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Re sad pero vos sabes que si? Siento que Harry no podría superar a Ginny

Why Ginny fell in love with Harry? His personality and morality he's funny, humble, determined, selfless, powerful, generous, brave, strong, fearless, independent, smart, passionate and dedicated to his friends and love ones and extraordinary amazing person.She had an crush on the boy who lived but fell in love with Harry Potter himself.Many say she's perfect for Harry ( which is true) but people forget how perfect Harry is for Ginny. I really think she would feel incomplete and suffering very much without Harry ( in this situation if he died first) because this man is literally her anchor and her best source of happiness and hang out and does understands way more than her family ever and this man will do anything to keep her safe and she loves this side because she feel in love with his morality ( and traits i mentioned above). What's your thoughts on this?

Ok, well, I think I've said it to the point of exasperation on this blog that Harry and Ginny are soulmates so Harry dying is definitely not a pleasant scenery for Ginny.

I think it goes without being said that a Ginny without Harry would never be as happy as a Ginny with Harry.

I don't think she would ever marry or marry again if he died within their marriage. Honestly, Ginny is pretty family-oriented but from how I see it I don't even think she would have ever had children with someone that wasn't Harry, like even in some weird scenery where he didn't die. Maybe she would have adopted alone if that was a possibility.

But, going back to dead Harry, what I also think is that she would be able to still have a life worthy of being lived without him, and I don't think I can say the same for Harry.

(I need to get into Harry's pov for a second to properly explain this.)

It's not about Harry loving Ginny more because that wouldn't be true, it's just about their lives. Harry's death sequence is a very significant scene in terms of allegory. Harry sees the family who waits for him in death and he thinks he is ready to die, but his last thought is of Ginny because she is the family he can have in life, his future. Not to be dramatic but she is literally the reason why he comes back. Harry has a hard time accepting love that doesn't come from official bonds (for obvious reasons), which is why Sirius instantly becomes so important to him, and why when in DH he thinks of family he thinks only of Ginny. The other Weasleys and Hermione are substitutes for roles that should have been covered by people that died or were never born. But Sirius was always his godfather, he wasn't stealing a role that should have been of someone else. The same goes for Ginny. Emotionally speaking, in DH Harry pretty much already considers Ginny his wife. And that's a role she would have had regardless of any death.

If Ginny died, Harry would have no place where he feels like he belongs. It's established more than once and particularly in the death sequence that Ginny is home over even Hogwarts. He looks at Ginny and wishes to go home but then he bitterly thinks that Hogwarts is his home, because he has no family (he is leaving behind the only one he has, they are broken up, and he can't even say goodbye).

This is not true for Ginny, she has a home and a family without Harry. Again, she would never feel complete without him and she would be absolutely destroyed for years, and she would never find anyone who would understand her truly as Harry does. But she has a support system that eventually would make her able to keep living and not just existing.

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your thoughts on post-war, in relationship hinny fights? how they dealt with it, etc?

What we are going to see in this post: -> How they deal with conflict in canon -> My conclusions for their post-war life

How do Harry and Ginny handle conflict?

I think we should start with the fact that Harry and Ginny do not fight a lot. In all the moments in which we see them fighting, it is always about/during important life and death kind of situations. This is coherent with one of the main themes of their relationship which is this deep natural understanding that they have of one another. But let's see in detail how this prevents them from fighting and which other elements contribute to that.

While they are characters with some respectable tempers, they seem to be calmed down by each other thanks to something that goes beyond words:

“I didn’t ask — I didn’t want — Voldemort killed my parents!” Harry spluttered. “I got famous because he murdered my family but couldn’t kill me! Who wants to be famous for that? Don’t they think I’d rather it’d never —” “We know, Harry,” said Ginny earnestly. -Chapter 9, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, JK Rowling

Ginny here needs a simple sentence to calm Harry. Not only does she know what to say, but her success is probably also due to that "earnestly". Because Harry understands Ginny really well, even when angry he catches her sincerity and he deeply values it. Harry and Ginny in general are always very honest with each other, it's something that it's easy to imagine that they crave with the both of them having the experience of being manipulated. Just look at the break-up scene: Harry does not invent excuses to separate from her. He tells her clearly how things are. They are never afraid of exposing themselves to the other, again, see the break-up scene but also the kiss in DH. They are not afraid to be vulnerable with each other, and this shields them from arguments due to miscommunication.

But let's go back to them calming each other:

"Mom's right, Ginny," said Bill gently. "You can't do this. Everyone underage will have to leave, it's only right." "I can't go home!" Ginny shouted, angry tears sparkling in her eyes. "My whole family's here, I can't stand waiting there alone and not knowing and—" Her eyes met Harry's for the first time. She looked at him beseechingly, but he shook his head and she turned away bitterly. "Fine," she said, staring at the entrance to the tunnel back to the Hog's Head. "I'll say goodbye now, then, and—" -Chapter 30, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, JK Rowling

Here we can see Harry doing for Ginny what Ginny did in OotP for him. At this point, they do not even need sentences anymore, just a single look (and here they have not seen each other for nearly a year).

But there's not just their ability to calm one another when they are already angry, there's also the fact that they know how to handle each other's tempers when they're only barely showing. This is thanks to their shared sense of humor. The same sense of humor that is quite an essential part of their personalities.

"Panicked," Ginny said angrily, landing next to Demelza and examining her fat lip. "You prat, Ron, look at the state of her!" "I can fix that," said Harry, landing beside the two girls, pointing his wand at Demelzas mouth, and saying "Episkey." "And Ginny, don't call Ron a prat, you're not the Captain of this team—" "Well, you seemed too busy to call him a prat and I thought someone should—" Harry forced himself not to laugh. -Chapter 14, Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince, JK Rowling

Any kind of annoyance that Harry might have had disappears at Ginny's joke. In all honesty, they are very bad at being annoyed with each other. Harry does the same thing for Ginny at the end of the same book:

". . . so eet ees lucky 'e is marrying me," said Fleur happily, plumping up Bill's pillows, "because ze British overcook their meat, I 'ave always said this. " "I suppose I'm just going to have to accept that he really is going to marry her," sighed Ginny later that evening, as she, Harry, Ron and Hermione sat beside the open window of the Gryffindor common room, looking out over the twilit grounds. "She's not that bad," said Harry. "Ugly, though," he added hastily, as Ginny raised her eyebrows, and she let out a reluctant giggle. "Well, I suppose if Mum can stand it, I can. " -Chapter 30, Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince, JK Rowling

I don't think it's very easy to be annoyed at someone when you understand them as well as Harry and Ginny understand each other, especially when you are not the kind of people who make drama just for the hell of it.

Even when they are fully annoyed at the other, they let go very quickly:

'Oh, look!' said Ginny, as they drew nearer, pointing at the very heart of the bell jar. Drifting along in the sparkling current inside was a tiny, jewel-bright egg. As it rose in the jar, it cracked open and a hummingbird emerged, which was carried to the very top of the jar, but as it fell on the draught its feathers became bedraggled and damp again, and by the time it had been borne back to the bottom of the jar it had been enclosed once more in its egg. 'Keep going!' said Harry sharply, because Ginny showed signs of wanting to stop and watch the egg's progress back into a bird. 'You dawdled enough by that old arch!' she said crossly, but followed him past the bell jar to the only door behind it. -Chapter 34, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, JK Rowling

Harry and Ginny are not vengeful people. They are not the kind to keep petty fights going on. Even Harry's hatred for Malfoy never leads him to plot revenge against him and all his actions against him are a consequence of Malfoy's actions. This is very similar to the way Ginny uses her Bat-Bogey Hex, it's always out of necessity or a moment of blind temper, and there's never a malicious plot behind it.

We see this also in the famous "Lucky you" scene:

'All been talking about me, have you? Well, I'm getting used to it.' 'We wanted to talk to you, Harry,' said Ginny, 'but as you've been hiding ever since we got back — ' 'I didn't want anyone to talk to me,' said Harry, who was feeling more and more nettled. 'Well, that was a bit stupid of you,' said Ginny angrily, 'seeing as you don't know anyone but me who's been possessed by You-Know-Who, and I can tell you how it feels.' Harry remained quite still as the impact of these words hit him. Then he wheeled round. 'I forgot,' he said. 'Lucky you,' said Ginny coolly. 'I'm sorry,' Harry said, and he meant it. 'So... so, do you think I'm being possessed, then?' 'Well, can you remember everything you've been doing?' Ginny asked. 'Are there big blank periods where you don't know what you've been up to?' -Chapter 23, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, JK Rowling

Ginny here is very quick to forgive Harry and it has to do with the fact that, as I said, she is not someone who harbors resentment, but in a way, we also circle back to maybe the fundamental column of their relationship: they understand each other perfectly. Ginny doesn't need a five hours long speech about how sorry Harry is. It's specified if you look at the text, how Harry means that "I'm sorry" and, not only does Ginny know that, but Harry knows that she knows and has accepted his apology because he's comfortable enough to then ask his question.

This scene also brings us to another major point of how they argue with each other: respect. The way Harry and Ginny argue with each other is different from the way they argue with other people.

'WELL, I EXPECT HE'D SAY SOMETHING DIFFERENT IF HE KNEW WHAT I'D JUST—' The classroom door opened. Harry, Ron and Hermione whipped around. Ginny walked in, looking curious, closely followed by Luna, who as usual looked as though she had drifted in accidentally. 'Hi,' said Ginny uncertainly. 'We recognised Harry's voice. What are you yelling about?' 'Never you mind,' said Harry roughly. Ginny raised her eyebrows. 'There's no need to take that tone with me,' she said coolly, 'I was only wondering whether I could help.' 'Well, you can't,' said Harry shortly. 'You're being rather rude, you know,' said Luna serenely. Harry swore and turned away. The very last thing he wanted now was a conversation with Luna Lovegood. -Chapter 32, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, JK Rowling

Harry is yelling in full caps lock at Ron and Hermione, there wouldn't have been anything weird if he continued on the same line with who interrupted him in such an emotionally charged moment but the person who interrupts is not just someone, it's Ginny. So while he doesn't want her there, she is still worthy not only of his time but of his respect. He goes back to a reasonable tone. This scene creates a hierarchy between the characters. Ginny's worthy of Harry's time and respect, Ron and Hermione of his time, Luna of neither.

The scene also shows how Harry and Ginny go straight to the point: she says she wants to help him, he says that she can't, they do not dance around it and they are able to take each other's honesty. When Ginny says "There's no need to take that tone with me", Harry takes it. When Luna says "You're being rather rude, you know", he turns away. Luna may be right or wrong, but Harry doesn't care.

This clipped tone and snarkiness they use in that scene returns again:

'OK, fine, it's your choice,' he said curtly, 'but unless we can find more Thestrals you're not going to be able—' 'Oh, more of them will come,' said Ginny confidently, who like Ron was squinting in quite the wrong direction, apparently under the impression that she was looking at the horses. 'What makes you think that?' 'Because, in case you hadn't noticed, you and Hermione are both covered in blood,' she said coolly, 'and we know Hagrid lures Thestrals with raw meat. That's probably why these two turned up in the first place.' -Chapter 33, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, JK Rowling

Ginny here would very much love to strangle Harry but she channels that with smartass comments and then she lets it go. This is very different from how we see Ginny fight with her family. Harry doesn't want her involved. When other people do that she kicks, and explodes in rage, but not with Harry. As much as she disagrees with him, there's a level of respect for Harry that stops her from behaving as she does with others.

As we all know, they are both unafraid of each other's tempers, in contrast with how other characters react to them:

'They do, do they?' said Harry, glaring at Ron and Ginny. Ron looked down at his feet but Ginny seemed quite unabashed. 'Well, you have!' she said. 'And you won't look at any of us!' 'It's you lot who won't look at me!' said Harry angrily. -Chapter 23, Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, JK Rowling

But at the same time, they do not provoke in the other that kind of anger that is meant to dominate the other. Because that is not what they want to do. They just want to tell their side of the story but they also do it in a way that shows that they are listening to what the other is saying.

The fact that Harry listens to what Ginny has to say is something that we see again when she's concerned about the potions book:

"Hang on," said a voice close by Harry's left ear and he caught a sudden waft of that flowery smell he had picked up in Slughorn's dungeon. He looked around and saw that Ginny had joined them. "Did I hear right? You've been taking orders from something someone wrote in a book, Harry?" She looked alarmed and angry. Harry knew what was on her mind at once. "It's nothing," he said reassuringly, lowering his voice. "It's not like, you know, Riddle's diary. It's just an old textbook someone's scribbled on." "But you're doing what it says?" "I just tried a few of the tips written in the margins, honestly, Ginny, there's nothing funny—" -Chapter 9, Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince, JK Rowling

Just half a minute before this, Harry was deeply annoyed by Hermione asking about the book but Ginny's concerns are immediately valid to Harry. There's also the addiction that Ginny's concerns are concerns that Harry values as reasonable to have, they have the same value system. Once Harry reassures her, she never brings it up again. She exposes her concerns but accepts his explanations and respects his choices. She trusts him, she doesn't try to parent him. They are on the same level, neither believes/wants to have the high ground.

Conclusions for their post-war life

Harry and Ginny as teenagers show a level of maturity in their fights with each other that I would argue a lot of couples married for a decade don't have. And they can only improve.

So let's try to paint a picture of how this aspect of their adult lives is.

Harry and Ginny fight rarely and about matters they consider very important.

The goal of their fights is to present their side of the story while listening to the other and once they calm down they decide if it's something they can let go or if they need to work out a solution.

They shout rarely, they tend to use more of a clipped and snarky tone. Because they know each other so well they can stab each other like no one else can, but they also apologize quickly and mean it, and that is enough for the other. Harry and Ginny are exactly the kind of couple who naturally respects the "do not go to bed angry".

As for what their fights may be about... they have a secure attachment style so dramatic displays of jealousy are not their problem. Married couples usually fight about three things: in-laws, money, and children. In-laws and money are not a problem with them. I may see some discussions on how to raise the children when it comes to safety, Ginny growing up with six brothers is probably a "they can handle themselves" kind of mother, while I see Harry being a bit overprotective. That overprotectiveness could also be shown directly towards Ginny. Harry respects Ginny's strength but when it's a life-threatening situation, his priority is her being safe and considering that they lead public lives this theme could come back. Harry also probably adds a couple of enemies to his list being an Auror, and such an important one. Ginny obviously wouldn't like being sheltered. While she would understand where it comes from, she wouldn't take it. I think in general if one of them decided to keep something from the other out of protectiveness, the other wouldn't like it at all because their usual default dynamic is honesty.

In short: very few fights, handled with respect and not dragged out, can hurt each other like no one else can but are also quick to apologize and forgive.

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sophiemass · 2 years

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So' media fantasiosa vo', puede ser?

#harry potter

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sophiemass · 2 years

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“there is nothing in the world so irresistibly contagious as laughter” -charles dickens

Blurbs

Unrequited - Song fic for Pink in the Night by Mitski (angst)

Photo Albums - spending the weekend at the Burrow with George (fluff)

A New Pet - naming a new pet with the help of George (fluff)

Sweater Weather - George gives reader their birthday present (fluff)

Take My Hand - Yule Ball blurb; dancing at the Yule Ball with your best friend (fluff)

More Than Friends - Yule Ball blurb; going to the Yule Ball as friends and leaving as something more (fluff)

Through the Years - friends to lovers; reader reminisces about their relationship with George (fluff)

Distracted - doing homework isn’t an easy task when George is involved (fluff)

The One - In an attempt to fight off sleep, you ask George about the past (fluff)

Headcanons

Headcanons about dating George Weasley

Headcanons about ordering take-out w/ George

Mood Boards

George Weasley x Slytherin

Grunge Weasley Twins

The Burrow

Cuddling with George Weasley

Mornings with George Weasley

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So you know, Ginny is my favorite Weasley but goodness the thing I could write about George. He makes me a poet, no cap.

#harry potter

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Ever since I read the books in pandemic I’ve become a Hinny Stan, never watching the movies also helped a lot so I wasn’t attached to any other ship that the movies hinted on. The way Hinny Stans portray their love is the thing that made me absolutely love Harry and Ginny as a couple to the point of not seeing any other ship, like Harmione, as remotely possible.

I don't know when you decided to become a hinny Stan but I am delighted that you have done it, without a doubt you are one of the best that has happened to the fandom, before hinny didn't have the recognition that they deserve and although they still receive a lot of hate, I believe that your art is making more people begin to appreciate them, You transmit many things that unfortunately in the movies they did not show and although I love the hinny of the books I also know that it is not much what we have, for that reason I love that you are sharing the moments that you imagine between them two. When I see your art I feel it so real, I feel your hinny (and all your drawings) take on a life of their own, thanks for be in this fandom ❤️

Thank you so much! I started to enjoy them when i read the books for the second time, and while I drew them :) I always think that in order to enjoy/create about Hinny you have to know how to read between the lines...

Canon didn't give us much either, but the very little we had is just enough, because the rest we can fill for ourselves.

I don't think they are "excited" to write/draw about, because they have this domestic vibe that is very raw. Knowing how Harry and Ginny spent their time together in Hogwarts wouldn't make a difference in the big plot/adventure of the books. A brief mention "happy hour by the lake" requires imagination, but it's enough for a book that has to show more adventure than romance.

Drawing little comics is the only way I thought that could be interesting to show Hinny. No pressure to create any big, adventurous, dramatic, dangerous plot.

You see, when I was younger I used to love enemy to lovers trope, the "hate -> love" usually got me very excited in a book/movie/series. But at some point I realised that it's unrealistic to me, because I never personally felt interested in someone I disliked or argued with.

thinking of Ginny and Harry is a comfort to me. Because they have that "my best friend's sister" trope that it might be very boring, but crushes on siblings' freinds easily happens lol... and the fact Harry's feeling gradually grows as he starts to appreciate her as friends is very very sweet too, and it's the most real to me.

I can see why they aren't popular. but to be honest, the fact they don't have a devoted ship fandom is what makes me invested in them. I feel absolutely no pressure to draw about them, because no one expects anything more anyway... I'm glad that my drawings help someone appreciate them :) It's always really nice to know that.

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