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Love you all❤- Peace aka your favorite scorpio

I've missed you :(

I hope you're well, we love you too! ❤

Stroni

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Hiya guys, wow it has really been a while...

I'm sorry I hadn't kept you all updated and left you all in the dark, life really has gotten in the way a lot.

As some may know I'm in my final year of sixth form and that's taken a huge chunk of my time, having a part time job and fitting in time to socialise has left me with very little spare time at all. I just thought I'd let you guys know that I am okay and I hope you guys all are too! In fact I got my first university offer yesterday and it was my first choice! So later in the year I'll be moving, possibly in with my boyfriend or possibly a bunch of strangers who knows.

Just know that this blog holds a very dear place in my heart, I'm so glad all of you enjoyed mine, Rose's and Cherry's writing. It's been a pleasure.

Thank you all.

Admin Stroni

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i don't use tumblr anymore but i just came back to look at this blog because i loved it so much and the nostalgia is making me tear up. i literally read through every page of this blog from beginning to end. its so weird seeing the asks i sent back then. anyway i just wanted to say that i really love this blog and wish all admins a very good day! i know the blog isn't active anymore so im not sure if you'll see this but im putting good vibes into the universe for you. thanks for everything!

Hello old anon! This is former admin Rose 🌹

I'm so happy this blog holds such nostalgia for you, and hopefully good nostalgia.

Thank you so much for the good vibes🌟🌟💗

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On behalf of Admin Stroni, Admin rose, and Admin Cherry, please read reblogged post below

Much thanks, and we love you all💗❤💜

Admin Rose

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Hello everyone, this is Rose🌹

Some of you may know me as @arosequartz, nctminiseries, even Admin Rose from Stroni-bomb's blog.

Unfortunately, my friend and I have been unable to write to our full extent. Some of it has to do with life, falling out of kpop, even trauma. I found some of the things I wrote to be quite triggering, and that's far from what I wanted to do.

Admin Stroni's moved on with her life, but I still love writing for kpop and other fandoms in general. In the last blog I wished to write whatever blurb popped into my mind but those blogs had a limited theme. This blog/journal will include all types of groups and scenarios, and a masterlist to organize it all.

As for my wolfau series, I'll be writing glimpses into the world I had created instead of writing a whole series. This way I can get more content across and still envelope everyone into the world. So not only Park Jisung but everyone's stories will be involved.

I don't know if Stroni wants me to keep @stroni-bomb up or not. I'll still continue my art banners though, because they're just so fun to make!

This isn't how I imagined Stroni-bomb to end, but nobody else was active on there anymore, and I needed my own space to clear the clutter from my head.

Hopefully, like me, you look forward to the stories and scenarios, even drabbles, I post here! I'll have requests open as well 🤗

This is a good luck to me, and a reminder to enjoy the process of writing instead of looking at it like a job🦋

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I’m an idiot

Rose

PS: That epilogue is going to be SO mucj easier to write now.

#admin rose

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after you post the epilogue i’d like to pick which moments i wanna see expanded

Hmm, how about this, I’ll list out all the moments that can be expanded on after the epilogue is posted, then you guys can vote 🤗

Rose

#admin rose

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Wow. Rewriting this epilogue, I realized there are so many great, great moments I could expand on and make extra scenes out of Scabulous, take moments mentioned and write a little pros on them. This would fill in the time skip of Aeja’s senior year. Would you guys like that?

Rose

#admin rose #scabulous #wolf!jisung #nct jisung #park jisung

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WE CAN EDIT POSTS OVER 100 PARAGRAPHS ON THIS DAMN APP NOW.

LEMME REPEAT THAT:

EDIT. POSTS. OVER. 100. PARAGRAPHS!!!

Do you know what that means, Stroni? For every writer on tumblr??? We can write everything in our drafts😭 and edit older posts without accidentally deleting saved work (cough cough Scabulous chapter 5) 😭😭😭😭😭

Rose

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Chapter 6 is back up and running! Think I’ll finish all editing and rewriting today!

Rose

Chapter 4 is back and finally finished! It’s so long. Many changes were made to bring you guys more context about Aeja’s family and how she’s dealing with Yerim’s condition.

Rose

#admin rose

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Hello!! just wanted to ask what you meant abt the 'objectifiction' that happens in smut fanfics, no sarcasm or anything but, can you explain the topic further?? How can you tell if they're objectifying or not?? I'm just genuinely curious abt it,,,😮

This is such a wonderful question! I never realized there might be some who actually don't know what objectification is, or feels like, and might confuse it with love.

Let’s go back to the basics. All through history, men have been pushed to succeed in life with a good job, stable finance, have the perfect partner, and gain control over everything in their life. Women have been treated as tokens to trade for business through marriage (except for those few golden acceptions ie: Joan of Ark, Queen Elizabeth, Mulan). Since women have been used as objects for trading without the concern for their mental health, or actual needs or wants, or dreams in life, men want control over their partners too. Why? Because that’s all we’ve been seen as, just objects used for trading. And if we’re used for trading, we can be traded or bought (or married) to somewhere else. This is why men get possessive, they can’t lose us (one of their power tokens) or they lose some control or status. This is why the “possessive” trope is so toxic! It’s not about love, it’s objectifying us as property, yes, like we’re a piece of land that can be sold to whoever buys us. We were and still are used as breeding tokens, prizes, etc. to keep the bloodline ongoing. Because biologically, men have the need to want to dominate the world with their own blood. However, this is a biological vs nurture argument, and I will say more about that later.

So when men say, “you’re mine” or “you don’t belong to anyone else but me”, they think it’s love, but no, it’s just objectification wrapped in possessiveness and tied with a pretty bow that says “love”, but it’s no such thing. Would you rather be with someone who cherishes you, and cares for you and your happiness, even if they lose you, they want the best for you, and can move on, or be with someone who just wants you as a trophy of power (reminder it’s not you, it’s them that has the power) and get possessive, jealous, etc, because their ego is so wrapped up in their “status”, and they can’t stand to lose that status and power if you leave?

In a summary sentence: They don’t care about you, they just want to keep their power and control. Simple as that.

Now. In many books and the media these days (no thanks to twilight and fifty shades of gray, or after), it’s easy to warp the minds of young girls who want love and disguise objectification in a pretty “love” box. 

Twilight: Possessive issues. They’re both so broken they work because they can’t survive alone and have to be dependent on each other. That’s not good. 

FSOG: Horrible possession issues: stalks her work, constantly tells her she’s his (as in his property), rapes her, controls what she does in life, controls her job, her decisions, her LIFE with blackmail and threats disguised as “but I love you” when really he means “I hate myself and want to bring you down with me”. I’m not even going to go into the abuse in their sex life (he ignores her safe word), even the BDSM community hates those books. And when you have a whole community that the book is supposed to represent but they dislike them, there’s a huge problem there. But because we’re taught that sex happens between two people who “love” each other, everything I just summarised in this series is ignored. To those who liked the books, time to self-reflect (yes it’s supposed to feel uncomfortable), make yourself better.

After: Sex. Sex is the manipulation in this book. You know, Tessa left a perfectly good boyfriend and cheats on him with Hardin because “he’s sexy”? There are so many things wrong with that sentence in so many ways. He stalks her, appears in her dorm room when she’s alone (rape situation), seduces her, takes a dare that he can keep her (so he’ll win the goddamn dare). Possessive issues!!! Again... (I have a headache). Everything revolves around sex here. She’s a nice submissive toy for him to play with. And if she goes, welp, Hardin is distraught because there goes his fun, his control, and his power over her. 

Sex, in our generation, despite being taught “it’s about love”, isn’t about love anymore. It’s about control, manipulation, right down to the small actions of how they control women in bed. Do this, do that, switch positions, suck me off, let me cum on you, swallow, “you’re so hot, so sexy, you’re a slut for me, and only me, nobody else, just me, your body belongs to me, not you, just me.” Oh look, possession issues, objectifying your body, taking away your control, look it’s all there. But we overlook it because “but we love each other, we have sex because we love each other” No, no, no no, no, all of that is not love, it’s objectifying. 

Then we have the whole argument of nature vs nurture. They say, “men are programmed at birth to have the need to reproduce”. 

You know, nature goes with everyday habits and personality. Nurture is about controlling yourself (not others, yourself) in what you choose to do. 

So actually, that nature argument is invalid when it comes to “men have the urge to reproduce”. Sure, they definitely do, but it’s how they control that urge, how they can or could be nurtured into focusing on something else than sex. It’s the nurture part where a change needs to happen. Just because it’s in men’s nature to reproduce doesn’t excuse their horrible decisions to mentally and emotionally damage a whole other gender. There, I said it. 

“Let the comments rain down on me like snow on a desert.” – Sideways (yt channel).

So women, when you feel that “thrill” or “excitement”, or “a tingle down your back”, it’s not love, it’s a warning sign. 

Love should feel warm, comfortable, confident, secure, and peaceful. 

Love isn’t supposed to hurt. It’s supposed to heal. 

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I just read the prologue for occhiolism and I just have to say it’s immaculate 😩👌👌

😭😭😱😱 oh dear I’m going to rewrite that very soon, same theme, spicier details. I’m so glad my rough draft of occhiolism is so loved💗 Thank you

Rose

#admin rose #occhiolism

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Chapter 5 is back up! Now editing chapter 6! I’m on a roll today!

Rose

Chapter 4 is back and finally finished! It’s so long. Many changes were made to bring you guys more context about Aeja’s family and how she’s dealing with Yerim’s condition.

Rose

#admin rose #scabulous

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Can we stop the regulatory and “acceptable” objectification in smut fanfictions? I’m serious. This is something I’ll try my darn hardest to avoid writing, objectification, for both genders, and all souls.

Admin A

#kpop fanfiction #kpop fics

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Chapter 5 has been disabled for editing and re-writing purposes

Rose

Chapter 4 is back and finally finished! It’s so long. Many changes were made to bring you guys more context about Aeja’s family and how she’s dealing with Yerim’s condition.

Rose

#admin rose

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Chapter 4 is back and finally finished! It’s so long. Many changes were made to bring you guys more context about Aeja’s family and how she’s dealing with Yerim’s condition.

Rose

#scabulous #admin rose #wolf!jisung #nct jisung #park jisung #nct dream

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Park Jisung: Beginning, 4

Prequel | Chapter 1 | Chapter 2 | Chapter 3 | Chapter 5 | Chapter 6 | Chapter 7 (end) | Epilogue

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Your wound healed faster than expected. There was a nice pink and red ring running up your shin and calf where the Sanguis wolf had bitten. Taeil informed it was healing nicely, the medicine he gave you to slather on every morning and night was specifically for wer bites. The biggest progress now was you didn’t need the bandage.

But to you, the scar was terrible to look at. The once clean skin now forever tarnished.

You sat at the desk of your given room, eyes, and head hurting from scrutinizing your math textbook for longer than what felt comfortable. You stretched your legs, still sitting in the office chair. Bare toes brushed against the scarred tissue and your movements faltered.

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