unironically the best advice i can give to lgbt children in abusive families is to not come out. you don't owe your parents that information if they're abusive and could potentially kick you out/disown you/assault you/etc. over it. let them die never knowing their real child, it's the worst punishment you can inflict on them.
matcha is the most annoying cat ever like he’s so needy all he wants is attention and he has the most annoying meow ever and he always wants me to pet him for 20 minutes when im trying to sleep and i wake up 4 times in the night sweating profusely bc he’s sitting on my stomach being my own personal space heater and he terrorizes cherry all the time and climbs my screen door and scratches my carpet and drinks out of my water glass and sits on my face at 5 am bc he wants food but then doesnt eat it when i give it to him and he destroys my blinds and jumps on my kitchen counter and stuffs cherry into my recycling boxes and turns everything i own into a toy and tears up my shoes but i love him he’s the cutest most annoying cat ever 🥺