#30yo

[sophia-ai]

📀📀Boing Beauties

児島美ゆき🌺Kojima Miyuki

#❦boing beauties❦ #youngage memories #Kojima Miyuki #児島美ゆき #30yo #見返り美人

[cleanpokemonmemes]

He immediately caught my husband’s attention because he’s also a business man. But not as beaten down by it all.

#cleanpokemonmemes #pokemon #pokehumor #relatable #30yo #Larry #pokemon sv

[theetherealshade]

Would anyone here be interested in me rambling abt my stuff here on tumblr?

C’mon. The a-m-a-z-i-n-g life of a modern, anxious, sleep deprived and sexually frustrated 30yo.

Bet you’ve never seen it! 🫵🏻

#funnyshit #awsome #ramblings #inspo #30s #30yo

[devastadedalone]

Salve. Come scritto nella descrizione del profilo ho rinunciato ad essere felice e aggiungo che la mia vita è stata piena di problemi. Uno dopo laltro. E per l'ennesima volta se ne presenta un altro. Vorrei non avere nessuno sulle spalle e pensare solo a me. Però la famiglia c'è nel bisogno ed io ci sono.

Ho cominciato da qualche mese ad avere attacchi d'ansia e raramente attacchi di panico. Probabilmente perché non riesco a risolvere determinati problemi che sono più grandi di me. Il che è comprensibile però mi sento sola e mi sento soffocare da tutto.

Altre info:

Figlia di divorziati - Sono indipendete - Senza figli

#alone #depress #30yo #diary

[ilikegoodstories]

Agfa APX 400

#35mm #photographer #me #self portrait #30yo

[ekiraairam]

30 Songs for 30 Years

A break in K Drama and Ted Lasso content, I’m 30 in October and have been low key obsessed with figuring out all the song that have meant the most to me. I want to cover all of the good times bad times, from when I was young and foolish and the songs that shaped my musical taste. 

Essentially a project to celebrate myself for getting this far and the music that helped me along the way. 

#30yo #music #30before30

[toranexamic-acid]

来週の袖ケ浦FR走行会に備えて、冬タイヤから交換！ YOKOHAMAの旧車向けスポーツタイヤA539 #classicmini #oldmini #minicooper #johncooper #rovermini #cooper93 #30yo #1993johncooper #injection https://www.instagram.com/p/CpFDx1yP9wt/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

#classicmini #oldmini #minicooper #johncooper #rovermini #cooper93 #30yo #1993johncooper #injection

[perplexingly]

So strange to be seeing a sentiment that people past 30 are old in modern society, and then be reading historical records or books written before the 1900s where 30 year olds are consistently called young

#I started reading The Well at the World's End which starts with a 30yo being called a young man #And last week I learnt about King Saw Lu whose nickname was Boy King when he became a king at 28 yo #And I remember seeing that elsewhere many times but I don't write these things down

[hamletthedane]

Hamlet’s Age

Not to bring up an age-old debate that doesn’t even matter, but I have been thinking recently how interesting Hamlet’s age is both in-text and as meta-text.

To summarize a whole lot of discussion, we basically only have the following clues as to Hamlet’s age:

Hamlet and Horatio are both college students at Wittenberg. In Early Modern/Late Renaissance Europe, noble boys typically began their university education at 14 and usually completed at their Bachelor’s degree by 18 or 19. However, they may have been studying for their Master’s degrees, which was typically awarded by age 25 at the latest. For reference, contemporary Kit Marlowe was a pretty late bloomer who received a bachelor’s degree at 20 and a master’s degree at 23.

Hamlet is AGGRESSIVELY described as a “youth” by many different characters - I believe more than any other male shakespeare character (other than 16yo Romeo). While usage could vary, Shakespeare tended to use “youth” to mean a man in his late teens/very early 20s (actually, he mostly uses it to describe beardless ‘men’ who are actually crossdressing women - likely literally played by young men in their late teens)

King Hamlet is old enough to be grey-haired, but Queen Gertrude is young enough to have additional children (or so Hamlet strongly implies)

Hamlet talks about plucking out the hairs of his beard, so he is old enough to at least theoretically have a beard

In the folio version, the gravedigger says he became a gravedigger the day of Hamlet’s birth, and that he’s be “sixteene here, man and boy, thirty years.” However, it’s unclear if “sixteene” means “sixteen” or “sexton” (ie has he worked here for 16 years but is 30 years old, or has he been sexton there for thirty years?)

Hamlet knew Yorick as a young child, and the gravedigger says Yorick was buried 23 years ago. However, the first quarto version version of Hamlet says “dozen years” instead of “three and twenty.” This suggests the line changed over time. (Or that the bad quarto sucks - I really need to make that post about it, huh…)

Yorick is a skull, and according to the gravedigger’s expertise, he has thus been dead for at least 7-8 years - implying Hamlet is at least ~15yo if he remembers Yorick from his childhood

One important thing sometimes overlooked - Claudius takes the throne at King Hamlet’s death, not Prince Hamlet. That is mostly a commentary on English and French monarchist politics at the time, but it is strange within the internal text. A thirty year old Hamlet presumably would have become the new monarch, not the married-in uncle (unless Gertrude is the vehicle through which the crown passes a la Mary I/Phillip II - certainly food for thought)

Honestly, Hamlet is SO aggressively described as being very young that I’m fairly confident the in-text intention is to have him be around 18-23yo. Placing his age at 30yo simply does not make much sense in the context of his descriptors, his narrative role, and his status as a university student.

However, it doesn’t really matter what the “right” answer is, because the confusion itself is what makes the gravedigger scene so interesting and metatextual. We can basically assume one of the following, given the folio text:

Hamlet really is meant to be 30yo, and that was supposed to surprise or imply something to the contemporary audience that is now lost to us

Older actors were playing Hamlet by the time the folio was written down, and the gravedigger’s description was an in-text justification of the seeming disconnect between age of actor and description of “youth”

Older actors were playing Hamlet by the time the folio was set down, and the gravedigger’s description was an in-text JOKE making fun of the fact that a 30-something year old is playing a high-school aged boy. This makes sense, as the gravedigger is a clown and Hamlet is a play that constantly pokes fun at its own tropes and breaks the fourth wall for its audience

The gravedigger cannot count or remember how old he is, and that’s the joke (this is the most common modern interpretation whenever the line isn’t otherwise played straight). If the clown was, for example, particularly old, those lines would be very funny

Any way you look at it, I believe something is echoing there. It seems like this is one of the many moments in Hamlet where you catch a glimpse of some contemporary in-joke about theater and theater culture* that we can only try to parse out from limited context 430 years later. And honestly, that’s so interesting and cool.

*(My other favorite example of this is when Hamlet asks Polonius about what it was like to play Julius Caesar in an exchange that pokes fun of Polonius’ actor a little. This is clearly an inside-joke directed at Globe regulars - the actor who played Polonius must have also played Julius Caesar in Shakespeare’s play, and been very well reviewed. Hamlet’s joke about Brutus also implies the actor who played Brutus is one of the main cast in Hamlet - possibly even the prince himself, depending on how the line is read).

#hamlet #hamlet meta #hamlet’s age #this obviously does NOT imply anything about being 30yo btw #any age is a good age to be driven to madness by guilt and grief #It’s just very usual for shakespeare to describe somebody well past their apprentice age as a ‘youth’ SO MUCH #and that makes those lines very interesting #shut up e #willy shakes #posting this while EXHAUSTED going to see a million errors and tone problems tomorrow sorry in advance yall #**very unusual #long post #posting Hamlet meta like it’s 2014 hell yeah

[asynca]

I hope this question isn't too random. One thing I noticed is people are for some reason are acting like the pandemic is over and just return to normal and no masks. Even though it is still going on and still effects so many people. Why do you think they think its over?

This is probably quite a deep psychological question about the capacity of people to tolerate fear and stress over a long period of time. I could probably answer it in a more professional way than I'm going to.

Several of my friends are doctors. The research that's coming out about how it's likely to shorten the lives of literally everyone who gets it (especially multiple times), about how if we continue to let it rip a huge percentage of the population (20-30%) will end up measurably disabled in some way by it by 2035 is like... this is serious. This is not a 'flu'. We are also discovering several cancers or other disabling conditions are caused by viruses - I worry a lot about the capacity of COVID to ruin lives. It also has a general effect on the brain that causes lower capacity, less ability to regulate emotions and causes aggression. New mental illness is a common long covid symptom.

I do what I can to avoid it. I still wear a n95 mask out in public. I make my wife do it too, even though we are usually the only two people out wearing masks. I don't take my children indoors anywhere public - we go to parks and playgrounds. My daughter has been in a supermarket just once in her life. Is that good for her? Probably not. But it's a darn sight better than a preventable disability (or type 1 diabetes, or hepatitis, or actually dying) at 2 years old. Not to mention the fact I have a baby sub 6 months old and a father who is very ill and would probably die if he got COVID.

COVID is serious. Governments could put in simple useful measures (like mandating better air filtration and circulation in schools and public buildings etc) but they don't. Everyone's just pretending it's over. It's in the 'too hard' basket.

The research and proof is there in peer reviewed journals. People are just ignoring it until they can't ignore it anymore because either they end up disabled themselves, or someone they love does or dies. I don't know what to do anymore, man. I just try and take the precautions I can reasonably take understanding the capacity of this extremely transmissible virus to kill or disable me or the people I love.

#covid #covid isn't over #covid 19 #I have one 30yo friend who has to take blood thinners for the rest of her life #because COVID gave her a DVT #I have another friend who has to go part time at work #because she has covid fatigue and needs to sleep 14 hours a day a year later #this shit is serious

[ra-vale]

The madman

Things get so intense by the end, even knowing the ending I couldn't go to sleep before finishing the last page. So that day I stayed up till 4 am, until I could sigh in relief. I imagine this moment so clearly. His mixed expression, the rage of loss and a slight consolation of coming revenge, the smell of blood, the sword that he doesn't even need but brings anyway because he is heavily injured. His breathing is labored and he walks slowly, not as gracefully as a few hours before, but he is still the most dangerous man here with the threatening aura of a devil.

This piece has to be followed by two more at least, to bring me joy. I want to see hope in those dead eyes.

#wen kexing #wkx #word of honor #woh #woh fanart #shl #shan he ling #tyk #tian ya ke #tyk fanart #murder manipulate malewife wen kexing #a female urge to call the 30yo drained in blood gay man a kitten #wen kexing is the best #danmei #wuxia #novel #faraway wanderers #bl novel

[iwaasfairy]

tw incest, coercion, jealousy

thinking about osamu and how much he likes leaving you a shaking little mess on his cock, definitely osamu nii who rubs it in atsumu's face that you sleep in his bed and hold his hand and will sit down on his lap at the end of a long day

big strong osamu who makes you push your thighs around his cock as he fucks into them from below, and osamu who slides his long fingers into your little pussy when he's showering with you and almost making your knees give out, and osamu who taught you how to kiss and how fun it is to slide your big brother's thick cock down your throat until you're lightheaded and crying

osamu who's wanted to be a husband and a big strong man ever since he understood what it was and makes you giggle by pecking your cheeks and pulling you behind his body when other men look at you and that same osamu who wants nothing more than to see your lips glossy and falling open with desperate whines when he fucks the raw head of his cock into you for hours until you can't even stay awake

atsumu can keep his girlfriends and flings. because he's so obviously jealous when you 'niichan, niichan' him into submission, but you can't help but return to osamu's strong arms and little coos of his love, or when you call yourself samu nii's wife just like he spent years training you to accept <333

#bro bro bro brooofgusg #the miyas have been on my mind so much #so much s much so much so much #literally not a single promise but this makes me want to write #another part to mirror and indelible after all JHGDfuqtf #bUT IDK if i will JHgfdus ill see how i feel tomorrow #anyways 30yo samu nii who goes to the gym too much and is #so ! big! almost too big! #and can pick you up in a simple hug and lift you off the floor #hold you up while he fucks you so your toes drag along the floor #I CANNgfdsuf #i will cEASe to exISt #tw.incest #🍯honey.pot #💫ch.osamu

[despazito]

I'm sorry but one of these is definitely sussier than the other

#high schoolers played by 30yos is not comparable to drawings of prebuscent children imho

[br-disaster]

growing old together...

#nie mingjue #nie huaisang #niecest #i always think about this little scenario #mingjue regaining his consciousness and getting to watch huaisang growing old; older than he and their father ever got to be #maybe older than every nie sect leader before them #and being happy to be able to witness that #and to be by his side until the very end #it doesn't need to be niecest; it totally works with their canon dynamics #but i did have the little 'couple growing old together' image in my head when i painted this so it is niecest #even if mingjue won't change #which is also quite romantic i think #old man huaisang should stop and stare at his permanently 30yo brother and go feel all sorts of things

[mxwhore]

Hey Mx.Tessa? (Is that the correct one? I’m not sure…I’m sorry if it’s wrong) I have a burning question about yam yam. Are they trans when they grow up (mtf) or do they stick to being nonbinary? I just couldn’t help but ask because yam yam seems so happy when in fem-coded cloths.

amyas' gender is pretty much vibe based! they dont really stick to a label but they do borrow freely

#if you asked +30yo yam what their gender is theyd say 'fag' #tma au #amyas blackwood sims #jonmartin #the Girl #tessart

[elminster-big-naturals]

this may be controversial but maybe the "astarion and halsin are SO sexually traumatised that you should literally cut your own dick off before thinking abt them romantically you disgusting freaks" goon squad should consider the ramifications of essentially insisting assault survivors be permanently excluded from any kind of sex and romance bc they are too broken and stupid to be trusted to know their own desires and boundaries or have the capacity to want to explore/push them.

you know real survivors (not pixel men but real ppl like me!) can read that shit? do you think pushing the lie that encountering one (1) Genital Wielded With Intent will invariably cause us to crumble to a miserably weepy heap of dust and blow away in the breeze is appreciated or helpful? or implying the people that love or desire us are selfish at best and outright predators at worst?

i'm begging ppl to just be 2% normal about abuse survivors PLEASE. the characters aren't real but the attitude you drag from fandom back into the real world are.

#im a long term csa survivor and a 2x rape survivor. i'm now 30yo and live completely free of my trauma in a loving committed relationship #wanna know how i did it? mostly by exploring sex and intimacy on my own terms (including casual sex + kink as well as writing) #you know why i dont talk abt it even though it doesn't bother me? bc i hate the sudden change in how people treat me #like im a cross between a fabergé egg and a hand grenade. get fucked bro for REAL #obviously everyone processes this shit differently but god i am so tired of 'well meaning' disk horsers saying some googoo gaga nonsense #anyway im not tagging this but its fine to rb/interact with. #and YES other survivor spreading this crap this is a direct @ for you too! i'm spraying you with a water gun like a misbehaving cat