i wish conventionally unattractive women were able to be successful in the performing arts the same way conventionally unattractive men are. men just get to be talented. women have to be talented and fuckable
Someone I know not well enough to voice my opinion on the subject said something like why didn’t God make potatoes a low-calorie food so I am here to say: God made them like that because their nutrition density IS what makes them healthy. By God I mean Andean agricultural technicians. Potato is healthy BECAUSE potato holds calories and vitamins. Do not malign potato
I refuse to ever develop a crush on someone ever again
And I never again want to go out with someone I’m not sure about
I don’t want to date anymore
Not worth it, it only gives me pain and annoyance and keeps me up at night wondering whether I like them or not, because most of the time I don’t, but I’m scared to admit it to myself, because I don’t want to be alone
But now I actually rather be alone than deal with whatever comes with dating, and that we can say is the only good thing that has come out of dating for me
I’m fine. I’m just going with the flow. Floating endlessly
I really don't know how to explain to people that supporting gender liberation (liberation for trans people, liberation for gnc people, liberation from all oppressive gender roles) means you have to be able to see someone you think is cis "crossdressing" and be cool about it. You have to be able to see someone presenting in a way that doesn't make sense to you and not interrogate them about their identity. You have to be able to hear someone express a gender identity you don't understand and go "Huh! Neat," and go about your business. If you truly want gender liberation for all then you have to stop trying to exert control over other people's genders, period.