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Fast Food for Thought...(21 April 2024)

One of the things you have to go through when extracting someone from your life is to not be affected by what they do or what they might think of you.

If anything, their actions or lack thereof should tell you everything you need to know about that person.

If they wanted to be a part of your life, they would have made a concerted effort to be a part of it, not making up excuses to do or be something else.

They may have also said some gossipy things about you, and it may make you angry. The best thing to do in that situation is to let that roll off your back. If you run into them at some point in the future, let your lack of communication with them tell you everything they need to know.

They're not worth your time anymore, your energy can be better spent elsewhere.

#seoul #life thoughts #love #traveler #thoughts #relationships #friendship #feeling #vulnerability #life #growing up #gossip sucks #cut them out

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#rainbow #colourful #light art #trippy #trippy art #psychedelia

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#Bush #machine head #grunge #90s music #90s rock #alternative rock #rock #rock music #pop rock #1994 #gavin rossdale

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I don't wanna come down from this cloud It's taken me all this time to find out what I need, yeah I don't wanna come down from this cloud It's taken me all this, all this time... Bush - Comedown

Bush - Comedown

#youtube #bush #comedown #sixteen stone #90s rock #90s music #alternative rock #rock music #gavin rossdale #1995 #1990s

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#quotes #life quotes #love quotes #inspiring quotes #relationship quotes #poem #words #literature #romance quotes #inspiration #motivation #spilled ink

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December 2003 PDX Portland Oregon U.S.A. 

© KOJI ARAKI Art Works

Daily life and every small thing is the gate to the universe ：）

#portland #pdx #oregon #city lights #city night #urban #city #cityscape

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Fast Food For Thought...(13 April 2024)

"Too many people are looking for the right person and not being the right person."

I was looking through some of my older posts on here from 2019 and came across that quote I had reposted.

As I thought about it, the more I realized that while I may have reposted that, I didn't remember it and take it to heart.

I have been too preoccupied with looking for the right person and not being that "right person". Your personality is really who you attract and I may not have been attracting the right people as of late.

Try being the best person you can be first. Once you do that, the "right" person will find you.

I've known this all along, maybe I should start putting it into practice.

#korea #seoul #life thoughts #love #travel #traveler #thoughts #quotes #expat life #love thoughts #life lessons #let it happen

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#quotes #life quotes #love quotes #inspiring quotes #relationship quotes #poem #words #literature #lit #poetry #music #musician

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bridge of the gods in the columbia river gorge rppc by wesley andrews, ca. 1940s?

#bridges #columbia river #washington #oregon #rppc

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We never talked about it

But I hear the blame was mine

And I'd call you up to say I'm sorry

But I wouldn't wanna waste your time

'Cause I love you, but I can't take any more

There's a look I can't describe in your eyes

If we could try, like we tried before

Would you keep on tellin' me those lies? (Tellin' me lies)

Do you remember?

(Do you remember?)

Ooh, do you remember?

(Do you remember?)

There seemed no way to make up

'Cause it seemed your mind was set

Ooh, and the way you looked, it told me

It's a look I know I'll never forget

You could've come over to my side

You could've let me know

You could've tried to see the distance between us

But it seemed too far for you to go (so far to go)

Do you remember?

(Do you remember?)

Ooh, do you remember?

(Do you remember?)

Through all of my life

In spite of all the pain

You know, people are funny sometimes

They just can't wait to get hurt again

Tell me, do you remember?

(Do you remember?)

There are things we won't recall

And feelings we'll never find

It's taken so long to see it

'Cause we never seemed to have the time

There was always something more important to do

More important to say

But, "I love you" wasn't one of those things

And now it's too late (now it's too late) (now it's too late)

Do you remember? (Do you remember? Now it's over)

(Do you remember? Ooh, it's over)

Ooh, do you remember? (Do you remember? Now it's over)

(Do you remember? Ooh, it's over) ooh, yeah

Tell me, do you remember? (Do you remember? Now it's over)

Ooh, do you remember? (Do you remember? Ooh, it's over)

Tell me now, tell me now (Do you remember? Now it's over)

Tell me now, tell me now (Do you remember? Ooh, it's over)

Do you remember? (Do you remember? Now it's over)

(Do you remember? Ooh, it's over)

#phil collins #do you remember #lyrics #genesis #songs #1989 #song

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Baby you're all that I want When you're lyin' here in my arms I'm finding it hard to believe We're In Heaven... And love is all that I need And I found it there in your heart Isn't to hard to see We're In Heaven...

You may even find company pleasant, but if you are not comfortable with yourself, there will be no good company that pleases you. Ket Antonio

#spotify #love #music #couple #poetry #lovers #quotes #myself #feeling alone #photography #intimacy #spilled ink #relationship #bryan adams #rock music #heaven

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What are you looking for? (10 March 2024)

What are you looking for?

That's a question a friend asked me after I related some stories of my dating life over some drinks.

To be honest, I didn't know how to answer that question at that moment. But it did get me thinking: What am I looking for in a partner?

Dating can always seem like an arduous task of separating the wheat from the chaff, and there's a ton of chaff out there. It feels great to meet someone you have a lot of things in common with, but you do have to do a lot of searching to find that person.

Like anything in life, anything worthwhile takes a lot of work. It's easy to just give up and throw in the towel, but who knows the opportunities that you may have thrown away by giving up. I didn't get to this point in my life by just giving up.

But back to the question my friend asked me: What am I looking for in a partner?

Of course, I'm looking for all the main things in a partner: Common values, respect, courtesy, being a good person, etc...

But if I'm really going to find a great person, I really have to think about what else I want in someone.

I can't answer those questions now, but it is something I have to keep thinking about as I move forward. More to come.

#korea #seoul #travel #life thoughts #love #thoughts #expat life #quotes #seattle

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#seattle #love #love quotes #life thoughts

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Spiritbox // Holy Roller

#spiritbox #courtney laplante #extreme metal #metalcore #metal #metal music #spiritbox gifs #metal gifs #music #music gifs

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A detailed shaded relief map centered on downtown Portland, Oregon rendered from Lidar data

by u/visualgeomatics

#maps #portland #shaded relief #visualgeomatics #portland oregon #pacific northwest #pdx

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Oregon Coast thoughts...

One thing I miss about the US is being able to take a day trip out to the Oregon Coast.

Even though I haven't been there in almost a decade because of my having lived in Asia, I can still hear the roar of the waves, the scent of the sea air, and the aroma of the sand on the beach whenever I picture the Oregon Coast in my mind, almost like I visited there yesterday.

#oregon #oregon coast #pacific northwest #pacific ocean #ocean #waves #sea #ocean view

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