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#// why the fck is anon hate even still a thing lmao
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Why do you like Tamlin despite everything he’s done? I feel like stans will take one look at people who still like that character and outright assume they’re an abuser apologist on sight lmao. So I wanted to know what you’re reasons for liking him are, perhaps to prove that his stans aren’t actually abuser apologists but people who just like a fictional character for perfectly good reasons.
And also because I’m curious. 🙃
Hi anon!!
Why I like Tamlin?....
Well, for starters, I fell for him in the first book. I mean who wouldn't? His character just seems so... Ethereal. The protagonist goes in the mystical land of the Fae and falls for their gorgeous king. I mean- u have to agree with me... Book 1 Tamlin>>> other sjm love interests.
He comes off as being kind and gentle and loving even after everything he has been through. He is struggling, evidently but that doesn't stop him from being what people need from him. Especially with Feyre. Oh how I love their chemistry in book 1. They understand each other and their pains. They have so much in common. And like- isn't Tamlin the dream bf every teenage girl wants? He's gorgeous, plays the fiddle, writes poem, takes you aesthetic dreamy places in his kingdom, says things like "don't feel bad for one moment about doing what brings you joy" AND THE MF LITERALLY HAS A CROWN OF SUNSHINE?!?
That being said, I loved Tamlin from the very start. So I obviously, didn't love how in acomaf sjm just went "PSYCHE!! Fck Tamlin u gotta love the sexual assaulter now cause I'm obsessed with his bat dick!!"
Like that just made me feel dumb for falling for Tamlin. And I resented that. Everything he did was so out of the blue, his character was up in flames and I was so mad at sjm for doing that to him. And goodness the narration was so whiney and annoying and self centred. It was so obvious that Tamlin was also struggling? That he also needed help. And attention and care. If Tamlin abuses feyre in way of neglect then I hate to break it to you it goes the other way round as well. The narrative that sjm and her stans spin is just so... Gross. Tamlin is the man so he shud suck it up and be there of his traumatized gf. But what about my man?! He struggling too. No one's there to help him! Feyre doesn't wake up in the night and talk to Tamlin when she sees him in his beast form? Then why is tamlin blamed for doing EXACTLY what Feyre is doing???
I absolutely hated that hypocrisy. That made me gravitate more towards Tamlin. The story and narrative itself blurred the line of morality. If Rhysie can be forgiven for SA then why can't Tamlin be forgiven for 2secs of abuse? If Feyre is the victim of Tamlins neglect then doesn't that imply the him too?
But the real reason why I love him is because he is the only character in the entire series that shows growth (positive growth i.e.) Book 2 Tamlin locks Feyre up (same like a certain someone did to her sister, so again line blurred.) and restricts her from making decisions about her own body i.e restricts her from training her powers. Which is reasonable but still, he should have explained the risks to her and then let her decide what she wanted to do. (This in my opinion is the only abuse he inflicted on her cause let's be honest, he said she couldn't go out to villages with him cause he would be distracted with her safety and that is very reasonable! He does not say anything about her going out with gaurds and u mfs be forgetting that a member of the royal family IS infact always under protection.)
BUT on the other hand, book 3 Tamlin, remedies all his mistakes. Feyre IS the queen of the spring court in those few chps of Acowar. She sits in on the meetings. She takes them to survey the wall the twice without tamlin being present there! Her therefore being the supreme authority. He trusts her! He's letting go of his paranoia and ptsd for her!! Like bitches homeboy actually changed himself for his girl like how can u not stan him 😭😭😭😭
AND after everything that bitch does to him Tamlin does everything in his power TO SEE HER HAPPY!!!!!!!! 😭😭😭😭
He risks his life to save her ungrateful ass in the hyburn camp.
Like "she deserves happiness even if it's not with me" vibes.
"Be happy, Feyre"
My man literally brings back the person who killed his family FOR HER!
I'm sorry but... Anyone who doesn't wear sjm manipulation glasses can see that Tamlin isn't evil. That he made mistakes. That people are not defined by their worst mistakes especially if they actually work hard and make up for them over and over again.
So yes, I think I speak for most tamlin stans when I say this... We don't love him because we hate Feyre, we don't love him cause we abuse apologists and misogynists. We love him for his complex character that sjm unintentionally created.
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ice-aflame · 5 years
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// hey just a psa, if you send anon hate to people, especially being dismissive of their mental health, then please unfollow me thanks xoxo on a completely unrelated note @ my mutuals hi I love you and you’re doing a great job ❤️
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saitouh · 5 years
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i still remember all those times when my friend got nasty anon messages telling her off because she shipped unconventional pairings (something like takatsukki - i won’t say the exact pairing because i don’t want the bitches to start hounding her again) and simply was just trying to enjoy her pairings by herself in her little corner. 
Along came a self-appointed fandom police who, among other things, sent her messages like,
“if you have to ship XXXXX, why don’t you ship YYYY”
wow! and accused her of things she would never ever do, just because she didn't reblog the pairing YOU like??? then why didn't you just unfollow her? lmao.
the bullying left her, a very shy person, devastated, traumatised, and she took a leave from tumblr. you all have the audacity to act like kind, welcoming people now but in fact you're all bitches in sheep's clothing. the usual shit you spewed out of your mouths on fictional characters thoroughly betray yourselves as how you would act towards real people.
and now you all have the bold audacity to tell us that people (YOU) can ENJOY anything? Specifically, HinoTsuki????
What about the incident a few months ago, when a gintsuki artist who got a message saying tsukuyo brings down gintoki? This anon boldly told the gintsuki artist that gintae is the power couple!! “otae is better than tsukuyo!!!” Oh, so artists not even allowed to draw what they want????? LMAO and you gintaes have the gall to claim that ONLY ONE PERSON HATES TSUKUYO AND CLAIMS SHE IS UNPOPULAR
Pls
every time any tsukuyo fan makes any celebratory posts in the past few years expressing their love for her character and the ship they like, YOU and YOUR cronies just had to come out and cry, “why would people ship this? gintsuki is a terrible ship! tsukuyo is a terribly unpopular character! (untrue claim)” 
Oh but now you want to say you can enjoy anything! Like HinoTsuki!!! And if someone tells you HinoTsuki is like Ginkag (which you ALL are openly against), it’s called ‘instigating drama’. Anything that people do back to you the things you’ve done to others, you call it ‘instigating drama. ‘ Learn the meaning of ‘instigate’, you dmbbch.
With you bitches, people like us can’t enjoy what we like, we have to put up with YOUR criticisms in tsukuyo’s tag, but YOU are entitled to ship ANYTHING and ANYONE with her just because YOU say so. 
Park your ass down and shut the fck up, you vile harlot. When people defend Tsukuyo from being called a rapist by you people, you fcking lie about us mocking rape victims. I will never let this go. This lie is so fcking heinous and is only used for the sake of present yourself as a blameless victim (which you fcking aren't).
"GinTsu and Tsukuyo fans don't even like her" 
This is what you said on your blog when you allowed an anon to call LATS a whore and laughed at her, aero. And now you and your cronies are using the same claim on me. I'm telling you straight-up. I don't give a shit if people don't like me. Your bullying tactics are disgusting. 
You think i'm doing this because i want to be "popular" lmfao who the hell does what i do now to be popular? What the fck. Online popularity, on top of that, lmfao what the fck.
i repeat. i log on, i see shit, i will blast your fcking heads. because this has been going on for years. all my previous posts in previous years on my blog reflect this. i gave up trying to be cordial the moment you bitches use a rape experience to win an argument. AND THEN LIE THAT I MOCKED YOU. this shit is not forgivable. you have no idea what me or other women went through when you used it just to attack a fictional female character, when she was actually the one who was "raped" by gintoki. blaming the female for what you "see" on the surface. typical misogyny.
the screencaps you posted of me back in march last year trying to chase me out of fandom was also laughable. in which one of the caps did i actually mock rape victims? all of the caps you posted and took out of context are still up on my twitter. go and re-read them. go on.
Go ahead and send more vile anon asks, go ahead and repeat more of your behaviour and I will repeat the same vile things you bitches have done to me and my friends.
"you're spreading lies!!" hasaji whined when i brought this all to light.
Lol what lies? The caps are out there for everyone to see. Even when I didn't post all the caps, other people have seen them. People know. Just bc they kept quiet doesn't mean they aren't aware.
You all bitched about me "lying", but when i explicitly gave proof, you go, "You don't know anything about us!"
I know you like to obsess over Tsukuyo, her arcs, her breasts, and then pretend none of those things matter. You like to make a mockery of the moments she had with Gintoki, downplay all the lines he had said to her instead of celebrating your own pairing without mentioning other characters. Why you so preoccupied with what we have? Why you so jelly and so anxious to belittle what we have? Hmmm? And when called out, you then angrily spat out your saliva claiming you didn't want the Love Incense arc for gintae anyway. Have you heard of the fable of the fox and the grapes? Lol. you guys are acting exactly like that fox.
or when called out explicitly, you go, "I-I'm just talking about fictional people! This pathetic saitouh bitch cant differentiate between reality and fiction!"
LMAO. Fictional people? When u called late night love's cosplay ugly? She's fictional? 😂😂😂 When you mocked “oriental” fans? ~ORIENTAL~ lmao. When u called Hijikata's actor short and ugly? Yagira is fictional? 😂😂😂 I mean. Please. You even admitted your assholery has no limit. oh wait, that wasn't what you said. Your limit was somewhere up your ass? I don't remember. it was somewhere really high and deep. Maybe it was a poetic place?
Bitches like you who have no qualms about insulting fictional characters are likely to have no boundaries in insulting real people.
That's a fact.
"We weren't insulting tsukuyo when we make the gif of her being one of the insignificant, ordinary girls gin was hitting on! Sacchan and kyuubei were mentioned in the metas too!!!"
Erm? Thanks for acknowledging your stupidity and algae-in-anus attitude that you threw every other girl beneath the one you ship with the loser male hero? You don't even see where the problem lies, and you have the audacity to reblog things such as, "we love and support girls" LMAO BULLSHIT you women are fcking disgusting
But i'm the bitch, right? You lie about people mocking rape victims, you called people in fandom whores (go back and look at the caps i posted, you stupid fck), you mocked characters who are sold into prostitution, you mocked their feminine values, i can go on? Spite shipping kontsuki lmao "We really love them!" YOU LOVE THEM??? LOOOOL. You mocked them separately as characters and you claim to love them???? You made a comment "kontsuuu <3" on KONTAE artist's twitter who happened to draw an interaction between tsukuyo and kondou (who was looking at otae from a rooftop) and you call that behaviour acceptable?????? I won't hesitate to surmise that your constant pestering of random artists who have NOTHING to do with you is what drove them away.
"Shipping zensachi is character deny (sic), sacchan loves gin! It's terrible and sick"
LMAO but shipping kontsu is not "character deny" ????? Pls. PLS LUNOSA. Gintaes. TsukiHinowas.
Why are you stalking me, exactly? Because i post all your shit out there? Why, though? What i'm showing already exists for all to see. I don't have many followers at all. Why are you scared, when you were so brave to talk shit before? Why are you following me just to get the latest updates on my posts? You're really sick women.
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saitouh · 5 years
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My friend wouldn’t reply to this because he doesn’t want his followers to see this or get into this or whatever. Me, on the other hand, IDGAF. Anyone who hates seeing anything like this is free to unfollow. I have zero attachments to fandom and to this site, anyone who has been with me for years would understand me well. If you’re a friend you would understand, if you’re not a friend, I don’t care (you don’t know me) plus if you’re a friend who hates seeing this, you’re ALSO free to unfollow. I’ll still be your friend, btw. And I don’t take offense that easily until someone like this bitch over here, and her friends, who have the nerve to continuously re-use their old victim card after bullying people and chasing people out of fandom. They want to dish it, but they aren’t willing to take when people lash back. 
First of all, I want to talk about the topic of disgust. My feelings of disgust stems from YOU, and your horde of bitches, who have the fcking audacity to accuse people of mocking rape victims when they were simply defending an innocent female character from being called a RAPIST. You tout that like it’s a fact, when these people, ME included, had no fcking idea that any rape has taken place, in fiction or real life. You lie about serious shit like this to win a fucking argument? Do you want me to push more disgusting screenshots of you in your face on my already published posts so you could play up more of that “I CAN EXPLAIN EVERYTHING” farce? Or do you want to continue to harass people via anonymous mail instead of standing out like a (wo)man? You all are repulsive, and I’m happy to hear that you find me the same way, because fck my life if a disgusting creep like you find me attractive. 
Secondly - I don’t make a lot of metas. I only open my mouth when I want to express my love for what I like. I tag my general stuff unconventionally. I don’t use the GINTSU tag. I have my own tag for this ship. I never tag my opinions. I don’t make a whole lot of gifs, and when I do, I tag them modestly. I have spent years on my own blog never making the initiative to talk to people because I’m lazy to don’t really give a fck about popularity. I stripped my entire blog of fancy themes and went back to default, I post nothing but the ugly truths about you all now. Things that most people find hard to read. Things that people avoid reading because it makes them feel down and mentally exhausted. Doing this, I don’t give a shit about losing followers. I don’t have that much free time to waste to obsess about maintaining a blog, and then keeping up with followers. BUT YOU? YOU ALL. MAN. Even your hateful opinions, you all just have to tag them all. Everything I didn’t do, you all did it for the sake of being heard. And now you want to present yourselves as Tsukuyo fans after shitting on her for so many years?? You make edits of her? You reblog her incessantly? LMAO YOU ALL EVEN REBLOG A GINTSUKI ART? And you call me the person seeking attention??? LMAO. You really are a precious pissbaby. BTW - I’m using “YOU” interchangeably all over this paragraph in the sense of the GENERAL “YOU” and also the SPECIFIC “YOU”. If you have a goddamn brain, use it to differentiate this distinction because your stupid friend back in October was apparently far too intellectually removed to understand this, instead he sprung on a trampoline and lost his underwear screaming, “YOU ARE A CUNT!! WHY ARE YOU SAYING THIS ABOUT ME??? I ONLY LEARNED WHAT YOU SAID YESTERDAY!!!” 
Thirdly, the worst kind of fans for a fandom are people like you who could only lean on anons and resort to using anons to attack people, lie to win a fcking argument, lie to chase people out of fandom, emotionally blackmail people (all those anons I have gotten over the years are on my blog). The mails only stopped after I blocked hundreds of people and disabled anon ask. The worst kind of fans for a fandom are people like YOU who can’t stand it when people are enjoying themselves and are celebrating what they love. You have to have something bad to say. You have to have your filthy opinion out there, you can’t keep it to yourself because you ARE that narcissistic and feel entitled. People have to pay attention to what you say. You want to shit on people and their headcanons, their preferences, their favourites, but when people do the same to you, your armpit hairs grow wild with thorns. You shitheads even sent hate to the Gin and Tsukuyo fan blog, and you want to act like you are blameless? If I were to note in chronological order the shit you have all done, I would be here forever until 2020 and Aero would still be 19. LMAO. Just don’t. You’re disgusting.  
Oh I see? Congratulations, you have been around fandoms for a long time, am I supposed to feel awed and humbled down by your elderly aura? Should I bring you a sparkly robe and a cane for you to bang the ground with? I wouldn’t even waste a roll of toilet paper to cover you with. Maybe your seniority in age is also a factor in your sphincter losing elascity, which causes your diarrhea to spray all over the fcking place.  
Lastly, and this is a repeat for the 10000th time, I don’t give a shit if some “Tsukuyo and GinTsu” fans (TM) are “ashamed” for whatever reason. You bet on your fat ass I don’t give a shit about this. You can act like you are the BETTER (TM) Tsukuyo fan or the PARAGON (TM) of unproblematicism (or any kind of -ism) -- you just make me laugh harder.
EDIT: FORGOT TO MENTION THAT BIT ABOUT NITPICKING
Nitpicking about what exactly? My recent posts about TsukiHinowa? About what you said about PROSTITUTE JOKES? Or the shit you guys threw out about Tsuki Hinowa and Seita being OT3? Because all that shit isn’t nitpicking. Nitpicking is when you all constantly cry how TSUKUYO IS WEAK WEAK WEAK, a fcking prostitute, a hooker who isn’t good enough for GIN. It’s ALWAYS HER who isn’t good enough for him, when in fact it’s the other way round. Check your fcking self, bitch. 
EDIT EDIT: The more I look at the anon’s message the more vile and disgusting they sound. ....NAH, it’s the usual vile and disgusting shit. Instigating a drama is when you lie about people insulting rape victims to win a fcking argument instead of acknowledging you were wrong about Tsukuyo, when you make a fake “call out” post to destroy the other person, thinking I wouldn’t dare to pull out the actual receipts. Instigating a drama is when you immediately found out about MY post when i tagged NOTHING and then suddenly have a flurry of anons talking about this “BREAKING NEWS”. Just what the actual fuck? Instigating a drama is when you continue with your shit despite people telling you to stop up front. And how did you continue this? By hiding behind a mask of anonymity and EMOTIONALLY BLACKMAIL people to stop spilling the truth about your ugly selves. Your tactics that you used on LATS, and other PEOPLE (my friends who didn’t want to communicate with you any longer) do not work on me. You understand?  
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