sierratheory

[sierratheory]

you'd be like "im sad and this happened" and anons would say shit like "it's formal be normal" like ??? shut up. im sorry for whatever happened. ive been following you for long enough to see every single mod go and it doesn't sit right :( im glad you're gonna continue with it, it's very much appreciated.

Truly, some people just looove to be nitpicky and make something out of nothing, and it's like if you just have an issue with me personally and/or the blog itself.. Just say so??? No need to police formal and adequate grammar, which you all who've been here for a while KNOW I use constantly regardless anyway. I appreciate your kindness a lot, anon, especially now more than ever.

I've deeply loved my friendships with all of the people I've had as mods here, and even though things have fell through with a couple of them for different reasons, I still don't regret their time on the blog and their presence was invaluable while they were here. But I fully intend on keeping things moving on here when my personal situation is a bit better. And if there are any new mods to join in the future, I know you all will be just as kind and welcoming and supportive of them. 💞

#srsly you guys are the best and i don't express it enough #i rly appreciate when you guys take time and energy out of your day to send reassuring and uplifting asks #ily!! #ask #anon #owner

[sierratheory]

“why are y’all being so formal” it’s called being mature, anon.

LOUDER!

#like i chose to keep details private while giving a smidgen of insight and i'm being dragged for being 'formal' like huh? #come again??? #ask #anon #owner

[sierratheory]

Obviously you’re gonna need some time, I’m sorry this happened to you shalee that really sucks :-( are you gonna end up looking for new co-mods? I really liked this blog especially your opinions bc I agreed so heavily with them, so it would be really sad to see you give up on it

I appreciate the sentiment, you're lovely af. 💞 I'm not sure whether I'll look for co-mods or not, it's a possibility but it's still heavily up in the air right now, considering 1) I've never intentionally "looked" for co-mods, they just sort of sought me out and fell into my lap if ygm and 2) the blog is still on a bit of a hiatus due to things going on in my personal life. I'm sure I'll have it back up and running at some point in the near future, and I'll consider whether I want to add in co-mods then, but for now it's just sort of a... Maybe? That's such a non-answer, I know, I apologize lmao. I'm sorry I couldn't give a more definitive response!!

In the meantime, if any of you would like to reach out to me, you can find me at my sideblog - here - and my DM's are always open to you all!! 💞💞

#ask #anon #owner

[sierratheory]

omg yikes why are being so formal ‘i ended our friendship’??? like literally it’s not a big deal just talk about it normally

How else would you go about saying it??? I stated things in a way that's clear and concise, it has nothing to do with the sake of formality, quit being weird and making a big to-do about nothing ffs.

#it's called having tact.. ya probably never heard of it before now tho so it's okay #ask #anon #owner

[sierratheory]

hey shalee i hope you’re doing okay with red leaving the blog, please stay safe with this and everything that’s happening at the moment

This is a sweet message, thank you! Things are definitely tough and a bit bittersweet as well, but I'm coping as best as I can both with worldly affairs + personal life + the blog situation. I hope you're doing well and that you stay safe also!! 💞💞

#ask #anon #owner

[sierratheory]

I’m sorry that you guys aren’t friends anymore. Throughout the years, this blog was a way to cope with problems I saw happening in the fandom (despite distancing myself from it, in the end). This never stopped me from checking in,—not just to see what’s happening with the fandom, but to see you guys’ opinions, how y’all handle things, and overall how strong y’all anti-bashing stance is. I just want you to know that I (readers) appreciate you, all of you owners, whether you left the blog or not.

Thank you! This means a lot and the support and reassurance is appreciated, I'm glad you find some solace in the blogs presence as well. 💞

#ask #lovelylullabyes #owner

[sierratheory]

oh god... what's going on here between you girls, if you don't mind me ask it??

I'm not going to go into details really, but I chose to end my friendship with Red over our conflicting opinions about a moral stance, and I simply expressed I wasn't comfortable continuing the friendship in light of knowing what her stance was. That's it, really, but she's obviously and justifiably upset over my decision. As much as I valued our friendship and time as co-mods, the aftermath of her behavior towards my decision ultimately doesn't make me regret my choice to end the friendship at all. It is what it is, you live and you learn, and friends come and go.

#this is a bit more than i was ever even planning on publicly stating abt the matter #and it's really as far as i'm willing to discuss it on a public platform like this #there's no bad blood from my end it's just that things kind of fizzled out in a sudden way tbh #owner

[sierratheory]

To be fair, I didn't bother to check whether I'd been blocked or not, because 1) I messaged so soon after you made your decision to let you know that you'd need to remove yourself and 2) and at the time I sent the message, I'm 98% certain I wasn't blocked. Regardless, how was I supposed to know you also didn't have me blocked on Tumblr...? I figured this was simply the best way to reach you about the matter, all things considered. Anyway.

Hey all,

I’m leaving the blog. I don’t really wish to go into detail, just know Shalee and I’s friendship has ended and I am removing myself to avoid further damage or pain. I wish you all the best.

Red

#owner

[sierratheory]

No, you’re not muted. I blocked you. You also easily could have messaged me here on tumblr but since you insist on making it public here we are. I went to bed, and I’m just waking up I have to go on laptop to leave the blog, sorry for the inconvenience.

Hey all,

I’m leaving the blog. I don’t really wish to go into detail, just know Shalee and I’s friendship has ended and I am removing myself to avoid further damage or pain. I wish you all the best.

Red

[sierratheory]

Since you haven't removed yourself from the admin list yet, I'm sure you still have access to the blog and are still getting notifications. So while I'm in full support of your decision and respect it completely, I'm going to ask you once again to remove yourself from the blog like you're stating you want to do, because I can't remove you as an admin. Even if I could, I'd still prefer you to leave voluntarily and of your own accord anyway. Wishing you the best in the meantime.

Hey all,

I’m leaving the blog. I don’t really wish to go into detail, just know Shalee and I’s friendship has ended and I am removing myself to avoid further damage or pain. I wish you all the best.

Red

#y'all i unfollowed her on all social media but she hasn't acknowledged my ig dm's about her removing herself #so i'm assuming she probably has my messages muted and hasn't saw - hence resorting to addressing it here #i want to be clear that i have zero resentment over the situation and the time we spent as friends or as co-mods #she simply doesn't want to be a part of the blog following the conclusion of our friendship and that's 100% okay and preferred from me also #owner

[sierratheory]

Hey all,

I’m leaving the blog. I don’t really wish to go into detail, just know Shalee and I’s friendship has ended and I am removing myself to avoid further damage or pain. I wish you all the best.

Red

#red replies

[sierratheory]

I wish people would just stop making Sierra look bad unless it's true. Faking that someone is transphobic is seriously so mean and imagine how she feels seeing that online.

Truly, it’s so shitty. And that’s part of the reason I had such a hard time believing it like.... while I have misgivings about her personality and motives I have never seen her to demonstrate anything close to what was in those faked messages.

#red replies #ask #anon

[sierratheory]

I really like Sierra and I think she’s grown a lot especially after admitting starting therapy but I rally do respect you guys here for always stating these are your opinions, having a safe space where it’s her choice to see it not like her own twitter or ig and double checking facts before you’re comfortable spreading infos. It makes me really respect you’d both and ok with our differences 🤍

Thank you! This is a really nice message 😊 also thank you for noticing as we try to keep our information as accurate as possible.

#red replies #ask #anon

[sierratheory]

The person who made the transphobic screen recordings admitted they were just bored. Sick in the head man

Honestly why, that’s so fucked

#red replies #ask #anon

[sierratheory]

The "lukes credit card" thing was a joke. You can get a gift card or card in any name, especially cards that come through the mail.

Does this excuse any of their other shitty behaviour? No.

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[sierratheory]

The drama seems to be effecting the album charting and songs charting and streaming. Seems like there losing followers alot now.

#red replies #ask #anon

[sierratheory]

I just highly doubt Luke would defend Sierra as hard as he does without seeing proof. Those screenshots are completely out of context and parts are hidden and it’s easy to delete messages. We saw that only one number from Lukerise was sent to Sierra and she said that wasn’t it. There are more than 1 members. But everyone’s ignoring the SS’s of lukerise posting lukes password And his credit card and joking about killing Sierra

Oh don’t get me wrong the LR girls are not examples of good fans. We don’t support anything they’ve said or done in regards to Sierra or Luke. But her talking to young fans, and saying the things she said don’t okay either.

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