught that you're not supposed to talk about the people you think are beautiful and the body you desire for yourself. Not being able to understand the things your peers find attractive, not wanting others to be disgusted by you, wondering if you'll ever be able to find a partner like you, being too ashamed of being seen as a predator to ever really talk about it with anyone, not to mention having to get over all the bullshit shame and phobias other people don't even seek to think about. Those experiences inform who I am, they're important to me.

Being a feedist dosen't make me queer, but it's certainly is an inexorable part of my queer identity. If you look at how alienation and social isolation link the two together it may be easier for people to grasp why kink correlates to queerness.

you perfectly captured my experience into words, also as a queer neurodivergent feedist!

#word for word my experience too #Kink negativity

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Can you draw a skinny gal getting into DND and facing the obvious consequences of the many snacks and pizzas that come with the hobby? :>

Realistically I know that table would be covered in dice and figurines and stuff but then you wouldn’t be able to see her beautiful legs 😔

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I just....I just learned that there's a word in the English language...for when you run into someone to hug them with all the enthusiasm and strength you have....I learned that it's called glomp.

My God, English has so many words to describe physical intimacy, I'm in love

#oh god I'm old I'm so old I'm so old

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i don’t hear enough praise for fat tboys with buried tdicks. yall like cock engulfed in a fatpad so much? get ready for the final form; dick from a transmasc where you have to go spelunking in a plush boycunt 🤩

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#ok as the driver of my household I'm going to have to start demanding this...

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There is something about fat that I just admire, maybe it is how round it is or perhaps how soft and warm it is, but there is just something alluring that makes me gravitate towards it, making me want to feed someone so there is more of them or just preferring a partner who is fat. And this feeling only gets amplified when stressed, it is like fat is made to be attractive, appealing and comforting