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CUTTING UNWANTED CORDS

Speak it boldly and believe it fully.

I, (state your full name) release, free and discharge myself fully from all previous emotional, spiritual and physical connections, promises, contracts, soul ties partnerships, relationships, curses or spells, agreements and generational bondage, that no longer serve and nourish my higher self and highest purpose. Today I am free, and restored with love and compassion, I am now aligned with the light and divine power from the source energy that created me. I will now be and can be the best me.

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Normalize hyping yourself up, you are so important and you are the best thing that ever existed so definitely acknowledge and understand that.

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Alonuko by Gbemi Okunlola

#blackowned 🇳🇬

Bridal wear

My favourite one has to be the first one, although I also see my self in the second one.

IG: Alonuko by Gbemi Okunlola

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if i met my internet friends i would be soooooo happy

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anok yai, met gala (2021)

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Kim Kardashian West

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We Need To Return Back To Mother Earth and all sentient beings…🌎

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𝐚𝐟𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐛𝐨𝐚𝐫𝐝

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the neuropsychology of self-discipline

below, I summarize the book. anything in life, any goal, and any dream is accomplishable by the power of self-discipline

every discipline person needs:

defined sense of purpose. "i know what i want to achieve, become" set a goal for yourself whatever you want out of life, make sure it's clear in your mind.

without a sense of purpose, you can’t apply yourself to anything

without applying yourself, you can never succeed

models of possibility. "if they can do it, then i can do it. it is possible for me as well!" find a positive role model in your field of interest, research them. find a role model that has discipline.

sensory vision. "i see, feel myself doing it. now i know i can do it" ability to visualize, use your imagination to see yourself already at the finish line

see things as what they could be

learn to visualize the outcome

picture all learn to visualize

the fire within. have the desire, obsession, passion, and energy to take on anything to reach your goal.

won't admit to failure

keep going won’t give up

eager to learn

not afraid to try something new

open to more than one way to achieve it

they can never believe they can’t do it

nobody can tell anyone anything

fused by self-confidence,

planning. "i know what i have to do to achieve it" plan everything you will need to become what you want, achieve it.

well set priorities

planning everything out in every detail

patient and careful planning

learning. "i can learn the skills and knowledge i need to achieve it" learn everything you need to master your dreams, develop the skills.

willing to do anything to learn more

willing to learn for as long as they need to

learning what needs to be learned in order to make your goals

persistence. "no matter how long it takes or how hard it is, I can do it"

loyal sticks with their dream

no matter what other ppl say

stubborn about sticking to their goal

don’t give up in the face of rejection

patience.

not intimidated by time

time doesn’t become a thing

time is a tool

every moment they know they are closer to their dream

knows time will pass regardless, uses it to their advantage

audiobook available. timestamps are found in the comments for reference.

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stop scrolling through tumblr blogs, twitter accounts and instagram pages preaching femininity, class, dream life, wealth, leveling up etc. and get actual hobbies, talents, skills and education! it’s great that you follow like-minded individuals but that’s just information, you have to get practical with everything you learn.

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𝐬𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐦𝐨𝐨𝐝𝐛𝐨𝐚𝐫𝐝

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Social skills are a MUST and as a High Value Woman it’s important to know how to adapt to your surroundings. It can be awkward when you’re occupying grander spaces, or engaging with high value people for the first time. But I promise, it’s not and shouldn’t be a daunting experience. This PowerPoint presentation 😂 is to help you build better connections and to encourage you to make the most of your time and interactions. As we integrate back in to society, let’s continue to go for GOLD ✨

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5 Tips On Becoming A Classy Woman

1. Demonstrate Good Manners: Always remember to be courteous and polite. "May I," "Please," "Thank You," and "Excuse Me" are examples of courtesy. When speaking with someone, remember to look them in the eyes. This is a respectful gesture.

2. Display Confidence: To be seen as a classy woman, you must have confidence. You should, however, understand the difference between confidence and arrogance. You must have the courage to believe in yourself regardless of what others say. You should be self-reliant and never be afraid to speak up when appropriate.

3. Set High Standards: If you want real change, you must be able to do your part in raising your expectations, which begins with an honest assessment of who you are. Your decisions are determined by your feelings. Negative thoughts must be avoided if you want to fill your mind with positive thoughts. At all costs, protect your peace! Internal self-talk is how you communicate with your subconscious mind; Make sure you're speaking to yourself from a higher vantage point.

4. Develop A Capsule Wardrobe: For special events, dress accordingly. Being overdressed is often preferable to being underdressed. At all times, dress clean, elegantly, and with dignity. It is not necessary to spend a lot of money to look elegant or classy. Simply strive to keep your clothing in good condition.

5. Be Well-informed: As a feminine woman, it's important to value your intelligence and learn how to not only develop but also nurture it. Reading more, as well as paying attention to the news, listening to podcasts, and learning new skills, are all excellent ways to develop the intellect. Both of these combine to make you not only multifaceted but also classy.

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The High Value Woman Mindset ✨

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How to Begin Cultivating Your Ideal Lifestyle

Align your thoughts and actions with your Intentions.

Understand the more intuitively involved you are in your own life, the more your external world will begin to reflect what you hold internally from your heart and mind.

2. Tunnel Vision

Avoid being around people who make you forget about your responsibilities. Your responsibilities are owed to your future self. When the future comes you’ll wish you put yourself first, as most friendships fade and the wrong friendships cannot do for you what you can do for yourself.

3. Holistic Approach

Attribute people, places and things to the life you want to cultivate. Find yourself involved in these specific areas. Understand your more than capable for the position you ultimately want and will hold.

4. Establish Yourself

The Earlier you start the better. Simply starting is the biggest step, seeing your way through becomes a lifestyle, while an irresistible lifestyle awaits.

Final Regards,

Giving up on your Goals is not an option. No matter what you’re going through presently it will pass as long as you stay on your intended path.

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2021 Fabulosity Reset

Happy New Year favs!!! The New Year is a time of awakening, evolving, and improving and this post is to help you all get a reset on your life. 2020 was a rough year in general but this year can be a turn around for you personally if you start designing your dream life and stay committed.

Create Your 2021 Vision Board

Take the time out to map out everything you want in the upcoming months. EVERYTHING! Make it as pretty as possible. This can include things like a dream car, a new job at your favorite store, closer relationships with loved ones, and a polished cohesive appearance. Start with a positive, attracting thought process. Doubtful thinking will not aid in whatever it is you’re trying to attract. Take magazine clippings and print out inspo photos. Write out affirmations and speak as if. Write in future tense as if you’ve already obtained everything you’re asking the universe for. Take a picture of your new pretty vision board and look at it everyday, on your phone and in person.

Dream Girl Journey by Me

Law Of Attraction Tips by Isabel Palacios

Leveled Up Mindset by The Luxe Feminine

LOA by @babyphat05

Return To Self by @thevirgodoll

My Process

Meditating

Journaling

Scripting Affirmations

Clipping Photos

Make Board

Take Picture of Board

Daily Reminders/Affirmations

Diet and Health

What are your health concerns? Go to the doctor and find out where you stand physically. Do your research on nutrition and vitamins (and their purposes). Doctors are very helpful in this regard because the ready to go vitamins may not be anything that serves you and as humans we all need different properties (different demographics, genders, races, weight, height, conditions, etc.) Create a strict vitamin regimen and get any shots/treatments that are necessary. Drink more water/non-processed beverages. Eat more clean food and meat. It’s unrealistic to say “I’m not drinking any pop, or eating any fast food.” These are pleasures to some, and living in luxury means enjoying all life’s pleasures. However, too much of a good thing is *say it with me* a bad thing! Moderate moderate moderate!!! Let moderation be your best friend this year and your health will thank you!

What I Eat in a Day by Briana Monique

Work Towards Your Goal Physique

Stop telling yourself the body you want is unrealistic!!! Chances are it’s attainable, but by working for it. Having a beautiful figure aides in pretty privilege and getting more out of life. When you wake up confident in your skin, life is much easier and opulence is more plausible. Having a nice body also sends the signal you have your life together. You have goals, you’re active and healthy, you care about your appearance, etc. You don’t even have to get a gym membership. Invest in supplies that will help your individual goals. I have a waist sweat band, a stretch band, and ankle weights because my main goals were toned legs, small waist, and flat stomach. Everyone’s journey will be different but it’s good to incorporate multiple facets of life into your body image goals. For example, not only do I do yoga, but I do cardio, and I drink protein shakes and have a weekly carb goal. (ps. if you want more noticeable curves, FOCUS ON PROTEIN. if being leaner is the goal, focus on reduced carbs and lean meats)

Burn Belly Fat by Chloe Ting

Ultimate Workout by Love Your Natural

Workouts by @angeldiscovery

Pretty Girl Smarts

A smart girl is a beautiful girl. Read books on self help, finances, nutrition. It’s such a wonderful feeling to be the one people ask about everything, because they know you’ll know something. Take a class, any class that suits you. I took a fashion class last year and learned a lot. I loved the experience. If you’re in traditional school, set high goals and accomplish them. Once you do, reward yourself. Take immaculate notes and study hard to retain all the info you’re learning. If you’re in high school and know what you want to be your career, start educating yourself on it NOW! Keep a career notebook and research on the field and topic. Find out more about international events and cultures. This will help keep you well versed. Teach yourself another language. Start reading your dictionary and thesaurus. A leveled up woman is intelligent and comes off as such. Learning is enriching. Education is a privilege that we all should be taking advantage of.

TED Talks

CrashCourse

Khan Academy

Forbes

Asap Science

Psych 2 Go

Stay Organized

GET A NEW PLANNER! Plan out your weeks and months regularly. Being overbooked is mentally taxing and avoidable by organizing every commitment you make. I recommend The Happy Planner, or Erin Condren. You could even create your own using a pretty journal, a calendar, and planner stickers. I recommend this regardless of your lifestyle. You can plan out time for pampering and you time. No matter how busy you are you can block schedule your days to keep from overworking yourself. Clean your phone out. Delete any unused apps, clutter contacts and useless screenshots. Organize your photos by category if you have too many. Make physical notes of any important texts and delete your text threads. Deep clean your home/room and throw away everything causing clutter. Sort out your clothes. I personally sort by season, then goodwill, sell, and throw away.

My Planner and Accessories

@angeldiscovery’s Angel Planner

Planner Set Up by Belinda Selene

Dream Girl Mentality

Find your confidence. Tell yourself regularly how beautiful, kind, intelligent, and fashionable you are. Never ever let your crown slip. Stay unfazed by the opinions of others. People are gonna look at you crazy for having the audacity to love yourself and want a beautiful life and to them; say nothing. Embrace your individuality. Be charismatic and like able but never sway from your true personality. People will be enamored with your social skills. Maintain yourself frequently, pamper yourself, spoil yourself and love yourself. Set goals and be ambitious this year! Keep said goals to yourself. Not only because of the evil eye, but when you talk to people about what you want, their opinions can sway your mindset. This destroys the law of attraction. Start whatever you’ve been wanting to start, but have made excuses for this far. The world is at your fingertips, literally so get what you want out of it.

Confidence Tips

Charisma Tips by @thevirgodoll

Applying Pressure by @thescorpiosfinest

What Makes a Muse

Maintaining Yourself

Keep everything highly maintained. No matter your financial situation, this is possible. Invest in cute loungewear, activewear, ensembles, and nightwear. You deserve to look great at all times. Get your nails done every 2-3 weeks. Mani and pedi. Maintain it at home with a mani kit. You’ll need a file, cuticle pusher and oil. Keep your body soft and smooth. Develop a strict self care regimen. Create a skin care routine tailored to your concerns and stick with it, twice daily. Get your brows and lashes done and keep them up at home by handling your lashes carefully. Get full body waxes once or twice a month. The smallest details make the hugest difference in a woman’s looks. These include things like white teeth, groomed brows, shaped nails, clean clothing, moisturized skin and posture. Get those six together and watch how different you feel.

My Self Care Routine

Loving Your Appearance by @angeldiscovery

Quarantine Self Care by Maya Galore

0-100 Glow Up by Ashley Devonna

Summer Glow by Ashley Devonna

Establish Your Style

A woman with a sense of self has a distinctive look. She’s recognizable by a particular set of aesthetics. Reevaluate your closet. Are you happy in these pieces? Do they make you feel powerful and confident? Do the clothes wear you? If so, get rid. Will it be extra and glitzy? Or preppy? Or minimalistic? What’s your dream lifestyle? Are you a real life supermodel or CEO? Any style you like most is attainable at any budget. Once you’ve developed your style create a signature color scheme. This doesn’t mean you can never wear anything outside of it, but what colors are you going to want to be instantly recognizable in? What textures and patterns are you into? These are the questions costume designers ask themselves to develop an assigned character sense of style and their personality too. For example, when you look at Samantha from SATC, you can tell what her personality is without watching the show. Very alpha, sexy, mature and bougie. Often times style is executed through accessories and supporting pieces. You can make two totally different look with the same shirt and pants with different jewelry, belts, handbags, etc. You can create scrapbooks, mood boards, Pinterest boards, etc. to help you along your way.

Example Aesthetic Board

Example Style Outline

Dionne’s Outfits in Clueless by ModernGurlz

Monica Colby Style Analysis by Clever & Chic

Rebuilding My Wardrobe by Coco Chinelo

New Signature Look

Finally let’s develop your signature touches on your look. Every woman I know who has life figured out has trademark factors in her appearance. This often coincides heavily with your aesthetic. These include handbags, scent, jewelry, hair, nails, a color scheme and makeup. My signature is medium length pink/nude gel nails, white toes, a silk pressed blowout, Chanel Chance Eau Tendre, hoop earrings, long lashes and glossy pink lips. I’m consistent with it. I’ve had a manager tell me “wow, you always have those hoops on, that’s so cute!” This is the goal. You want to be instantly recognizable by these attributes. Women often have a piece of jewelry they never take off that serves as their signature piece. Your signature look can be anything you want as long as you can be consistent with it.

My Aesthetic

My Style Breakdown by Anaya Ivy

I know last year was difficult, but we honestly are all so blessed to be here and able to continue our journeys. Every day is an opportunity to craft the life you want. Use this post and all the resources linked to get closer to your inner dream girl. My asks are always open if you need anything from me personally, it’s my pleasure!

-xoxo, DreamGrlArchive

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“In most of our human relationships, we spend much of our time reassuring one another that our costumes of identity are on straight.”

— Ram Dass