Wait, fuck, hold on-
THEY CAN'T FUCKING BRING OUT AN ANTI-HERO ARTEMIS WHEN I'M IN THE MIDDLE OF STUDYING FOR FINALS!!
WHAT THE FUCK, DC?!? HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO FOCUS?!?
oh i am so excited holy shit. am i the only one getting slade vibes from her?? because im getting massive slade/rose wilson vibes from the single eye cover and im wondering if artemis is a plant, someone unconnected from slade who wouldn't be considered a threat, to go undercover and get close to the titans. this is also like, high-key a chance to make jade and artemis sisters and/or half-sisters in canon which would be neat. i know comics fans aren't huge on changes to the canon based on outside things but making them half sisters doesn't really change jades backstory, nor artemis'.
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ik people like to act like sex and imbalanced sexual dynamics are uniquely traumatizing (moreso than any other kind of power imbalance, abuse of power, or just flat out abuse period) but from personal experience not really. there's nothing inherent to sex and sexuality that makes it traumatizing. there's nothing inherent to sexual trauma that makes it more traumatic than any other trauma.
and chiefly trauma is never really about the intentions of any party who made or let it happen. someone who wants, intends, and tries to hurt you might bounce off you just like that; because they simply failed to psychologically damage you, because what they did didn't bother you a lot whether it be mental physical or sexual. conversely someone who does not want, intend, or try to hurt you may scar you for life with something either they don't understand is harmful or isn't even inherently harmful and is uniquely that way to you.
i just. i'm annoyed at the narrative of trauma being taken away from the survivor themself. if i say this was traumatizing and you think it's not a big deal, too fucking bad, listen to me. if i say that wasn't traumatizing at all and you think it's the worst thing in the world upon hearing what it is, too fucking bad, you don't get to tell me what my trauma is. i'm sick of seeing people put words in each others mouths and tell someone's story for them without that person's consent. idk like? it makes me so angry that whenever i used to talk about things people would blatantly disregard the most horrific times of my life and instead focus on stuff i was neutral or even positive toward as a big terrible thing that ruined me.
nowadays i'm very grateful to have people who are chill and don't jump to conclusions no one asked them to. people who listen when i tell them "i know this sounds bad but it wasn't actually" or "i know this sounds stupid but this was world shattering." people who i get to laugh with. the RIGHT people who extend me the same kindness of knowing their strange "good bad things" and "bad fine things."
life just isn't as simple as "this is always terrible for people" and "this is always fine for people." PEOPLE aren't a monolith. yes, even that thing that you think must be the worst thing possible. yes, even that thing that you think no one could possibly be hurt by. it's hard to involve myself in serious discussions about abuse because there is a very clear Narrative people want to follow and if you as a "victim" don't follow it then either it didn't happen or you're wrong about your own experience.
hopefully I can consult my therapist about this phenomenon in discussions of abuse and trauma. and also about the specific thing that made me think of this. it irritates me quite a lot when others pity me for something that i knowingly chose-- and in retrospect never hurt me either. like what are you fishing for. why are you looking at me like that. i'm fine, maybe you're the one that needs counseling if my talking about this creates such a visceral reaction in you.
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watching another fallout 4 analysis that is, imo, fundamentally misunderstanding how role playing works. fallout 4 isn’t asking “who do you want to be?” it’s asking you to empathize, it’s asking you “what would you do? after this life altering, traumatic event that reshaped the world only for you to find out that it’s moved on from you, what would you do? how do you go on?” And yeah Bethesda, long may Todd Howard reign, absolutely dropped the ball on the answer but that doesn’t change the question the game smacks you in the face with at the start
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when will the osc realize that basing a horror au around a character's mental health problems is really weird. like i promise you making paper a murderer based on the fact that he has DID isnt innovative or unique youre just parroting years of stigma and Really Shitty and Bad horror tropes that get mentally ill people killed
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Crewel likes to dress you up in the fanciest, form fitting close he can, and then serve you up the most beautiful huge dinner he can.
OH MY GOD WAIT CREWEL BEING I TO FEEDING IS ACTUALLY SOBASHDHW please he treats you like his little doll he spoils you wayy to much and you'd feel guilty for it if he didn't immediately shut off those thoughts with a breathtaking kiss and praise as he encourages you to eat to your heart's content
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i was tagged by @xoxoemynn and @snake-snack-stede to go here and show off my last six months of tracks
granite being there twice and both in the top spots has me with my head in my hands rn
i’ll (no pressure!) tag:
@tisziny @dickfuckk @adickaboutspoons @bunnyandthejets @batsarebetterthanpeople @ella-doe and anyone else who’d like to join 😌💕
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hi ari!! i was wondering, do you listening to hozier at all? (i have a feeling you do for some reason but i desperately need to be sure)
anyways i just listened to the new songs and i feel like 'too sweet' is sooo suguru coded... although tbh every single hozier song i listen to belongs to him in my head. do you have some thoughts to spare? <3
HI THEREEE NOE <333 it’s funny that you mention him bc. i’ve been meaning to get into his music!! so far i’ve only listened to like one or two of his songs though 😭 so. yk!! i have a long way to go!!!!
BUTTT TYSM FOR THE REC i just listened to it and i literally love it SO much what a banger….. the instrumental goes so hard and his voice????? insane. the chorus is stuck in my head… don’t even get me started on the lyrics bc they’re so good and they really ARE so sugucoded 😭😭 like!!!!
baby, i can never tell // how do you sleep so well? // you keep tellin' me to live right // to go to bed before the daylight
don’t you just wanna wake up // dark as a lake // smellin' like a bonfire // lost in a haze? // if you're drunk on life, babe // i think it's great // but while in this world
i think i’ll take my whiskey neat // my coffee black and my bed at three // you’re too sweet for me
you know you're bright as the morning // as soft as the rain // pretty as a vine // as sweet as a grape // if you can sit in a barrel // maybe i’ll wait
😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫😵💫 GOD . okay so the first thing that popped into my head was third year sugu…. during his spiral….. when the darkness in his head is growing and you’re still as sweet as ever. and it almost hurts him just to be around you because you really are just too sweet…. too good to him…. to good for him. ”how do you sleep so well? you keep tellin’ me to live right. to go to bed before the daylight”…. :((((( i think he would isolate himself from you because he just doesn’t think you could understand. you’re bright as the morning and soft as the rain and all he can feel is darkness and haze and bonfires…… ”if you’re drunk on life, babe, i think it’s great. but while in this world….” <- THIS specific lyrics made me the most insane i think. it’s Him.
noe your brain is so big now i NEED to listen to more hozier songs 😭😭😭 i genuinely adore this one wowow. the lyrics r gonna be stuck in my head now….. i appreciate you sm 🙏🙏 would LOVE any other hozier recs you have btw…. if you feel like sharing then you know where to find me 👀
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Ppl really don’t believe me when I say I’m not sexually interested or motivated
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