Am I the bad guy?
Sometimes I think that people want me to be the bad guy, and I donāt understand why. What goes through their mind? Why do they want to make me feel like the bad guy? Iāve been through many experiences in life where, when someone does something, nobody says anything about it, but when I do the same thing, people suddenly get pissed or angry at me.
For example at my internship, a lot of times people ask if they can work home if they are sick, or other reasons. Sometimes they ask without giving a reason. I never did this at first because I was scared that if I asked, my boss would say no. Unfortunately I got sick once and asked, it was approved. The second time I asked if I could stay home is when I cried all day, and couldnāt even get out of my bed and make breakfast. My sisters wedding was also the next day, so I thought that it wouldāve been a good idea to stay home so I could get some rest and be happy at my sisters wedding.
But the boss at my internship got pissed at me, and I was so confused. It felt like a stab in the back to me, because she would always tell the interns that mental health is important. Also, why get pissed at me when also allowing other people to stay home, when sometimes, without any reason? She just replied with āthatās fine!ā To them.
This happened recently, and it really hurt me, because this happened to me many times in the past already. Why can people do certain things, but when I do it, itās wrong? This feels like double standards to me, but also manipulation and gaslighting. Iāve been through these kinds of things many times, so iām able to doubt myself less and notice toxicity of these people. Even then, I still often doubt myself.
It makes me doubt myself and not trust myself anymore. Iām scared to ask certain things because of this and this is also partly why I have social anxiety. It especially hurts me when people tell me that I can trust them, but then they get angry at you for setting boundaries.
Iām not the bad guy, right?
Itās not selfish to say that iām not, right?
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No, iām not. Iām just exhausted by peopleās toxicity. Iām just tired of always being the target. Iām just tired of always being seen asā¦
The bad guy
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