5th gen has started weather you believe it or not, and as much as it means kpop groups are changing, it also means that fandoms are too. Well, hopefully.
We cannot act the same toxic way to these new groups as we have to past groups. That's why I think we should stop saying things like "____ are the 5th gen leaders," "____ is the best dancer of 5th gen," "____ is the best 5th gen vocalist."
Saying things like this doesn't get anyone anywhere, it only causes fights among fandoms and makes people hate on idols.
We have to start understanding that people have different opinions, but we also have to understand that opinions do not give you a reason to hate on someone and we can definitely not state an opinion as though it's a fact.
Someone can be your favorite dancer in 5th gen but that doesn't mean that they are everyone's favorite dancer in 5th gen, and as long as people aren't being rude about it, you'll have to learn to accept that. Someone loving Idol B more than Idol A doesn't take any of your love away from Idol A.
And saying a group is the leaders of 5th gen is not a fact, it is an opinion, meaning that everyone will have different ideas of what characteristics a group must have in order to be the leaders of a whole generation. And even if people didn't have different opinions and everyone agreed on one group, do you realize how much pressure that is? Especially with so many idols being minors.
Which brings me onto another point: we need to stop sexualizing idols. I see a lot of people saying "I'm so delulu 🥰" and I'm sorry if you are one of those people, but that is just such a red flag. Being delusional, picturing yourself dating an idol is not something to be proud of. It doesn't make you quirky, it just makes you toxic. There are way too many idols now who are minors, and while that is due to the companies and the entire industry in general, it is still our responsibility not to sexualize/romanticize them. This whole paragraph was aimed at people who are the same age as the idol but if you're not and you do that shit? Don't fucking come near me. You should know just how disgusting that is.
I'm not trying to cause fights with anyone, I'm just trying to educate and try to make the industry at least a little less toxic.
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Last 3rd generation couple to turn into elders
Chris and Ina Cain had a nice party while turning into elders.
Chris had turned perma platinum already at 34 and fulfilled his lifetime want of getting to the top in the law career track at 50.
Ina turned perma platinum the day after their birthday, when she reached the top in the law career track. But so far, she has not yet been able to fulfill her lifetime want of earning 100'000. Not sure, if she will get there by the time they will retire.
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