#(see loveless aros who value care and compassion but don't feel comfortable describing that as love)

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the funniest fucking shit is when you see someone on here being an absolute vitriolic hateful cunt and you click their blog to block them and their blog is all cutesy lovecore aesthetics

#eliot posts #this has happened MANY TIMES #a lovecore blog once threatened to kill my family because i said valentine's day is amatonormative #it's always the cutesiest fuckers on here that are the most vile #this is just the 2022 version of those uwu soft bean blogs that doxxed people but even more lame #idk conceptualizing themselves as harmless #leads to them not feeling the need to actually check themselves and make sure they're doing no harm #or maybe they try to look cute in hopes no one holds them accountable? #we used to call this the umbridge effect but the source material that name comes from is No Good #ALSO i think prioritizing love as an aesthetic of pink hearts and snuggling cartoon bunnies #distracts them from practicing love as in kindness and compassion and care for others #of course there are MANY definitions of what love is and care/compassion aren't ALWAYS synonymous with love #(see loveless aros who value care and compassion but don't feel comfortable describing that as love) #but if you value love aesthetics over compassionate 'love' then that's no good #idk if this makes sense #but yeah