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When you are going through it , everyone wants to know what the problem is but they never want to stick around for the solution.

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Oh yeah? Well FUCK YOU!

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I want to stop sugaring, but Louis Vuitton needs to stop selling those cute bags first.

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I got an empty hole in my chest How do I fill it? Somebody give a prescription

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I need some real good lovin', cause ain’t nobody been around lovin’ on me 💔

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Every once in a while I come across a child and his\her father playing together, and I think: “maybe if I had this as a little girl my life would have been different..

#fatherless daughters

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All I want for my birthday is Nick Bateman

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I hate period days, can't work😐

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Settle

I am not one to settle. I am the girl that life pushed her to stand up for herself, yet sometimes I find myself bowing down when it comes to transactions. So here I am with a POT that I have known forever, not excited and just "being" because it is a safe choice and so familiar. Yet I find myself earning for excitement, someone different than what I am used to, but my POT arrangement is exclusive so I am being exclusive since I got everything I need is here for me. Except for excitement.

#sd #sb #sugar daddy #sugar baby #sugar bowl #POT

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Love Vs. Sugar

Thank God for sugaring, because it taught me to look up guys before I go out on dates, and before I get my heart in the hands of a loser 😁

#sd #sb #sugar baby #sugar daddy #sugar bowl

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Haha

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This is the official ‘i care’ symbol. This is how it works:

Basically you reblog this, and your followers know that you care and that they can message you about anything anon or not and you will reply back or at least look at their message.

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So you want to be a Suga Baby? Here is my Sugar Baby link list.

SB/SD Dating Sites:

millionairedates.com seekingarrangement.com sugardaddie.com sugardaddyforme.com ashleymadison.com millionairesponsors.com sugardaddieworld.com sugardaddytoday.com clubsugardaddy.com sugardaddybabes.com dateamillionaire.com establishedmen.com sugarsugar.com whatsyourprice.com sugardaddymeet.com wealthymen.com myrichsugardaddy.com sugardaddyfinder.com mutualarrangements.com

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1. How much is the allowance?

Obviously, we all have a magical number in our heads, but if we are unable to have these numbers met, then I feel that the next best thing is compromising. Hopefully it’s a win-win situation. It should be a number you are happy with, not stuck with.

You should clearly know the amount that your allowance will be and any of of the major details of the arrangement, before you begin acting upon any of those details together, and not be told something such as “well it may take a while to see if we have any real chemistry first, if you know what I mean” wink wink…umm nope.

2. How will the sum of your allowance be paid to you?

Will it always be paid in the same manner, so that you can count on it? At the very least, if he can not pay you in cash every month, as is the preferred method, try to figure out what his second and third favourite options are. This will save both you and him possible hassles later on. Maybe it will be variety of pre-paid visas, cash, direct deposits, certified cheques ( no regular cheques ladies!), email money transfers, or perhaps one month he decides its all in gift cards to Walmart…then what??

3. How often will you receive your allowance?

Its fair to say that most SB’s receive their allowances monthly, however it is becoming quite common for SB’s to receive their allowances either biweekly or per visit with their SD.

**And before anyone jumps down these ladies throats for accepting “per visits” often times it is the married SD’s themselves who suggest paying the allowance this way to hide larger financial transactions from unsuspecting wives or girlfriends who would become suspicious of larger amounts of money being withdrawn. I actually prefer it this way, money in my hand on the day my time was given/accounted for, makes for a very happy me, instead of waiting a month and wondering if it will come, if he’ll remember or if it will be late etc etc.

The main reason to know how often you will receive your allowance is to be able to plan ahead with your own finances. If he plans on giving you your allowance at random times when he can “sneak away” money, than that may not help you plan ahead for your rent that’s due on the 1st of every month, your car payment that’s due on the 15th or your schools tuition payment schedule etc. Whether its monthly, biweekly, weekly or daily, you’ll need to plan ahead wisely so your prepared either way.

Like the old saying never live pay cheque to pay cheque, it’s important to get yourself to a stage where you’re not living “allowance to allowance”.

4. What do you need to do to get your allowance?

The all important question. Just like they ask us the inevitable “What does that get me?”, we need to ask them and ourselves the important question of “What do I have to do for that?”

Here are some basics, there are more but here’s a few:

* How often would you like to see each other?

* Is this a mutually exclusive SD/SB arrangement?

* What time frame would you like these dates to be for?

* What types of activities would you like to do on these dates?

* Would you like for me to travel to you, you to travel to me, both, or meet in the middle, or a combination of all?

* Is there any chance of out of town travelling or overnight night stays together?

* If so, what would you like to happen in that instance, a shared room or separate rooms?

* Would you like me to attend certain social/work functions with you?

* How often would he like you to communicate and through which means? Email, phone calls, texts, Skype?

* What are his AND your sexual expectations?

* Etc…

Basically, you need to clarify what it is he wants from you, for you and of you, in order for you to receive your money.

5. What can you do that would hinder receiving your allowance?

This is self-explanatory. Assuming his requirements are within reason, you do not want to do anything that would ruin a good arrangement with a respectful, charming, selfless, genuine and honest Sugar Daddy, not to mention good looking ,)

However, something that may make him think twice about giving you your allowance is if he suspects or finds out you have another SD or have been entertaining a Pot, when he thought you were exclusive. There are ways to hide this, but that’s another post.

Things that can hinder obtaining your allowance can range from what may seem insignificant to one person to an absolute deal breaker to another. It all depends on the details and requirements that you both agreed to when establishing your arrangement. This is why it’s important to ask the questions listed in #4, so you know whether or not it’s the right arrangement for you.

It’s a good idea to ask him for specific examples of things that would be deal breakers for him, so that you know ahead of time, what to avoid, or what to be sneaky about.

Something to keep in mind, is “What can you do to increase your allowance?”

Now, I’m not saying to go and flat out ask for a raise in your allowance, unless you have maintained a successful arrangement with the same SD for a fair bit of time, then by all means go for it! But if you are new to the arrangement or the bowl in general, think of it this way, “treat others how you would want to be treated”. Make them feel special, go out of your way to remember the little things, mention the little things and do the little things, that the other people in their lives have taken for granted. Show them that you care.

"Arrangements are work. The allowances are the pay cheques."

Good luck ladies ;) and please add on!!

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I'm not following anyone

Not because I’m being rude ,but because I don’t want to follow a blog that posts a zillion gifs everyday. I love reading about other sugar experiences and lending advice whenever I can ,so if you want me to follow you- reblog this post.  However, if your blog is all over the place then I’m not following you sorry.