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Mr. Sensitive from Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft (2002)

#why does he do that #emotional abuse #physical abuse #ptsd #trauma

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The Drill Sergeant from Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft (2002)

#why does he do that #emotional abuse #physical abuse #ptsd #trauma

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The Water Torturer from Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft (2002)

#why does he do that #emotional abuse #physical abuse #ptsd #trauma

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Mr. Right from Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft (2002)

#why does he do that #trauma #emotional abuse #physical abuse #ptsd

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The Demand Man from Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft (2002)

#why does he do that #ptsd #trauma #emotional abuse #physical abuse

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if you guys love mitski so much WHERE ARE HER ICON POSTS

here’s one bc i couldn’t find any, feel free to use, just don’t claim as your own!

#ily libra queeenn

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reproductive rights issues:

abortion

birth control

also reproductive rights issues:

doctors performing c sections during births without informed consent

eugenics via sterilization requirements for trans people to change documentation

eugenics via forced/nonconsenting sterilization of disabled people

eugenics via forced/nonconsenting sterilization of people of color

eugenics via selective abortion of disabled fetuses (fetuses with Down syndrome especially) (these are abortions sought by people who WANT to be pregnant–but only with non-disabled children, when there’s absolutely no guarantee that a non-disabled child won’t become disabled)

if your reproductive rights activism doesn’t incorporate ALL OF THE ABOVE, i want no part of it.

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“it’s just a parking lot”

exactly. there’s nothing there. not a statue. not a plaque. nothing.

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Oh, well when you put it that way, you’re right! It sure is hard to live on half a million a year!

Every apologia for the rich sounds like a call for revolution.

#this is deadass some ppl ive had the displeasure of knowing

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it’s so difficult not being able to use milennial humor in a corporate setting. like i made a mistake today and i wanted to tell my supervisor it’s because i suffer from Dumb Bitch Disease, but do you think that would fly?? fuck no. i gotta say shit like, “sorry for the misunderstanding!” i can’t wait till the workforce is made up entirely of millennials and i can say “sorry i drank idiot juice for breakfast this morning” and my coworkers will be like “oh worm.”

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children of color deserve better

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Are there any children who are “wise beyond their years” or “old souls” that aren’t a product of some kind of neglect or abuse? Because I’m thinking the answer to that is a big “no”. 

I hate that these are considered high praise for children, too. As if the best thing a child could be is to not be a child. For God’s sake let children be children. Celebrate the fact that they are children. 

#yeah like the wisdom children like me exhibited is in fact the lack of simulation the brain received during development #which you can totally change bc your brain doesnt finish forming until 25 (it still can then tho) #its sad and some abusers/ppl looking for power will use that to hurt you #its very complex and a real reason why but dont wanna type it lol but the research is interesting i rec it

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We all thought Loki was the odd one out but it turns out Thor is actually the friendly jock middle child in a family of bitchy drama club goths

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Senator Elizabeth Warren on The Late Show, July 21, 2016

#yeah like i had a professor defend him and this is exactly what it feels like #hes just a dumbass abusing power who knows what hes doing and saying #the professor was one of those pretentious ppl that thinks bc everyone saying/doing smth hes edgy for doing the opposite #like no trump is awful and youre not enlightened for defending him #hes like those republicans at colleges thinking theyre enlightened for being republicans

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January Lessons

Aries: be proud of how far you’ve come even if it feels like you’re getting nowhere. you have so many things to love yourself for.

Taurus: the way you care about people isn’t a weakness. you are so strong for remaining so soft throughout everything you’ve been through. don’t convince yourself that you are too soft or too caring or too much of anything.

Gemini: you need to jump at the opportunities that come to you. don’t be scared of spreading your wings, take things as they come.

Cancer: you are about to realize just how strong you are. don’t back down when things get rough, as soon as you push back you’ll realize your power.

Leo: learning to be independent is one of the greatest things you’ll learn, and soon it will come naturally to you. don’t be scared of doing things on your own, you’re more than capable.

Virgo: become disinterested in the people who don’t have your best interest. you need to watch out for yourself.

Libra: the people who care about you want to see you happy. when they come to your rescue in a bad situation, thank them. don’t isolate yourself.

Scorpio: you are becoming stronger everyday. even in the midst of heartbreak or pain, you keep rising. that’s what you need to remember.

Sagittarius: one thing can not be your entire world. don’t forget the people who care about you and the ones who stuck by your side before this came along.

Capricorn: be open. don’t close yourself off for a fear of getting hurt. you need to let love in as it pleases.

Aquarius: stay alert of your surroundings, but only because sometimes you miss the beauty around you. don’t get so lost in your mind, be present.

Pisces: let yourself breathe and relax as the new year comes. you are so used to feeling tense and anxious, just let things be for now.

#this is so weirdly specific i didnt expect it #aries