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Happy Lesbian Visilibity Week!!! Shout out to all the sex repsuled and romance repulsed lesbians out there!! hope youre doin fine :)

#asexual #aromantic #lesbian #sex repulsed #romance repulsed #mod doxi

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Aspec men deserve much more respect and recognition in the aspec community than they receive. They often face a different form of aphobia specific to them ("men are naturally sexual they can't be ace" "all men are unromantic that's not unique") this rhetoric is spouted by many, even members of our own community and I hope for a day where that is no longer the case. As an ace and demiro woman (demigirl but that's beside the point) I want to encourage folks to take the time to give the aspec men in their lives support and to the aspec men reading, you are who you say you are no matter what people say and you deserve the world. I'm sorry for the ways in which toxic masculinity has harmed you. You are a valued member of the aspec community and the queer community as a whole. No ace or aro person is broken and neither are you. I'm sorry if anyone has ever told you otherwise.

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I feel like, as an alloaro talking about alloaro stuff, I'm not allowed to tag my posts "aspec" despite the fact that I am aspec and being alloaro is an aspec experience

#just wanna say that as a blog literally titled aspec i 100% include you folks in that #aspec means all of us #allosexual or not

[romance-n-sex-repulsed-aroace]

UK Aspecs Server

Got another server for yall, this time its for any and all UK aspecs! this is an inclusive environment for aspecs from the UK to hang out and potentially meet up if they would like.

We have:

An inclusive, non toxic environment

a verification system to keep out the trolls

many on and offtopic channels

pluralkit for systems

an 18+ section

So come and join us!

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Just found a great blog for plato-repulsed apls/apothiplatonics, thoughts id share since some folks here might be interested in that butt his blog isnt really focused on that as much. @apothiplatonic

#aplatonic #apl #aplspec #repulsion #aspec

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Honestly everyone give it up for repulsed aces/aros. Yall get so much shit for having boundaries and its frustrating to watch. You're all getting sent complimentary gift baskets

#boundaries!! thats a good way of putting it yessss

[romance-n-sex-repulsed-aroace]

there are gay bars and lesbian bars and then “normal” straight bars so i think there should be aroace bars where absolutely none of that happens and we can sit there and discuss warhammer lore instead

i think that would be cool

#YES

[romance-n-sex-repulsed-aroace]

Your asexual identity and emotional feelings around sex say nothing about your political views around sex. How you feel about sex for yourself, even if it's negative, says nothing about your views around sex negativity/positivity in general.

#sex mention

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Hey... Hey if you say you support aspec people that means you also need to respect repulsed aspecs. Non-partnering aspecs. Loveless aspecs. Platonic aspecs. Other a-attraction aspecs. Old aspecs. Young aspecs. Aspecs who use labels you don't understand. Non-sam aspecs. Traumatized aspecs. Dysphoric aspecs.

You cannot only support part of the community. It's either all of us or none of us. You can't play favorites because one kind of aspec makes you feel more comfortable than others.

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when i was a kid i always just found my repulsion normal, to the extent that i thought everyone else was like that. and yknow what. screw the allos. i am normal

#sex repulsed #romance repulsed #asexual #aromantic #aro #asec #mod doxi

[romance-n-sex-repulsed-aroace]

Aplatonic Spectrum Discord Server

Are you aplatonic? or somewhere on the aplatonic spectrum? Well I have a server just for that!

We have:

An accepting, non toxic community

A verification system to keep out the trolls

Various on an offtopic roles for chatting about whatever

Pluralkit for systems

An 18+ section

So come along and join us!

[romance-n-sex-repulsed-aroace]

Aspec Content Creators Discord

I made a discord server for aspec content creators, mainly aimed at twitch streamers and youtubers.

-LGBTQIA+ safe, obviously -Range of channels for different interests -A short cw list to keep the server tidy -venting and heavy topics channels -channels for discussing aspec stuff and other LGBTQIA+ stuff

#boost

[romance-n-sex-repulsed-aroace]

It's not romantic if you don't intend romance and don't define it as romance.

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you deserve space in this world

#sex repulsion #romance repulsion #aroace #aromantic #asexual #mod doxi

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In my opinion, aromantic representation has massively increased since 2020. Massively. I remember going to Pinterest and searching aromantic and only coming up with 'a romantic', but now there's actual aromantic shit swimming around. It certainly gives me a lot of hope for the future if in merely two years we have expanded so far. We're getting there!

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I don't want romance I want to lie on a warm rock in the sun and absorb heat (like a reptile)

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Shout out to non-amorous and non-partnering folks!

Not wanting a amorous partnership of any sort does not make you lesser.

It does not mean you are missing something.

You are still whole and complete.

You are valued and you matter.

You have as much capacity for joy and happiness as everyone else.

You have a unique perspective on the world that is vital if we want to change it for the better.