i think the actual disconnect between nie mingjue and jin guangyao is that nie mingjue is dying and knows he's dying and has to stick so so so closely to his morals and virtues or else it'll have been for nothing and then he'll have to come to terms with the fact that maybe he didn't actually have to die after all vs jin guangyao who wants to live, he wants to live and be safe and have all the things he was told he could never have-was told he was never good enough to have-and will do almost anything to make it so. and these are two like irreconcilable point of views right (and both Correct and Wrong at the same time) and so they can't understand each other because they aren't even having the same argument and neither of them can see that
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jackson broke 2 of his canines and while they're not down to the gum line it's still pretty worrying for infection. Called the vet and explained the situation and they immediately jumped to wanting to extract?? The tooth before even having seen him or looked at it
Idk it just feels like a big red flag when a doctor / vet jumps to a pretty serious procedure without having seen the problem yet
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I keep waffling endlessly on whether or not I want to try and get an iud
On the one hand I really don’t want to get pregnant and condoms aren’t foolproof
But on the other hand iuds make me nervous. The insertion sounds awful and then if ends not working for your body you have to wait and schedule a removal. And I haven’t a good time and previous bc (Nuvaring and a very brief stint on the pill) and there are so many horror stories about them (maybe I should stop reading redit) and while the odds are really low, you can still get pregnant on them! But honestly the thing that really makes me nervous is the comments of people going “I loved it!! It was so great!! Except for [horrifying list of side effects that I could never deal with]” because it’s like is everything is just terrible and all the people who are very satisfied with it just don’t mind the suffering because everything else is somehow even worse for them??
The more I read about birth control the options the more I want to throw the whole man away and go back to single. Ugh. Why is it so terrible to be a woman
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for me… FOR ME..!!! and for shri’iia specifically the lock in for astarion’s romance is his graveyard scene in act 3.
i think it is too quick for shri’iia to be moving on to another relationship considering her previous one was with her mistress who essentially groomed and isolated her for like … more than hundred years. learning to chase her own desires and not moulding herself to what anyone wants her to be is something so new to her…!!! and something that she’s still learning how to be comfortable with….
and what I like abt romancing astarion with her is that I usually go for the dialogue path in his act 2 confession scene where you can ask him:
- what do YOU want to do?
and he goes like honestly idk what we’re doing but /this/ is nice. it just feels like two people exploring the option to love for the first time and taking things in their own pace rather than jumping straight into the relationship. they’re going at a snails pace… they don’t know what they’re doing but they like this feeling and the vibe and they want to more of it but they’re not ready to commit to anything yet and it’s fine for them …!! and they’re only committing by the end in the graveyard scene where significant time has passed and they’ve learnt a little more about themselves and they’re both more confident about their own desires and also how they want to be loved.
like it is so fitting I think… and sweet… not to mention astarion being a high elf & a vampire and shri’iia being a drow, they have all the time of the world for themselves so I def think they would want to take their time. except if shri’iia turns into a mindflayer or drider by the end then that plan is out the window lol
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Novembmas, Day 13: First Train / Favorites !
Transcription:
[Ingo brings a mug to Emmet working on his laptop on the couch]
(E) [Emmet] (1) "Yayy ! Thanks, you're the best !"
(I) [Ingo] (2) "So does that mean I'm your favorite brother ?"
(E) (3) "But you're the only one I have ?"
[Ingo puts his head on Emmet's and hugs him from behind the couch]
(I) (4) "But am Iiii ?"
(E) (5) "Of course you are"
(I) (6) "Well you're also my favorite brother"
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Look, I know there are a lot of people who like this scene and think it's romantic. Ok. No big deal. I can see it.
But I saw the Barbie movie somewhat recently and now when I see it I only think
And it makes me think of the difference men and women have to the here, let me help / let me show you.
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You know sometimes I think I dont even care about having a partner anymore lol like the longer I go without, the less interested I become and the more secure I am in my sense of self as a complete standalone person. The less enticing the whole abstract concept of a relationship thing becomes. (also literally how do people do it? i can't fathom being in the middle of one unfolding. If it happened next week I still wouldnt know what to do about it or how to respond. in all honesty that sounds like a flight situation) but I wouldn't leave self shipping comm for the social aspect + I like admiring unattainable beautiful men superficially. also it takes a fictional man to decipher me, put up with me and love me completely for who and what I truly am. like the base essentials of me.
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I was so close not to eating sugar tonight for all the tasty candy... Then I ate candy 😜
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