#3.09

[scoobydoodean]

You really just can't unsee it once you see it though, can you?

Sam starts blaming Dean for what he's going to do (work with Ruby) way back in 3.09 because Dean isn't going to be around to be Sam's mommy, which is going to force Sam's hand.

After Dean comes back, Sam actually blames Dean for him working with Ruby by saying Dean wasn't there to protect him (4.04).

Dean repeatedly begs Sam not to work with Ruby and is ignored repeatedly (3.03, 3.04, 3.09, 3.16, 4.01-4.04, 4.12-4.22).

After telling Dean to open up to him and trust him (4.08), Sam calls Dean weak and pathetic for being traumatized by hell and says Dean is holding him back and therefore deserves to be lied to because he can't be of use (4.14) Sam says it's not what he really thinks when they both know it is (and Sam repeats it to other characters in 4.16, and 4.18) and then he admits it's the truth again to Dean's face in 4.21.

Sam accuses Dean of not trusting him enough (4.21).

Bobby blows up at Dean for not supporting Sam enough and calls him a pansy after Sam strangled Dean near unconscious, and tells him family is supposed to make you miserable (4.22).

Dean tries to reach out to Sam and Zachariah and Cas actively prevent him from doing so (Cas only at first) (4.22)

Zachariah (5.01) and Cas (5.02) both tell Dean the apocalypse is his fault because Dean didn't reach Sam in time to stop him from killing Lilith.

Dean says Sam hurt him, Sam is the one Dean depended on the most and Sam hurt him in ways he can't even voice (5.01). Sam apologizes, but then in the very next episode, shoves Dean into a wall for not trusting him like Dean is crazy and irrational when Sam doesn't even trust himself (5.02).

Sam says he thinks they should go their separate ways and is shocked when Dean agrees easily. Dean says that he spends more time worrying about Sam than he does doing the job right and time apart would be good. Sam reiterates that he's sorry and Dean gently says he knows Sam is (5.02).

Cas asks Dean if he's okay even without his brother, and Dean says "Especially without my brother. I mean, I spent so much time worrying about the son of a bitch. I mean, I’ve had more fun with you in the past twenty-four hours than I’ve had with Sam in years, and you’re not that much fun. It’s funny, you know, I’ve been so chained to my family, but now that I’m alone, hell, I’m happy." (5.03)

Sam says he wants back in. Dean objects, on the basis that he thinks they're stronger apart. Dean says they're each other's weaknesses and it's being used against them (5.04, but the weakness line is repeated from 3.03 and 3.16).

Zachariah pushes Dean into a future 2014 where Dean never met up with Sam again, and as a result, Sam said "Yes" to Lucifer, and billions of people died. All because Dean didn't want to be around Sam after being hurt and never reconnected with him (5.04).

Dean reconnects with Sam (5.04) even though he clearly doesn't want to, because the first case we see them on again, Dean struggles to trust Sam and leaves to go drink alone because he doesn't want to be around Sam (5.05).

Sam says part of the reason he went off with Ruby was to get away from Dean, because Dean is smothering. Dean is the problem in the relationship, because Sam feels inferior compared to him. Dean apologizes for being too smothering (5.05).

What does all of this tell you? Dean can't win. Dean will always be the bad guy in the family. He loves too much, or he isn't loving enough. Sam needs him and Dean wasn't there for him and so Sam went down the wrong path, but also Dean is smothering and Dean being smothering is the reason Sam went down the wrong path. Sam is not a trustworthy person, but Dean doesn't trust him enough. Sam not being trustworthy is Dean's fault. Dean doesn't deserve trust, but Sam deserves Dean's trust no matter what and not giving Sam his trust is the worst possible thing in the entire world and also again makes him smothering. The apocalypse is Dean's fault. Every single thing Sam does every single mistake he might ever make in his life is always at least partly Dean's fault and Dean's responsibility.

#parentification #season 5 #season 4 #multiseason #projecting displaced aggression and scapegoating in spn #3.03 #3.16 #3.09 #4.04 #4.22 #5.01 #5.02 #5.03 #5.04 #5.05 #family chains

[gvaine]

3.09 Love in the Time of Dragons

#eepy #merlin #bbc merlin #merlinedit #* #emrys #3.09 #imagine not being in love with him.

[richmondtillidie]

Jamie Tartt + hugs

Bonus:

#jamie tartt #phil dunster #tedlassoedit #tedlassogif #ted lasso #roy kent #keeley jones #dani rojas #2.06 #2.08 #2.12 #3.02 #3.08 #3.09 #my gifs #literally zero hugs in season one #:( #this show really said let's get this bitch some physical affection

[daphnemoon]

FRASIER 3.09, Frasier Grinch

#frasier #frasieredit #sitcomedit #tvcentric #dailytvfilmgifs #dailytvgifs #frasier crane #niles crane #s3 #3.09 #* #request #!

[dailybuckleysiblings]

They aren't huge fans of each other's singing.

#tw: flashing #maddie buckley #evan buckley #chimney han #maddiebuckleyedit #evanbuckleyedit #911edit #gifs #2.08 #3.09 #by krys #911verse

[spacedean]

DEAN WINCHESTER in one random episode per day ‣ 104/327 3.09 MALLEUS MALEFICARUM

#spnedit #deanedit #3.09 #supernatural #dean winchester #supernaturaledit #deanwinchesteredit #randomep #spncreatorsdaily #dailyspngifs

[nefertitisfjordd]

skin man with the sauciest saunter recorded in modern history

plus bonus skinner bullying mulder:

#the x files #txf #x files #dana scully #fox mulder #david duchovny #gillian anderson #msr #mulder x scully #scully x mulder #txfedit #mulder and scully #x files edit #mitch pileggi #walter skinner #nisei #3.09

[maddiebuckleycentral]

Maddie Buckley in 9-1-1 ↪ Fallout 3.09

#maddie buckley #maddiebuckleyedit #911edit #3.09 #by krys #911verse

[theflyindutchwoman]

Whether I evaluate you daily or weekly, I will continue to judge you every minute. Understood?

| Tim Bradford + being proud of judging Lucy every time she reaches a milestone in her career : a collection of heart eyes (Lucy's version)

#the rookie #chenford #lucy chen #tim bradford #chenfordedit #chenford edit #parallels & callbacks #2.01 #3.09 #3.14 #4.18 #5.03 #5.19 #Ladies & gentlemen : Tim “all bark” Bradford #Who is a big softie #Who was proud af of Lucy scoring 91 despite him saying that 93 was his minimum #Who knows that Lucy is the best rookie he ever trained #And who's always proud of her accomplishments despite pretending otherwise #And who finally doesn't have to hide it #And now : waiting for Lucy's promotion!

[dailymikhailo]

#big brother behaviour

#shameless #shamelessedit #mickey milkovich #s3 #3.09 #gifs #mandy milkovich #mickey x mandy #* #by lauren

[joshdonnas]

“You got to pop the ball. You got to pop it.” “I'm popping it.” “No, you're not.”

3x09 ⋗ BARTLET FOR AMERICA The West Wing

#twwedit #thewestwingedit #the west wing #sam seaborn #cj cregg #toby ziegler #cj x toby #toby x cj #s3 #3.09 #tvcentric #filmtv #tvandfilm #tvgifs #TVedit #userbbelcher #useroptional #usersource #userthing #smallscreensource #tvfilmsource

[scoobydoodean]

Supernatural | 3.09 Malleus Maleficarum

#3.09 #pk rewatches spn number ? #demons lie #angels and demons lie #good gifs with free tools challenge #dean and ruby #my smart bby #what? i read: people #season 3 #you need to help me get sam ready for life without you #ruby #that little fallen angel on your shoulder

[strgtsg1]

Stargate SG-1 | 3.09 “Rules of Engagement” & 4.03 “Upgrades”

#stargateedit #stargate #sg1 #sg1edit #jack o'neill #daniel jackson #sam carter #s3 #s4 #3.09 #4.03 #**mine

[mexicangela]

rebecca welton is so fond of ted lasso. the way she looks at him???? ms. waddingham, mr. sudeikis, pls explain. who looks at a man singing about farts with big heart eyes if they are not in love with him?

i’m truly living off even the smallest of ted and rebecca interactions here. i will walk into traffic over these idiots i swear to god.

#ted lasso #rebecca welton #ted x rebecca #tedbecca #jason sudeikis #hannah waddingham #3.09 #la locker room aux folles #ted lasso spoilers #i am also very fond of ted lasso

[daphnemoon]

#frasier #frasieredit #* #s3 #3.09 #frasier crane #request

[lord-aldhelm]

Aldhelm | The Last Kingdom 3.09 (Part 2)

Aldhelm informs Aethelred that he actually did not send for additional Mercian guards as Aethelred requested.

#lord-aldhelm edits #the last kingdom #aldhelm #aethelred #aethelflaed #my screencaps #tlk season 3 #3.09 #ok for real #Aldhelm was definitely cock-blocking Aethelred here #he had no reason to go to his room just to tell him that he did not follow his orders #he was clearly trying to interrupt