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Is the tumblr sugar world still alive?

#spoiled gf #sugardaddy #black sb #brown sugar baby #sb tips #sugaring #sugar baby #sugar blog

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after digging into my caesar salad and drinking half my glass of wine I remember to take an picture for my sugar baby blog. thanks brain!

the lagos marriott is one of the few luxury hotels in lagos that is actually luxurious. sir is here for a meeting with the owner while I'm eating at the poolside.

seems great for freestyling because the owner of the hotel is really just chilling with sir and other business partners at the lounge (for my lagos sbs)

how are u girlies doing? my ask box is open!

#so sorry im not the coolest sb lol #not tagging because i hate that pic 😒

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I'll make a long post soon but everything has remained the same with me for the most part.

I got an ipad air to go with my macbook and my allowance is pretty good.

I haven't gotten a new sd or sdbf because sir is way too needy and clingy and as a chronic introvert, I really don't think I can deal with another man rn.

I've been buying a lot of land and gold. I'm obsessed with buying things with good resale value.

sir asked me to marry him. he wants a trophy wife and some babies because his kids are all grown up. he also wants me to be in charge of one of his businesses. all of this came up just before the holiday and I said I'll have an answer after new years 🙃 he offered to start a business for me if I didn't want to take over his own. it seemed like waaay too many decisions to take at once which is why I asked for time to think it through.

how are you girlies doing? wishing you a successful new year filled with whales and bulging wallets ❤

#i shouldn't tag this #but im a whore for attention #spoiled girlfriend #expensive taste #spoiled gf #nigerian sb #sb tips #trophy wife #black sb #brown sugar baby #sugaring #sugardaddy #black sugar dating #sugar bowl

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Photo dump

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the keywords "sugar daddy" and many tags related to sugaring have been dominated by bots on twitter and tumblr simply because they see those who frequent the tags as easy targets for scams or exploitative arrangements.

i just want to take a moment to emphasise that sugaring or escorting or hypergamy is not for the desperate. its not a get rich quick scheme or something you jump into to get quick money to pay an upcoming bill. that's how young girls get themselves taken advantage of. time and effort has to be invested to reach your goal and get your whale(s).

#sb tips #black sb #brown sugar baby #spoiled gf #sugardaddy #sugaring #black sugar dating #nigerian sb #sugar baby #sugar bowl #hypergamy #luxurious

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Princess treatment or leave ✨

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gosh take care of your skin girlies. take skin vitamins, work on remove hyperpigmentation, work on cleaning dark spots, use an oil to get ur glow on, keep your lips exfoliated and plump... its your money maker, treat your face right please

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films you learned flirting from?

Miranda (1948)

Mad About Men (1954)

I included the YouTube links so you can watch on your own time but Miranda is the first movie, it’s lovely and in black and white and Mad about Men is the sequel and it’s in technicolour. They’re two of my favourites and I joke that Miranda Trewella taught me all I needed to know about flirting with men and being a coquette. I’ve always been in love with MGM and both of these lovely films show off Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer perfectly.

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Let Me Tell Ya’ll About These So Called “Mentors”...

Most of these so called mentors are girls that couldn’t make it in the game.

Yeah, I said it and I’ll say it again.

MOST OF THESE SO CALLED MENTORS ARE GIRLS THAT COULDN’T MAKE IT IN THE BUSINESS. 

And instead of dusting themselves off and trying again, they decided to get their “sugar” from ya’ll instead of the sugar daddies and clients.

Then they take the money (the money they got from ya’ll) and they use it for their cash shots; they buy luxury items with it…

…and then act like they got it from a SD/client.

Ya’ll gotta stop falling for this shit.

#oof #dont pay anyone for sugar advice

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#women be like i want it #and the it is an expensive chanel purse

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a timeless beauty aesthetic:

*silky natural hair

*classic lashes

*timeless jewelry

*natural color nails

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Part Time Jobs that are Good for Sugaring

I’ve read lots of “How To” job post on how to meet wealthy men. But a lot of them are paraprofessional jobs (i.e. air hostess, car dealership, etc) that require a lot of time, training, and unavailable commitment. But, if you’re in school and or just in between SDs and need to make ends meet. Here are some decent, everyday, and easy part time jobs that also keep your eyes on the prize.

1. 💊 Cashier at a Pharmacy: in wealthy subdivisions ONLY. Hardly anyone is exempt from needing an Rx here or there. Esp. old, high net worth, highly stressed men. lol

2. 🕋 Front Desk at A Hotel: For obvious reasons. This is a job that I heavily considered BUT, be careful. Most hotel chains have a strict “No Fraternizing with Guest” policy, even off premises! This can apply to casino workers also. This can be kind of counterproductive, which is why I chose not to pursue. But hey, maybe you can!

3. 🥃Bartender: at High End restaurants ONLY. Bar tending can be kind of stressful, UNLESS, you’re meeting rich men every night. So, def aim for the high end bars.

❗️But not serving. I served for years. But found, that no matter how many wealthy men were attracted to me. They simply WERE NOT going to risk the indiscretion to exchange contact with “the help” over a table full of business pals & colleagues who, ALSO know they’re married. Bars attract solo patrons and tend to be more discreet.

4. 🍺 Concession Stands: at professional/college sports stadiums and arenas. Get those beer mugs ready! lol.

5. 👔 Luxury MEN retailers: any Men’s Warehouse, Polo, Hugo, etc in the mall. Mmmm 😋

6. 🍷Quality Steak, Specialty Foods, & Wine Shops: Most men who are wealthy tire/bore of the fancy restaurants and business-over-dinner meals. So they end up grilling, cooking, and drinking at home alone. Yet they still want and seek quality in their food.

7. ✈️ Retailers, Restaurants, Vendors IN an airport: I remember being lost at the Raleigh-Durham Int Airport trying to find my terminal. And every now and then I would walk past a watch shop or restaurant/grill only to see some succulently wealthy looking man by himself or sitting at the bar. If only I knew then what I know now, lol.

8. 🏌Country Club: bartender or golf services.

9. 💻 Cashier/Specialist: at technology retailers or any place that sells high end gadgets.

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if I said about 90% of this game is patience would you believe me?

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By the time I reach my 30s I will be living like an absolute goddess in a state of pure bliss and luxury.

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#pic inspo #bookmark

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#bookmark #accessories #stacking bracelets