#Actually aromantic

[canonically47]

why is every song romantic somehow. fuck you

#/lh #/j #don’t take this too seriously #aro #aromantic #aromance #aromanticism #aromantism #arospec #aro pride #actually aro #actually aromantic #actually arospec

[radios-universe]

oh no… diagnosis is loneliness… my heart is breaking… i need a non-dating dating app to find aroace people in my area NOW STAT

#like PLEASE #if i could code i would do it myself #but i cannot #SOMEONE SMART I BEF #I WILL GUVE U MONEY #IM A STUDENT SO ACTUALLY I’LL GIVE U LIKE #10 POUNDS TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT #i just don’t know why it’s not a thing yet like pls!!!!! #aroace friend app WHEN #aroace #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #aromanticism #asexuality #actually aroace #aroace app #actually aromantic #actually asexual

[scrumptiousfoxglitter]

In hindsight, maybe an early sign that I'm allon't was viewing romance as a somewhat equivalent to dragons in fantasy. Yes I love the hypothetical of taking a dope flying fire breathing beast out for a joy ride, yes I would have a literal heart attack and facking die if I was inserted into the situation. Yes this is basically also my stance on romance, your point being?

#aroace #actually aromantic #aromantic #asexual #aro #ace #ace ace baby #aspec #shitpost #lgbtqia #queer

[thisvegetabledoesntfallinlove]

there is, in fact, a "platonic explanation for this" if you're not a coward

#aromantic #actually aromantic #actuallyaromantic #the vegetable posts

[amalgamezz]

ALT

#aromantic #actually aromantic #aro #aro pride #love loses #good job everyone. im so proud of us <2 #edit (12/31): also pls do not quote 'not all loves are romantic/sexual' at me #1. aros have always been the first to dissect the definition of love. we are likely to know that before you. #2. are we gonna keep pretending that aros aint only an afterthought to the 'love wins' and 'love is love' crowds. #3. im loveless aro. i do not care for love whether its romantic platonic or familial etc etc. #one can do good w love. one can also do evil w love. love =/= morals. stop acting like it is.

[siriusly-remu]

the aromantic agenda

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@makelimeade @kiwimuichiro @fallenrain40 @redysetdare @canonically47 @arodabi @drakenhert @pinnakoladda @thisvegetabledoesntfallinlove @midnightcrisisstuff @the-nefarious-vampire

#aka my favorite aro and aroace posts #aromantic #aroace #aro #arospec #aro pride #aromantism #aspec #aromanticism #lgbtq #queer #pride #lgbt #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #lgbt pride #lgbtqiia+ #queer community #aromantic spectrum #asexual aromantic #acearo #aromantic asexual #aro ace #lgbtq+ #lgbtqplus #aroallo #actually aromantic #alloaro

[iceeericeee]

"aros and aces can still love and have sex!" yeah but do you really mean that? can you accept the fact that some aroaces don’t want sex and dont do romance? or do you just want to use that as an excuse when you want two people to date despite one or both of them being actively repulsed by romance, or when you want two people to have sex despite one or both of them being actively sex repulsed? are you only saying that for your own benefit?

#in a mood rn #aro #aromantic #ace #asexual #aroace #aromantic asexual #actually aroace #actually aromantic #actually asexual #lgbtqia #lgbtqia+

[arodescence]

#aromantic #aroace #aro #aro positivity #arospec #actually aromantic #aromantic memes

[spacedykez]

genuinely think everyone would benefit from learning about aromanticism and relationship anarchy. even straight, allosexual, alloromantics. because amatonormativity affects everyone, and learning about relationship anarchy and redefining how you think about relationships is so freeing. youcan do whatever you want 4ever.

#aro #aromantic #actually aromantic #aroposting #relationship anarchy #the otter splashes

[arowitharrows]

You say you accept aromanticism but do you only accept it as long as it fits your expectations? Do you only accept it as long as I keep my options open, as long as I don’t 100% settle on this label, as long as I allow you a small amount of hope that one day I’ll tell you I’ve changed, I’ve seen the light, I’ve found the One?

You say you accept aromanticism, but is your acceptance conditional on my redemption through platonic love? Do I have to prove to you that I am likable, that I am lovable, that I am human? Do I have to be touch starved, do I have to be lonely, do I have to feel like I am missing out?

You say you accept aromanticism, but do you believe me when I speak about dehumanization, about my anger at being pitied? Do you put yourself in my shoes and imagine the effort it takes to shape a future that looks like most people's worst fear? Do you understand that my life is not sad for not following your rigid guideline to happiness?

You say you accept aromanticism, but do you accept the changes I demand of society? Do you accept that relationship hierarchies are not inherent but learned? Do you accept that community is more meaningful in fighting the loneliness epidemic than finding the One? Do you notice that society is predisposed to benefit couples over singles? Do you realize that this is wrong?

If you say you accept aromanticism but only do so as long as I am quiet about it, as long as I make no demands, offer no criticism, draw no attention to myself, then I do not care for your acceptance because your acceptance isn't real.

#aromantic #actually aromantic #last day of asaw and all #mai rambles

[dam-bluecookies]

"that's not very aromantic of you" "that's not very asexual of you" WELL that's not very minding your own business of you

#MY LIFE IS FOR ME TO UNDERSTAND APHOBES #tw aphobia #ace #aro #aromantic #asexual #aro ace #aspec #arospec #queer #actually arospec #actually aroace #actually aromantic #actually ace #1k #2k #3k

[canonically47]

i hate amatonormativity.

i hate how being single is considered bad. i hate how the older you get, the worse society treats you if you lack a partner, especially as a woman. i hate how i am not believed when i say i don’t have a crush. i hate how a romantic relationship is seen as the best relationship there is. i hate the relationship hierarchy. i hate how sexualized everything is. i hate how people would just never get it if they knew the true reason i rejected them. i hate being aromantic in a hetero- and amatonormative society, not because i hate my identity, but because i hate the way it is treated. i hate how i am not taken seriously. i hate how i am told i can, or will, be fixed. i hate how i am treated as a broken half rather than a content whole. and i hate romance, by god, how i hate it. i hate seeing a couple on the street knowing i will never have what they do. i hate unnecessarry romance in media. i hate that romance in itself is a plotline. i hate kissing. i hate hand-holding. i hate dates. i hate that i can’t do any of those without it being considered romantic. i hate that romance and sex seem to go hand in hand. i hate the insistence that i will have that one day. i hate that i am ‘too young to know’ and i hate soulmates and i hate those stupid fucking tropes.

i hate amatonormativity.

#aro #aromanticism #aromance #aromantic #aromantism #aromanitc #arospec #aro pride #don’t tag as asexual #even tho there’s some hints here and there this post is not about that #aromantic pride #actually aromantic #actually arospec #actually aro

[jupiter-nwn]

yeag

#aromantic #aro #actually aromantic #aromantic spectrum #aromanticism #aro pride #arospec #idk more tags to add idk brother #I'm just a gray-aro wannabe polyglot #I added the little '(and catalan)' text cause like. That's my first language like I can't just not lmao; plus it's also a romance lang

[arofulboyfriend]

"if you tell all your friends you love them all the time, then the word love becomes meaningless" well for one yeah i sure hope it does, and for two, if hearing me tell you i love you every day becomes meaningless to you because i say it too often, then you don't believe my love is valuable and also skill issue

#aroace #actually aroace #actually aromantic #aromantic #aromantic pride #aromantic positivity #lovequeer #my love is not a finite resource nor is it devalued by the number of times i say it #seren yaps

[amalgamezz]

HAPPY LOVE LOSES WEDNESDAY TO ALL WHO CELEBRATE

#actually aromantic #aromantic #aro #aroallo #aroace #love loses #love loses wednesday

[aromanticunt]

“Love makes you human” actually what makes me human is a large amulet that I hid hundreds of years ago that’s slowly feeding me power so my mortal body can live on forever, but you do you I guess

#hate to break the news like this #aro allo #allo aro #aromantic #loveless aromantic #aroace #aromantic pride #aromanticism #lgbtq community #lgbtqia #actually aromantic #heartless aro #aromantic memes #lgbt memes #text post