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Tell us more on how to manipulate guys 👀

Yesss so as promised here’s a few things to do

1.When you get to know someone, don’t reveal about yourself and ask them a lot about them. They will like the attention and at the end, realize they don’t know much about you, which will give an air of mysteriousness. Meanwhile, you’re collecting as much info about them to figure out what they like, what they dislike and what they seek. Then as the relationship progress, give hints and pretend to be their ideal person from the information you collected. That’s exactly what guys that want to get in your pants do. They sell a dream and once they know you caught the bait, they switch their personalities and stop pretending. Most likely will blame that change on something you did and you’ll go on a mission to change him back to how sweet and perfect he was before, but it was in fact a personality that was forged to fool you.

2.The silent treatment : most people hold to their pride a lot, give hints here and there that 1, you don’t text a lot so when you get distant and cold over text they’ll grasp on to that hope to explain any sudden disappearance, and 2, that you have pride and never go back to people that have wronged you (so when they upset you over something minor, give them the silent treatment and get them used to be the one to come back to talk and make things right and apologize), so you weaken their pride and ego and condition them to coming back to you always.

3.Lie lie lieeee, but be smart about it and don’t mix your stories up and make them believable. I always tell guys they are my firsts or 2nd, so they feel special. You have to sell yourself as someone untouchable and unattainable. But don’t go tell a guy he’s your first when you’ve fucked his cousin and PLEASE wait a decent amount of time before getting intimate. The Madonna/Whore complex really is a thing, I believe the best way to make a guy obsess over you is to project both/so he can’t fit you in a particular box : you’re out of his range, you’re untouchable, you’re divine yet so humane, sexy and carnal, so bullshit the hell out of him. Also you cheated? You lied? He caught you ? DENY! Never admit when you fucked up, even if you want to do it out of spite and hurt him. I’ll bury my secrets and all my lies with me when I die! If you have friends that can back your lies up for you and bullshit him to sell an image of you to him, it’s even better ‘’omg X is typically so cold with guys, I’ve never seen her like that with anyone but you’’.

4.Love bombing is great but you have to assert your superiority and how good, wonderful you are. For exemple, comments here and there about what your usual ideal type is to make him feel insecure and eager to compete and be the best not to lose you. The mistake I believe a lot of girl make is to be a man best source of support and let them get too comfortable, like yes he has to feel good when he is with you, but the point is that what you tell him when you love bomb him is to make him feel good only when he’s with you and insecure when he’s not with you, not feed him to make him delusional and overconfident. Play with his insecurity, redirect it so he feels lucky to be with you, don’t cure it. He has to constantly be under the impression that since you’re better than him, you can leave at any given moment and he’ll never find someone like that ever again.

5.Reinforce good behavior with love bombing and attentions targeting their specific love languages (ex: act overly excited and bubbly after he gives you a gift, if you’re typically colder be more tender and engage in more physical contacts, hug him, rub his arm scratch his hair, etc), and punish behavior you don’t like with silent treatment and ghosting (and really ghost don’t tell him anything just disappear without a word). They are your Pavlov’s experiments. :)

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“And when she was hurt, oh man, she was brusque, she was the meanest and the most brutal one around. She pulled the knife out of her back, the knife they stabbed her with, then massacred them one by one.”

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"Macht ist DAS Aphrodisiakum. Wer mächtig ist, ist attraktiv." - Henry Kissinger

#henry kissinger

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If a guy chases you, he has an agenda. He’s not emotionally invested. Once he gets what he wants or you stop running, he will disappear. Don’t give in to these men.

If a guy pursues you, he is emotionally invested. This is the kind of man that if you run, he'll stop pursuing you. If you walk towards him, he comes towards you too. If you set boundaries, he respects then, because he genuinely cares about your wellbeing.

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How does your sister make those men dote on her and make her treat like a princess? What's her ways?

She only dates men who were raised in stable, two-parent households.

She is incredibly sweet and bubbly, to the point where people (particularly men) find immense joy in doing things for her.

She's clear about her boundaries and expectations at the onset of each relationship.

She's not afraid to ask men for what she wants.

She likes to play the "I'm so helpless because I donate all of my money to those in need and I have barely anything left to take care of myself card" and it works wonders for her.

She's very beautiful, which, let's be real, helps.

She gives men just enough attention to keep them hooked yet constantly in search of earning her affection.

She only dates givers because, by nature, she's a receiver.

She doesn't do 50/50. She does something more along the lines of 125/-25.

She takes a genuine interest in their lives, experiences, and opinions.

She's very generous with her affection, warmth, and care and extremely selfish with her resources.

When she doesn't get her way with men she disappears (taking all the light out of the room with her) and doesn't come back until she's gotten her original request and more.

In short, she's insufferable yet I aspire to be her when I grow up :)

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Tonight I'm manifesting whatever they got going on

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Non-sexual things you do to drive men wild and make them happy? :)

Hi Advice Queen :)

The Non-sexual Arts I Perform on Men to Drive them Wild Are:

Treat them like they're Gods posing as men: I hold onto their every sentence and pretend to actually care. Men loveee having their ego's stroked and it's not a hard thing to do.

Give random compliments: The other day I told my man I loved his masculine eyebrows and I swear he's been smiling nonstop since. I always find a feature or trait about them to compliment and it makes them feel really, really good.

Play mind games: Call it manipulative but I like to play hot and cold to keep them on their toes and reinforce the fact that I hold all the cards. So I am sweet as honey on the phone then cold and distant over text. Works like a charm.

Write handwritten letters: It's always good to have something that stands out about yourself, and for me that's my weekly letter writing. They literally can't wait until the next one comes in and are genuinely touched by every note I send their way.

Random neck kisses: I always gotta keep it PG so I'll randomly come up behind while he's sitting, wrap my arms around his neck, and give it a soft kiss.

Make everything nonsexual, sexual: I moan slightly when I eat my food, I maintain intense eye contact during moments of silence, I wear flesh colored tank-tops when we're Facetiming, I put pheromones on top of my perfume. Basically, I work on those subconscious urges while doing nothing at all

Foot massages: Yes, I'm a very empowered woman but sometimes I choose to be submissive, get on my knees, pull out the foot cream, and give him a long massage. All men love being served and I can literally feel them melt into me when I massage their feet.

Leave him in a state of suspense: I always like to keep an element of surprise to keep things interesting (mostly for myself tbh).

Hint at the sexual: I'm always saying things like "God, I can't wait until I'm yours, completely" or "I'm buying a few new lingerie sets, what colors should I get?", or the classic "I dream't about you allll night".

Lovingly,

Elle

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