#'ok so i am not nb anymore... but also... me??'

[beababoobies]

Hey, could you please do an angel dust x emo reader?

I am going to be using NB!reader for this but please do know I’m quite aware Angel is gay! He is canonically gay and I think that’s cool yippers ok lesgo 🙏🙏 by Emo I wasn’t sure exactly what you meant so I went with like an angry moody bitch with a 2000s MySpace Emo sort of aesthetic. If you want something diff feel free to re-request and specify! Thatz it :3 </3 (also Emo community please don’t attack me you guys are so cool I’m scared of you. I know corpse paint is gothic I swear please you guys are so cool).

Corpse Paint

Angel Dusk X Emo!NB!Reader

words : 1k , warning for mentions of sexual trauma!

You had been staying in this fucking hotel for months. Did it suck ass? Yes. Did you kind of maybe despise half the people here? Oh, absolutely. But - free place to crash, and it’s not like you were doing much with your days anyways, so the “rehabilitation” excersizes only got positivity-toxic half the time. Plus, Charlie let you skip out on them. Her little girlfriend didn’t though, so you were usually there dejectedly. Not anything worse than your highschool experience. 

But you also had Angel. Anthony. Whatever he let you call him depending on the day. And he was half the reason you stayed here. The amount of times you’ve crawled into bed with him and cried? You hadn’t cared to keep track of anymore. A long day, night - of shooting scenes, and you gently comforted him while he laid tiredly in bed, rubbing his back until he fell asleep. Plus, you liked his pig. You and fat nuggets would hangout whenever he was gone. 

You wouldn’t consider your relationship too romantic, but it was unbelievably supportive. You two didn’t really get intimate, due to his work, he didn’t trust anyone he was intimate with. He told you that that could change, but you reassured him over and over that it didn’t ever have to. You were happy gently comforting him. You were happy drinking with him, you were happy to be around him.

That didn’t mean he was completely touch-adverse, though. You exchanged small pecks on the cheeks, held hands - though not publicly, due to some of his fans obsessive behaviours - cuddled up. Charlie had offered to just let you guys share a room, but you had rejected the idea and shut it down pretty quickly. You loved each other very dearly, but sometimes you just needed space. 

Today wasn’t one of those days, though. You, head resting in his lap as he scrolled on his phone, your 2000s MySpace mix playing softly in the background as you looking through a new catalogue of Hell’s Most Edgy with a marker, circling anything you liked, Fat Nuggets sleeping soundly at Angel’s feet, snoring loudly. But adorably. 

“I have a favor to ask.” Angel mumbled out nervously. He hated asking for anything. Especially from someone he had already asked so much of. But you just nodded silently, circling a new, shiny pair of black platforms, before looking up at him with a small smile. “‘Sup, Webs?” You asked, tilting your head as you sat up properly.

“I - well, Val wants to do this shoot today, but he wants me to do Corpse paint. I don’t know how to do.. that. So I was wondering if you could help me out?” He asks with a nervous smile, only to watch the smile on your face grow wide, nodding excitedly as you hopped quickly off the bed to run to your room to get your makeup, disturbing a now cranky Fat Nuggets, who oinked at Angel before walking over to his bed to fall back to sleep. 

You came back into his room, closing the door quietly behind you, box of white cream foundation and a million sticks of eyeliner and other black makeup pencils, along with some dramatic statement lashes and lash glue, sitting down next to him on the bed on your knees, gesturing for him to sit up with his legs out straight. You straddled him softly, opening your box of makeup.

“So, this feels - kind of gross to put on. Gonna survive that?” You ask with a smile, tilting your head as he nodded with a small chuckle. “I’ve had much worse on my face.” He says with a wink and a smile. “I’ll survive.” He says with a shrug as you brush some of his fluff out of his face, starting to paint the thick white foundering over his pale pink fur, watching him awakward my try to avoid eye contact, hands awkwardly shifting, trying not to touch your thighs.

“You can put your hands on my thighs, it’s okay. I’m not going to initiate anything.” You say reassuringly and watch as one of his pairs of hands rest comfortably on your thighs, the other set holding up a mirror so he can see the work you’re doing. You watch him visibly relax slightly. He always is a little paranoid about people trying to be intimate with him - reasonably so - so you make sure to quietly reassure him in these moments. 

It takes a couple thick layers of the face paint to get his Angel stamp of approval, in which you go in with black eye-safe eyeliner for his eyes, coating them in black and following the image he used as reference, making streaks of black run from his eyes. You pierced your lips together as you leaned back to admire your work. “It’s missing something.” You mumble quietly, before peeking up and pulling out a pair of white lashes from your kit, and he smiles. You let him apply them himself, and with some white underliner, it looks perfect.

You give him some black lipstick, too, but that’s about the extent of what he wants. You give him your old lipstick too, because you and him both know he’s gonna need some re-applying. You watch as he walks over to the mirror, admiring your work - a job well done you’re sure - when he smiles at his reflection and the giddy way you smile back at him through your own reflection.

He pulls you up into a big hug and you giggle as he picks you up and spins you around, before you get him to put you down, smiling from ear to ear at how happy he looks with himself and the work you’ve done. His phone buzzes and he sighs, kissing you softly on the head before heading out, not even daring to put his famous sunglasses on and ruin your work. 

A new memory that’s keeping you sane in these old hotel walls. 

#hazbin angel dust #angel dust #angel dust x reader #angel dust x you #hazbin hotel #hellaverse #hazbin charlie #hazbin vaggie #fat nuggets #my fucking beloved

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

WITA if i told my friend that being on her period isnt an excuse for being a bitch?

I (FTM) have been friends with E (FTM) and K (NB) for about 2 years now. I am a bit closer with E than K because were both autistic but not so much closer that ruins our friendship with K. Ok for some background info E is autistic and has lots of F/Os, some of which are terrible people in thier canon story. K also has F/Os which some happen to be the victim of Es F/Os. K has taken offense to E having "evil" F/Os and has been trying to make E drop them for quite some time. Me and E have both tried to explain that for E they arent evil anymore but K is still mad about it for some reason. A week or so ago K was on thier period and was still mad about Es F/Os. K then told thier entire class ( none of which know about Es F/Os ) that Es boyfriend eats frozen lady parts. (happened in one if Es F/Os canon story) This was obviously really embarrassing to E and made people tease and make fun of E even more. When E finally confronted K and asked for an apology K blamed it on her period and said it was Es fault anyways for having evil F/Os and never apologized. Imo that is a bitch move and think that E should establish boundaries with K or drop them. K is Es only friend at thier school and also has major attachment issues and refuses to confront them and told me not to talk to K so it doesnt "ruin thier friendship". WIBTA if i texted K anyways and told them what they did was bitchy (🗣️ so i recognise my post)

What are these acronyms?

#aita #am i the asshole

[babygirlbondage]

Hi, hope your vacation was wonderful! I just stumbled across your page and could not look away for hours. You’re very skilled!

As a thank you, I wanted to say the fantasy which took me over the edge (the asks telling for reduced time got me thinking). Oh btw, they/she/(maybe it) trans fem nb, but no worries if you’re at capacity for ask subs. Regardless enjoy :).

I want to be clicker trained when right on the edge. There’ll be more things integrated as time passes (giving a pathetic “arf~” at every click, making sure my collar is on, etc), but the main focus remains a step below satisfaction, fully submissive to my master. Every click erases all human thoughts, leaving me extremely horny and with begging eyes. Absolute putty.

One night, after a few denial filled days, I’m told i get to top and, if well behaved, even cum. positioned behind her, chin near his shoulder with my ear next to his mouth. hips shaking, pleasure shooting everywhere, being told how good a pup i am and how good i’m making my owner feel.

eventually, finally, given permission. However, they starts clicking at every thrust. no matter how hot and frustrated i am, relief never comes. i start begging through whimpers, but the only responses received are faux pity “cum puppy, you’ve been so good.” “Aww, what’s wrong mutt?” and eventually “It’s ok, you’ll get another chance pet. Eventually.” After clean up is a well deserved snack and drifting off in a tight cuddle.

And yes I see the humor in that this is what took me over lol.

-♾️ if it’s available

im never at capacity for subs honey, i love adding new ones to my little collection and teasing you! especially fellow trans subs, you guys hold a special place in my mind. also thank you for the compliments on my blog im really happy you like it!!

and youd be the perfect puppy to clicker train with fantasies like that in your head. watching you whimper and shake as you got so close but never getting the sweet release you crave would be a divine and pathetic sight.

youd look so needy, giving me your best puppy eyes and silently begging to cum. of course the you would be denied longer because i find joy in your torment. teasing you for not being able to cum when you hear that click.

such a simple noise yet it holds so much power over you, doesnt it? the press of a button and you cant control yourself anymore? what a dumb mutt.

dumb is perfection though when it comes to pets. with time youll be so well trained that youll beg for the clicker to be involved, itll be better than anything you could ever long for. no orgasm would be able to top the sound of the clicker when you get close. the click will resonate in your stupid puppy brain, like a song you cant get out of your head.

youll be fully reduced to a barking, needy, denied mess. serving your master will be the only thing you want. and of course on special occasions youll get to cum, but it certainly wont be often. youll be praised frequently though for being a good girl. i think all good puppies should be told when they make their masters proud after all.

#also congratulations you just gave me a new fantasy~ #also im so sorry it took me so long to respond i was still on my trip when you submitted this :( #♾️.anon #clicker training #trans petpl@y #t4t petpl@y #petpl@y #petpl4y #puppy training #dumb puppy #good puppy #denial kink #denial nsft #humiliation kink #bd/sm puppy #t4t nsft #t4t sub #t4t dom #trans nsft #trans sub #trans dom #babygirlbondage #vix.asks

[ask-uts-earthspark-au]

Ok so when I write stuff I always make Nightshade he/him because that’s is what comes naturally for me. But I am not a non binary hater. I have had people block me for trying to explain this so that is why I am anonymous.

I just want to say NiGHTSHADE YOU ARE AWESOME AND EVEN IF SOME PEOPLE LIKE ME DONT USE YOUR PRONOUNS WE LOVE YOU ANYWAY. I LOVE YOU SOOOOOOOO MUCH

sorry if I offended someone. offending people is a fear of mine

Anon, I’m not going to be overly rude here, and if I come off as such, that’s not my intention, though I am a little vindictive here. But I’m going to be wholly honest here: not using someone’s preferred pronouns, and ignoring them in favor of what’s more comfortable for you personally, is actually very disrespectful, and it does not demonstrate love.

Now, for the moment, I’ll give you a pass, because I definitely understand if you haven’t had much time and experience to get used to it, so you’re new to writing them, I was there too, but please at least try to work on using they/them/their for them, and in future asks you send please refer to them as a they/them. It doesn’t have to be an overnight transformation, but work on it. I’m sure if you try, give yourself some time, and start working on it, soon it will come naturally like nothing.

And for the record, when I say I understand, I remember when I was first writing them way back when the series came out - while they’re all drafts within my Wattpad books, and I always went back to correct myself, just to enforce that self-policing I was doing to make sure I got them right - I used to use gendered pronouns for them sometimes too.

It was a slip, and I really never meant to be hateful, or spiteful. Most characters had always been gendered in some form, so that’s what I was subconsciously used to.

But, as I wrote, and wrote, and the more I thought of them as a they/them, the more that tendency to gendered terms slipped away, and now calling them a they/them/their is so natural I don’t even really have to think anymore.

This proves obvious from how since then, I have lots of lovely NB characters, such as:

Knockout, Trans Genderfluid - She, her, they, and them are most common, but occasionally uses he, him, and his.

Dragstrip, Demifluid - They/Them, occasionally also he/him

Mesothulas, Agender - They/Them

Unnamed Getaway/Atomizer Kid, Genderless - any/all pronouns; gender what’s that? who needs one, that shit’ll weigh them down. as far as anyone else is concerned, their gender is anarchy, and they identify as a threat to the government.

Evac, Bigender - He/him and They/them

So trust me, if you start to focus down on calling them they/them/their, it will become easier! Just work on it, and slowly with a little bit of time it’ll practically be second nature soon.

Best of luck! :)

#i apologize if this sounds preachy #I am trying to give you the benefit of the doubt and trust you will be willing to at least try #thank you for the ask! #anon ask #answered asks #ask box #transformers #earthspark #transformers earthspark #ut answers #nonbinary #enby

[applejongho]

On gender: sometimes I wonder if I'm actually nonbinary or if I just want to be alt and am doing it to break away from my parents' expectations. It's so frustrating to the point it's caused me partially not to come out to certain people because like. what if I'm wrong? And that sort of implicit disapproval masked as concern is so. It's so hard to confront anyone about it because of how it's framed.

I think the good and bad thing about both gender and identifying with a subculture is that there's not a strict set of rules you must fulfill to "join" either. But that means that you can come and go freely in any if you want to, or stay with one/a few forever. Whichever is more comfortable.

way more under the cut bc i started talking and never stopped 🤠

I can't speak on the nb experience because I've never identified as it or thought I was nb, but I can at least speak on why I'm not nb AND why I resonate with alternative subcultures all the same. I really resonated with alternative subcultures bc of the music and political ideologies but also because growing up I consistently never felt like I fit in with other girls around me. They all presented or acted in ways that just didn't click with me, to the point where I thought something was wrong with me for it. I didn't have the word or the idea that a girl could look like something else, so I dressed like they did bc I thought that's what I was supposed to do as a girl (but also my parents forced gender roles on me so it's not like i had a choice). I didn't get how others could like what they were wearing and feel comfortable in it. But then I started dressing "edgier" (when i got older) and all of a sudden I understood.

But the key here is I didn't ever feel like I wasn't a girl despite not resonating with the girls at school. And I can't exactly articulate that bc gender is so personal but I just know that I felt proud of female accomplishments in history and wanted to follow in their footsteps, I felt a social connection to girls and didn't feel "othered" (besides them liking how they dressed and i didnt), and when nb people started appearing in my life I didn't connect w them in that way or wish to be like them (in the sense like, I didn't want to "present" like them* or say my pronouns were they/them or whatever "precursors" there are to being nb). I've also heard that some nb people before realizing they are nb is they feel uncomfortable when they are indirectly called a girl or boy in a group of afab/amab people by a professor/teacher/adult/whatever saying "hey girls/boys!" and I never had that issue.

* = nb people present in a variety of ways and it's not a one size fits all, I just mean generally if I saw someone with they/them pronouns I wasn't like *kicking my feet* I want that

But like tldr, despite alt subcultures and being nb being similar in the idea that you're breaking society's expectation of [something], I could recognize I felt ok in the broad woman gender box while also feeling not ok in a specific gender presentation box. And that's all easy to say now that i went through my Self Expression Arc but it's a lot of trial and error, soul searching, Thinking, crying, observing others... until you begin to get a semblance of who u might be.

But like back to feeling like you're "faking it," ig something I've learned is that even if you're faking it, that doesn't negate your time labeling as That Thing (ie using certain pronouns and backtracking) and no one that matters will be pissed off that you backtracked. We're all figuring that shit out and if someone wants to be weird about it, whatever lol. Ig my advice is just do whatever you're comfortable with, come out to as many or as few people as you'd like to, and if you still feel Wrong ("they/them doesn't feel right to me anymore") then don't be afraid to try on a new set of pronouns or change up your style a bit. Unfortunately a lot of finding out yourself is just trial and error until something sticks.

I hope my experience/advice helps clear up some things and maybe others can comment too if they want, ie nb people that can fill in the gaps that I can't fill. Much love ❤️

#tad 🐉 #i hope u are doing well!

[roweclementine]

Getting ready to end my Spotify subscription when it expires at the end of the month but I’m keeping the account up so here’s all of my playlists that I’ve made since I joined back in summer 2020

Downloads (the Big One)

2023:

March 2023 (v proud of the cover for this one; can’t believe I’ve been doing these for a whole year)

April 2023

May 2023

June 2023

Fourth Of July 2023 (Rowe’s Version)

august 2023

September 2023

October 2023

November 2023

December 2023

March-December 2023

2024:

January 2024 (platonic breakup season woooo)

February 2024

March 2024

The monthly playlist idea was stolen from @trenchcrows. Each playlist has as many songs as there were days in that month (except when they don’t because some of them used to have Lovejoy/Wilbur songs in them). They were my favorite/most listened to/most looped songs from each month. It was a fun project and I think that it’s cool that I can look back and figure out exactly when I got into certain songs or when certain things were happening to me. November-January was certainly A Time.

Queer Playlists:

Aspec (aro and/or ace songs)

🏳️‍⚧️ (trans/nb songs)

🏳️‍🌈 (gay gay homosexual gay)

Podcast Adjacent Playlists:

Favorite SFBO Episodes

Favorite Podcasts

Songs from Let’s Learn Everything!

Playlists For Specific Artists/Albums:

GLOOM DIVISION (new idkhow album go stream it)

We’re Not Panicking! At The Disco Anymore (by Fall Out Boy)

Everything by Jon Walker (all of the songs/bands mentioned in Everything)

Jon Walker favorites

Waterparks songs named after colors

Waterparks Songs Named After Pixar Quotes

Sparrow Sleeps

Infinity on High but it's my favorite parts (by fall out boy)

Local Dreamers (the Wait I Need to Listen to Twenty One Pilots More So They Show Up on My Wrapped playlist)

American Beauty/American Psycho, but with 9% more Demi Lovato

Razzmatazz, but with 9% more Tessa Violet

Playlists For Specific Situations:

Songs to listen to at the end of the year

Beachy

Therapy :( (Rowe is not having a good time)

Therapy :) (Rowe is not having a good time but she’s trying to be optimistic now)

✨ Seasonal Depression ✨ (Rowe is not having a good time part 3, now with more Christmas)

Christmas Songs That I Actually Like (We’re going to ignore the fact that Every Snowflake is Different isn’t technically a Christmas song ok?)

Relationships:

Breakup songs

Show Me The Door (break up songs; a playlist dedicated to my mother)

/ (love songs)

Hopeless Romantic Bittersweet Yearning (more love songs)

& (songs about friendship)

Spotify Wrapped:

Rowe’s 2020 Wrapped

Rowe’s 2021 Wrapped

Rowe’s 2022 Wrapped

Rowe’s 2023 Wrapped

Rowe’s Wrapped 2019-2023 (I had Spotify in 2019 but was using a different account at the time)

Minecraft:

Fallen Kingdom Saga

Minecraft Songs

The Minecraft Archives:

TMcA

tmca!Tommy

(The Minecraft archives was a mcyt (dsmp/Hermitcraft season 8) tma au that I was working on which I am no longer writing because of Current Events)(I also had a TMcA!Wilbur playlist but I deleted it back in February along with all of my other Lovejoy playlists because fuck Wilbur)

The Rest Of Them:

Saturday Saturday Saturday Saturday (sometimes you just wanna listen to songs with Saturday in the title; here’s a playlist for that)

Favorite Covers

Walmart Radio but it’s the songs I actually like

# (songs with numbers in the title)

Duets & features

Inside you there are two wolves (aka Fall Out Boy are liars)

Eurovision Favs

and finally,

Some Songs That Aren’t Lovejoy:

When did this happen why are there so many of them this post took like an hour to make

#Spotify #playlists #music

[queenmeriadoc]

Hi! Could you please recommend a few (TROP)Celebrimbor X reader fics? Thank you 💕

Ok, so you might think that since I am Celebrimbor (ROP) #1 fan I would have 1500 recommendations, but I don't. However, here is the ones I could find:

I Have Loved the Stars too Fondly by @wreckers-wife

You're safe with me. (tw abuse, also not actually trop!Celebrimbor, but it's really good).

This whole thread that turned into a fanfic somehow.

Pure Art by @starlady66 but it's a Celebrimbor x Gil-Galad x NB!Reader tho.

And this imagine.

I had more but lotrnonsense is gone so I can't read them anymore *crying*

#thetempleofthemasaigoddess

[a-pile-of-unread-books]

Have you ever seen your parents do the most mischievous shit, while knowing perfectly what they're doing, while also having a straight face, to your grandparents?

Well, I have. And It was fucking hilarious.

Ok. So, yesterday I was at my grandparents house with my mom and my cousins and my aunt and uncle. We just finished having lunch, and me and my two cousins (one is like 10 and the othaer one is my age) were watching TV while I was on my phone too. Then my mom comes in and tells us that my grandpa (who is like seventy-something/eighty and pretty homophobic) is watching red white and royal blue. I, of course, knew immediately that my mom was behind this, and probably told my grandpa to watch it, I obviously was shocked and laughing, because I enjoy the mischief and the chaos and exposing homophobic people to gay shit without them knowing.

I'd like to say that I also love my grandpa, he is a good person and has always been nice to me and my cousins (tho he obviously doesn't know that I am a lesbian and that my cousin is NB and pan), and he is also not someone who hates gay people, he's just from another time, and he knows he has to be respectful.

That said, let me tell you how this went. Me and my cousin were watching from the doorframe of the room where my grandpa was clearly enjoying the film, and we were holding the laugh because he had no idea of what was coming.

Later, I went to the kitchen to get food, and on my way out my mom said "Go check if Toti is still watching the film or if he's just sleeping at this point" (by the way, Toti is how we all call my grandpa), so I did what my mom told me, and he was very awake and still enjoying the film.

Now, here's the fun part. He was in the scene where Alex and Henry are about to fuck in the White House. I immediately went to tell my cousin and we ran to the door frame and watched him expecting any reaction. We were holding our laughs and tears, but then I couldn't hold it anymore, so I went back to the room where we were previously watching TV. A few seconds later my cousin came back and I asked him what Toti did, and he said he just turned the TV off. We laughed and then kept watching TV.

Then I went back to the kitchen and, on the way out, asked my mom what had Toti said about the film, she said that he had told her that it was too gay for him and that he got disturbed.

I honestly never thought that my mom was that evil. I mean, I know her, but I didn't think she was able to do something like that, and I love that she did.

#red white and royal blue #rwrb movie #rwrb #rwrb spoilers #rwrb film #alex claremont diaz #prince henry #my mom is insane #and I love her fr that #gay

[thedarkjotun]

Do you think it’s ok for headcannons for gender-fluid reader x ominis, but it’s the readers birthday! So maybe some (nsfw headcannons to, if that’s ok)

@ceciliawastaken

First of all: I love this request, because it's giving me some validation for reasons I'll explain below. Thinking about this scenario is giving me all the feels 🥺

Secondly, this really needs 2 disclaimers. 1: I identified as genderfluid 2-3 years ago but don't anymore so I am going to be drawing on my personal experience as much as I can with these, but I do sincerely apologise if these are not as accurate in that regard as you would have hoped, as I wish to be as respectful as I can at all times. This could just be me overthinking as usual but it is NEVER my intention to offend anyone when it comes to this. And 2: I really am sorry about this one, I'm not entirely comfortable doing NSFW and I swear it's purely because I'm not confident enough in my ability to do them well. I enjoy reading NSFW Ominis stuff (hell, I reblog a lot of it) but I don't even consider myself an adequate writer for SFW stuff alone! I'm afraid I'd disappoint you terribly with my attempts at NSFW, so I hope it's okay if I leave that one to the experts.

And last but not least I need to thank @remus-levioso for how the situation with dorms would work at Hogwarts, top notch ideas as always 💜

Also these are just the HCs for Omi that I have swimming around in my own head so again I apologise if they are kinda mid 😬

---

okie so i hc ominis as being generally quite shy about things that are new to him, but when it comes to your fluidity his fear of making a single mistake far outweighs his shyness, so he'd be the type to ask you direct questions about absolutely anything he's unsure of in order to make sure he gets things right as much as possible

idc if it sounds unrealistic for the time period, since there are no specifically nb/fluid dorm rooms we're going to imagine a perfect world where the genderfluid!reader is permitted to switch between dorms as needed. ominis will always put your own feelings and comfort first but he's ecstatic whenever you're spending the night in his dorm because he craves for you to be close when you're sleeping

it may sound like a slightly formal approach, but he'd make it a habit to ask which pronouns you're comfortable with each day: "how are you feeling? how would you like me to refer to you?"

i think he'd get excited to find out what you're wearing on any given day, and especially on your birthday. he'd run his hands over the textures on the fabric of your clothes and through your hair to 'see' how you've styled it that day, smiling to himself. "beautiful, of course, just as i expected."

(real quick while we're on the subject - if you choose to bind on masc days i see him politely offering to help out and he always wants to check that you've done it safely and comfortably regardless of how many times you've done it)

so on your birthday if you've slept beside him in the wizards' dorms that morning, he'd wake you with his fingers brushing your hair back from your face to press his lips gently against your cheek in a sweet little chaste kiss. "happy birthday, [y/n]." he'd insist on giving you your gift there first before you leave to start the school day (so that you're able to wear it to all your classes...) and if you've stayed on the witches' side he'll 100% be standing right at the bottom of the stairs to the common room waiting for you to come down

his gift would be a ring he'd gotten specially engraved in hogsmeade (i think i was talking about ominis and engraved jewellery a couple of weeks ago on here and i'm obsessed with this notion so i had to include it, also this would just be a regular engraving and not braille this time) with his initials along the inside of the band. now i've read that it wasn't particularly common for men to wear wedding rings back in the victorian era (this is only a promise ring anyway of course) but the cute thing about this is that he would have a matching one with your initials on it. he'd have consciously chosen a very simple design so that you can wear it during both fem and masc periods. here's a link to what i picture it looking similar to: (click)

lbr okay this dude treats you like a prince/princess constantly, but you get Special Treatment™ on your birthday. i see his love language being a mixture of quality time and acts of service, so this means you get your books carried and also him insisting on sitting right beside you at every meal in the great hall even if he isn't feeling peckish. in the middle of charms class he'd fetch something out of his pocket and slide it into your hand next to his on the desk with a "don't worry about the usual honeydukes trip this afternoon for [insert your fave treat here], i picked up some extra ones for you yesterday."

as with most other hcs i see on here, i too think that our dear omi is not really one to be packing on a lot of pda in front of everyone. that being said, on your birthday i do like to think of him giving you little kisses on the top of your hand or your shoulder throughout the day when you get a moment alone in an empty hallway or during history of magic while everyone else is nodding off. sneaky boi he is 🥰

#this is my first request ever and i honestly didn't expect to get any #i hope i did something right as i really appreciate you taking the time to ask 🥺 #ominis gaunt

[potatogoats1blog]

Hi, welcome to my blog!

Im Alex, you can call me Soap/Moss(or both), Neko, Goat/Potato, or anything you like!

I speak Russian/Ukrainian, Italian, and English. No war or russiaphobia mentions, i chose stay on the neutral side and I'm glad if you get that.

My pronouns are he/they/it. You may use "she" only if we're close and im comfy with you

Im genderfluid!

This blog is Drama-free! That means i will not support or enter any gender/sexuality drama in the UT/DR fandom or any fandom in general.

KFC gang and many other characters canonically use They/Them pronouns. That doesn't give you the right to envade personal space of someone who thinks otherwise or makes AU's with ANY of them using different pronouns. Keep your believes and headcanons(and the urge to spread canons) to yourself.

Warning list:

Ban list:

@lovesupportbot (for being cringe, homophobic and pushing me(and other ppl) to blackwash my characters)

DNI undercut

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Do not(or try not to) interact if you're:

· Racist, Homophobic, transphobic, anti-feminist or an asshole in general

· Pedofilia supporter (including such ship as Frans. I know there's some version of Frans that is NOT pedofilia or where both characters dont have a huge age gap, but please, still do your best to not interact with me if you ship those

Upd 4.1.23: Such ships as Chans, Chariel, and any other type of incest/pedophilia(/big age gap ships), are in the list too! )

· Art tracer. Fuck you i will spit on you and slap you

· Hi! There was a black/white-washing and making characters trans/nb part of the DNI. I wrote it when i was the person who misgendered KFC and other nb characters and i absolutely didnt remember it was there, when i was updating my DNI list. I am sorry if you ever saw that. I am deleting this part because i do not think about these things anymore. Everyone is free to do their HC's how they like them as long as they dont disrespect any other authors or the canons of the characters. Peace <33

And the usual!

Now what you may see in my blog? <3

CHARISK! - It's my comfort ship, so yeah, you may see it alot here!

My Chara and Frisk are absolutely not canon. My Chara uses she/they and My Frisk uses all(she/he/they/it!! No neo)pronouns. Please do not misgender them.

T.H.D - which stands for "The hero disappeared", which is.. My Deltarune AU! You may ask more about it, but im currently working on an animatic for it!!

THD TRIGGER WARNING: Minor smoke, drugs, death, sh/su1c1de, homophobia and violence. Also injuries and blood and many non kid-friendly things

NONAMETALE - it has no name, but it's my AU, check it uwu

And also other au's, fanarts, reblogs and sh!tposts.

GORE, BLOOD, SH/SU1C1DE, MINOR SMOKING, DEPRESSION MENTIONS OR VISUAL REPRESENTATION OF IT. - many violence huh

IM OK WITH MINORS ON MY BLOG, but my blog contains GORE, BLOOD, SH/SU1C1DE, AND MANY OTHER NOT KID-FRIENDLY THINGS. So it's going to be YOUR responsibility if you get traumatized. I warned you.

To get an anonim ask write "/Anon". I will not answer the ask directly from the askbox and i will not look at your blog. I'll post the question in a regular post and answer it

Being a child with special needs doesn't free you from your responsibilities! So be careful of what you write.

PLEASE USE TONETAGS!

Important info: i have 4 sonas, all of them use the same pronouns as me and all of them are genderfluid. I have suicidal intentions, SH problems, and should get therapy but can't afford that. I seek happiness in my comfort characters and i may change them to stay even more comfy. Its my happy space, do not ruin it and I'll be respectful in your space.

[5/09/2022]

[Upd 23/09/2022]

[Upd 20/12/2022]

Read this.

#phew i did that

[alatismeni-theitsa]

Hey, nb anon here that asked that question about gender neutral names. I just wanted to thank you for the effort you put into replying and allowing me to reach more Greek people who are more educated than I am. you made me feel seen, provided extremely useful information, and connected me with other Greeks that I probably wouldn’t have been able to find otherwise. I am still thinking about how to proceed in light of everyone’s insights, but your kind words and vital information are much appreciated, I really am so grateful for the fact you give Greeks from all over the world and in diverse communities a voice in their culture. You don’t have to post this, but if you do, then I would love to thank everyone who contributed to the discussion and provided their insights.

Also, off topic but I think it’s important, please take care of yourself! I bet it can feel like you’re under a lot of pressure to help people and never be wrong, but I hope you know you can take a break and take care of yourself. Please please take care of yourself, you are a vital voice in our community but your wellbeing is also important and I hope you don’t forget that.

I am so grateful for you and the community you have brought together, thank you very much for your advice and thoughts! Please don’t feel pressured to post this or respond to this, just take care of yourself and know your work is benefitting others!

Thanks a ton dear! Ευχαριστώ πάρα πολύ! I think this is one of the kindest messages I've received and I can't describe how much it warms my heart! I appreciate all the time you took to write to me! 💙💙💙I'm posting the ask to give you my thanks in return, and also to make your gratitude known to the people who gave info on your request :)

It is pressure to be seen as a point of reference because people assume I can't be wrong, or that I believe I cannot be wrong 😕 And surely, I'm trying to give accurate info or give people access to accurate info but I can't be perfect. Sometimes it takes weeks or years to realize what I could've done better.

I'm only one person with various medical difficulties so there are time and energy constrictions. I really like receiving asks, and I love offering whatever info I have! No one is forcing me to write walls of text at a time 😂 Sadly, sometimes there are observers (not the kind askers themselves) who want to see JSTOR quality answers here that cover absolutely everything, and if they don't see it they dismiss the whole message completely. Or they don't offer some counterpoints that I'd be happy to discuss.

Buuuut this is Tumblr and I'm an ill, chronically exhausted potato* and they should remember the site we are on. (And that they don't even pay me to give me a headache with aggressive and bad arguments😂 I don't do that much for free anymore! 😂)

(*ok no one has actually diagnosed me with "potato" yet, but ONE DAY I'll add this diagnosis to my collection🙌 Maybe when I die and my body feeds the earth and then sprouts a potato?? A theitsa can dream 😂)

In any case, I do want to keep a community here and set the ground for Greeks and Greek citizens to be heard when it comes to matters of our culture and/or country. I created this blog cause no one else would do it. I don't have all the answers but I can only get wiser and more responsible with time! And I'm very happy when I hear good news about people who've been helped!

Good grief... I just realized I fell into the conversation pattern of an older Greek woman

Get excited and thank people

Moan about difficulties and annoying people

Mention illness and death

Reassure that theitsa will be here to annoy everyone forever 😂

#answered #thanks again anon <3

[busyfish]

Jokes on you it's 11pm in hawaii. When did you first consider yourself nb? Was there some moment when you were like "ok I'm not this gender anymore"?

haha my dash still sort of crawls after 1am so i figure it'd be slow anyway but this is a really good question. i guess i am like really like a lot of people where i had a lot of hints or whatever growing up. i guess like growing up being very much allowed to do whatever i wanted really helped but like i was immersed into a lot of activities where it was mostly boys and i had a lot of like moments of "uhhh yeah i'm just one of the boys though?" in high school and stuff i was like in noise/extreme metal bands and stuff too which was like very much either you were seen as "uwu gurrrll" and probably not taken seriously or you shaved your head and got soaked in beer and bled and stuff like that with the rest of the guys. i came out late to my mom about being attracted to girls though so like actually going like "uh gender is actually pointless to me" was also a late thing though it was something i guess i've always sort of felt anyway. though i guess like, i enjoy being small and slender and i like having some visible "female" characteristics so i have never felt like a "guy" but just like you know, one of the boys. forwhatevr that's worth

ty for the cool ask

#asks

[akireu-13]

ive had new revelations about my gender so feel free to ignore cause im gonna ramble about it. this blog is for ME babey!! if you do read it and take offense, please just block me quietly, and i mean that with no disrespect.

ok so anyway i realised that its like. almost in a quantum state. im comfortable thinking of myself as a girl sometimes until somebody looks at me or addresses me and then i am firmly a boy or nb. like my gender is a swirling mess of many many pronouns and experiences and labels and terms until somebody observes it, when it firmly becomes "demiboy, he/they/xe".

idk, i also think ive become a lot more comfortable being femme or even A Girl the longer i've been on T? like im coming up to 9 months now and i have not a single regret. im terrified i will but thats besides the point. i still want top surgery and i still dream of having a penis but like,,, the more my facial hair grows in and the lower my voice drops the more comfortable i am wearing dresses and using feminine terms for myself? and its weird bc idk how to explain it other than being like. the reverse of a traditional transfem. thats very reductionist of the term transfem but its like, the closer i am to being "like a cis man", the more comfortable i am expressing myself as a girl? whereas traditionally transfem people feel more comfortable expressing their femininity the more they pass. like the opposite of being a boymoder. and im happy? like im happy calling myself a girl and a lesbian in my head and thinking about being a butch lesbian with a girl one day, but also im unbelievably happy being read as male and being called he and being called my new name and seeing my new acne and facial hair and muscles more than i ever was being called she. i realised the other day while singing in my new voice that my body doesnt feel like a vessel anymore; it feels like an instrument. she feels like something i play to hear the new beautiful sounds and to feel the new textures under my fingertips and i love her. shes still not Me but thats because im depersonalised to all fuck lmao. idk, theres something so beautiful and nuanced about gender and im in love with how now, it feels more like something i can get lost in than something that punches me repeatedly in the face with how Wrong™ i feel.

#memoth #sorry for the ramble #i just wanted to get it out there somewhere #might #delete later #but either way thats how im feeling and im happy

[tryworks]

things in my life lately:

- feeling always bitter how no one really likes me except maybe 3 people and people never invite me to do things or anything. like my school does a mock beauty pageant for boys (think like a standup talent show satire of ms america) and one of my friends did it and he didnt ask me to be in his set. sigh.

- might be developing a crush on a boy who used to be my best childhood friend. we then had a falling out and he moved to a private school. now hes back at my high school. con: i am unlovable. also, i am going to college in 3 months. pro: he is going to a college which is a 10 minute drive from mine. also i really like just hanging around him and talking with him and hes surprisingly patient with how fucking weird i am LOL.. .um.. idk 😐 help me. hes funny. hes not that cute but its ok

- have genuinely no motivation for anything anymore. i keep leaving school when i have free periods and just not coming back.

- 76% sure one of my friends has a crush on me and while hes a fine friend i have No romantic interest in him at all (coming from someone who like... flirts with friends a lot as a joke...) and its just annoying. sorry man.

- A GIRL I HATE IS SITTING AT MY FUCKING PROM TABLE and she didnt ask ANY OF MY FRIENDS for permission WHEN ITS LIKE... ASSIGNED SEATS YOU CHOOSE BEFOREHAND. UGH. NO ONE LIKES HER!! I HAVE NEVER BEEN LIKE... ANYTHING MORE THAN COURTEOUS TO HER when i am known for being like really nice and friendly. and with her im really cold. so why does she think my friends like her

- i wish my family could talk to each other normally guys i cant do this... we all treat every conversation like a competition or a standup...

- i have given up on ever transitioning and im considering keeping my birthname for conveniences sake. idek if ill change my last name to my mothers maiden name. like 1) my family is so so transphobic and 2) i dont... really have the ability to transition as an nb person to my ideal gender presentation and 3) i want. people to know who i am. like people from my school childhood etc and changing my name defeats that. and please dont be like “dont live your life for other people” i have tried not living for other people and it does not help. this is who i am.

- wish i was a normal high schooler with a group of friends i wish i had any real life experiences i wish i got asked to prom i wish people cared when i wasnt around i wish i was worth more than just someone you keep near you to make you laugh and be the butt of jokes oh my god

#🔑

[xoxo-ren-xoxo]

okay let me talk to you like you're a 5 year old, then, since you don't get it. nb means non-Black. you have been told this. enby is the ONLY acceptable short form. as someone who has explicitly identified themselves as non-Black you don't have the right to argue that. trying to force others to use nb instead of enby is racist and trying to force others to use "nonbinary" in full instead of abbreviation is ableist. i'm sure that for able people it is very easy to type out a 9 letter word every time you need to indentify yourself but for some disabled people it SURE is not! i'm sure for those with reading disabilities like dyslexia that "enby" is much esier to read. i'm sure for people with speech impediments, enby is easier to say. i'm willing to bet that in every context outside of you personally thinking it's too "cutesy", it's preferable for most- if not all- people. you deciding that since it's a silly word nobody should use it anymore is more embarrassing for you than whatever you were going for. you literally don't get to tell others that their identity is too childish and they should pick another as though that isn't what all cis people say to enby people constantly all of the time. shut upppp god i hate you.

this reeks of ableism and is just kinda cruel for no reason but let's go ig.

enby is not an acceptable short form for the entire nonbinary community. I am not the only person who has an issue with the term. Again, I don't give a shit what other people self identify with. Call yourself enby all you want. I do not want to be called that. I will not go into my reasoning for personal reasons, but I loathe that you assumed so much about me based on it. I'm starting to think you're some kind of troll.

If using nb to mean nonbinary is offensive, that's fine. I won't say it. I said this in my response. I'm open to learn + change my language (not that I was using the term anyway). I know there's a lot of discourses around it so I don't really want to touch it anyway.

When was I trying to force anyone to use nb? In my original post, yes, I said it was an acceptable short form (not sure I stand by that now), but I also said nonbinary is a good word to use.

Also, assuming I'm abled is not cool. I'm not. The dyslexia argument... Maybe? Makes sense? I know people with dyslexia who don't have an issue with a word purely because it is a bit long. If it's easier for someone to type 'enby' because of something like that, that's ok, but I won't let them call ME that. A disability is not an excuse to disrespect my identity. Personally, I confuse enby and envy all the time.

For someone with a speech impediment, saying 'enby' sounds the same as 'nb', so I'm not sure what you're trying to say here. Again, it's fine if they need to say the shorter version, but I would not let them call me that personally.

The reason I say this reeks of ableism is because it sounds like you're propping up disabled people just to support your argument, which comes across as quite weird. If you are disabled yourself, that's fine, but obviously I don't know that, so it comes across... yikes.

The term enby, as I've said, is uncomfortable for many people other than myself. I've seen posts about it in the past. AGAIN, I have no problem with people self-identifying with it. AGAIN, it should not be used in the context of 'enby community' or 'enby people' BECAUSE people such as myself are made uncomfortable by the term. AND THATS FINE. People can literally say/use nonbinary. If they have a disability, sure, I won't be pissed off if they say enby community/people, but those are rlly specific exceptions, and people should still make an effort to be inclusive, even if it is hard. I know this because it is difficult for me to do some things (eg remember neopronouns) due to my disabilities, but I still try, and people are understanding if I mess up. As I would be if someone messed up around me.

I never 'told others that their identity is too childish'. I have never used the word childish I'm pretty sure in this whole argument. You are pulling things out of nowhere. If you read my response and my og post, you will see that I say again and again that I'm not trying to police other people's identities. It is when those words are placed on the entire community that I am uncomfortable.

If you're going to continue to be rude, I will not respond again. Telling someone to shut up and that you hate them (after one interaction with them) is not the best way to get your point across.

(oh also, saying 'ok let me talk to you like a 5 year old' is just kinda fully ableist. im autistic lol)

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