#BHF vents

[bisexual-horror-fan]

Why Freddy Is A Child Killer And Nothing More.

SO! I am fucking sick and tired of seeing this shit over and over again so I think it is high time I make a post addressing this formally. Freddy Krueger is not a pedophile, child molester, kiddy toucher, or whatever the fuck you want to call it. 

You might be saying “Well Bex! I heard that originally Wes Craven-” Yup. Originally Wes Craven played around with the idea of it but it was cut early on and did not make it into the final script and nothing pertaining to that was ever shot either. 

Next you might say, “Oh but what about the 2010 remake? He was totally a fucking pedo in that!”

You are right in the 2010 remake he was! Okay. So. I am gonna say this next part loudly and clearly.  

Fuck the 2010 remake.

Wes Craven has literally nothing to do with it. In fact they did not consult Wes on the remake at all and he expressed his displeasure over that fact as well! The remake is not fucking canon to me and many others due to that fact alone. The vast, vast majority of people you see on here, myself included, who love Freddy are talking about the OG 80s and New Nightmare Freddy played by Robert Englund.

Speaking of Robert Englund! He is very important to this conversation. Now why is that? Because he played the character for twenty years? Yes I think that does give him a good amount of say in this conversation. But more than that he literally made the character who is. After A Nightmare On Elm Street back in 1984, the first one, Robert asked for more money and better billing when ANOES 2 was going to happen, the studio said fuck that, the makeup is the most important part! And they recast him! 

They got two weeks into shooting before they realized how hard they fucked up and asked for Robert back, meeting his originally, extremely fair, especially considering his role, demands.

Freddy is not just saying bitch, it is not corny one liners and it is NOT just make up, there is a fuck ton more to him, there is depth and Robert? Clearly understands that to the point that the studio agreed no one else could play him in the original franchise’s run. So I think we can agree what Robert thinks about Freddy is clearly important, leading to my next point.

As for what Robert actually has to say on the matter, and I quote from this article published on Bloody Disgusting in 2015 of what he said when asked for his thoughts on this by some fans at comic con.                                       

“You can imagine Freddy to be anything you want,” Englund began. “My theory is the word “child killer”, there’s something darkly…darkly poetic about that. It’s a very frightening phrase. Child killer! That should be enough. And I think there’s something symbolic about being a child killer. He kills children because children are their future and there’s no place for Freddy in the future. And it’s revenge on the parents! It’s the most painful thing a parent can do is to lose a child before they die. I mean, I can’t imagine how anybody…how any adults or parents survive that, the death of a child. So that’s nasty enough!”

I mean that says it all to me. He has been asked on many occasions and I have seen him even refer to the idea of Freddy being a molester as “gilding the lily” basically, it is wholly unnecessary like a hat on a hat. Freddy being a child killer is enough. Wes thought so. Robert thinks so too.

And for me? That is more than enough. I hope this clears up shit for a lot of people.

#Freddy Krueger #slasher x reader #BHF vents #BHF thoughts #BHF speaks #I am so so so SO tired of seeing this shit parroted over and over again with NO thought to it #Freddy has not is not and never will be THAT alright?! #Freddy Krueger X Reader #Take it #Look at it #Internalize it #Did I make an almost 1K post going off about this? #YES I DID

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Comment les organisations à but non lucratif peuvent utiliser les canaux numériques pour créer une audience et maximiser les dons en ligne. Il y a quelques années, bon nombre des plus grands sites caritatifs ont échoué sur les bases de la convivialité, mais les organisations à but non lucratif ont fait d'énormes progrès en ligne depuis lors. En effet, de nombreuses organisations à but non lucratif ont désormais entièrement intégré le numérique dans leur organisation et en récoltent les bénéfices. Voici quelques façons dont les organismes de bienfaisance peuvent s’améliorer en ligne et augmenter le nombre de dons qu’ils reçoivent. Accepter les dons en ligne Fournir un parcours client clair Utilisez le marketing en ligne Rendez-le mobile Promouvoir les dons en ligne via des canaux hors ligne Tester et améliorer Dites aux gens ce que leur don permettra d'accomplir Emballez les dons comme des produits Utiliser l'ancrage des prix Optimiser la caisse Utilisez les e-mails post-achat pour établir des relations avec les donateurs Fournir un parcours client clair Pour les organisations à but non lucratif qui acceptent les dons en ligne, il est essentiel que les internautes sachent où faire un don dès qu'ils arrivent sur le site. Cela signifie invariablement de beaux appels à l'action clairs que l'utilisateur peut repérer instantanément. Voici un excellent exemple d'Oxfam. Le lien de don est l'une des quatre options principales, et l'utilisation de la couleur et de la forme le fait ressortir sur la page. En revanche, la page d'accueil de BHF ne met pas l'accent sur le lien de don. Il est là à côté du champ de recherche, mais il pourrait être manqué en un coup d'œil. Optimisez votre site internet pour les écrans mobile Comme pour la vente au détail en ligne en général, le mobile deviendra un canal de plus en plus essentiel pour les organisations à but non lucratif. Il est donc vital que les sites et les processus de don soient optimisés pour l'utilisateur mobile. Promouvoir les dons en ligne via des canaux hors ligne Les gens réagissent souvent à la publicité en se rendant en ligne, souvent via des smartphones, il est donc avantageux de promouvoir vos canaux en ligne via d'autres formes de publicité. On estime que 84 % des téléspectateurs qui possèdent un smartphone utilisent leur appareil mobile tout en regardant la télévision. Cela signifie qu'il existe une méthode de réponse instantanée s'ils voient une annonce qui les affecte d'une manière ou d'une autre. Reconnaître ce comportement lors de la planification des campagnes peut aider à générer une réponse en ligne. Cela peut être en créant un site Web dédié autour d'une campagne, comme l'a fait Cancer Research, ou en s'assurant que les URL sont visibles. Tester et améliorer Les organisations à but non lucratif peuvent utiliser des techniques d'optimisation des conversions telles que les tests A/B pour maximiser leurs revenus en ligne. Si vous générez du trafic vers votre site Web, il est avantageux de s'assurer que le plus grand nombre possible s'inscrive ou fasse un don. Voici un exemple de l'association à but non lucratif Kiva, qui a cherché à améliorer sa page de destination pour les nouveaux visiteurs. Une partie du projet consistait à optimiser la moitié inférieure de la page de destination, qui expliquait le fonctionnement du service. L'image ci-dessus montre la version originale, et ci-dessous est la page remaniée - la version "gagnante". En ajoutant plus d'informations et en répondant aux questions clés des visiteurs, ainsi qu'en utilisant la preuve sociale sous forme de témoignages, la nouvelle version a augmenté les conversions de 11,5 %. Dites aux gens ce que leur don permettra d'accomplir Les gens veulent sentir que l'argent qu'ils donnent fera réellement une différence, et une façon de le faire est d'illustrer le genre de choses que le montant donné peut acheter. Voici un exemple du WWF, montrant ce que différents montants de dons peuvent accomplir.

Emballez les dons comme des produits Cela rassure les donateurs sur le fait que leur argent va atteindre un objectif précis et constitue également un excellent cadeau de Noël alternatif. L'exemple le plus célèbre est celui de l'achat d'une chèvre pour faire vivre des familles en Afrique. Utiliser l'ancrage des prix Les organismes de bienfaisance préremplissent souvent les boîtes de dons avec un prix suggéré, ou proposent une gamme d'options (souvent trois) parmi lesquelles choisir. Il s'agit d'utiliser une compréhension du comportement humain pour augmenter les dons, dans ce cas la tendance à travailler à partir de la première information offerte lors de la prise de décision. Par exemple, les entreprises proposent souvent trois niveaux de prix différents (pensez aux forfaits d'abonnement TV par exemple), ce qui fait souvent que l'option intermédiaire semble être le meilleur rapport qualité-prix. Dans le cas des organismes de bienfaisance, les donateurs peuvent ne pas avoir l'impression d'être bon marché en choisissant le don le plus bas et choisiront donc l'option du milieu. Optimiser la caisse C'est un sujet trop vaste pour cet article, mais il suffit de dire que les organisations à but non lucratif devraient apprendre des sites de commerce électronique et s'efforcer de rendre le paiement en ligne aussi simple que possible. Certains domaines à considérer incluent: Utilisez les e-mails post-achat pour établir des relations avec les donateurs Les e-mails de confirmation et de suivi peuvent être utilisés pour tenir les donateurs informés de l'avancement de leur don et du travail précieux effectué par l'organisme de bienfaisance.

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[bisexual-horror-fan]

Some days are days where you get up and kick ass, take names, kill the game and write and write and write some more.

And other days beat you down so hard that you just have to call it and crawl into bed early.

Today is the ladder.

#BHF vents #UGH #What a beast of a day #Wish I could be writing but it is not gonna happen

[bisexual-horror-fan]

Something has been lingering on my mind and I want to make something very, very clear. Just because I do not write non-con, a very personal preference, doesn't mean that I do not support non-con in writing. I do! I think it is a great vein to explore and I support my fellow writers who engage in it and deff think they deserve basic respect and to not get hate for writing what they want.

I will not tolerate people shaming other people or trying to talk down non-con writers or writing to me.

#Thank youuuu #Seriously just because I don't feel comfy writing it myself doesn't mean it isn't good writing #Or valid #I support non-con writers wholeheartedly! #CP is the line for me I cannot support cheese pizza but trying to shame anything else with me WILL NOT FLY #BHF vents #BHF speaks

[bisexual-horror-fan]

All right. About that ableist shit about Bubba Sawyer. I really get pissed off at that shit. Especially since I consistently see the same people implying that he is adult enough to understand murder, crossdressing, cannibalism, preparing (human)meat for food, farmwork, vengeance, spitefullness, insecurity about his looks, fear of not being accepted and Lord knows what else. Basically all the other complex thought processes of an adult, but SEX, which is not a complex thought but a desire that almost everyone feels at some point in their life? Oh no, he is way too precious baby for that. Like FUCK OFF and take a long hike off a short pier. 

Bubba is an adult. And a disabled adult IS NOT AND WILL NEVER BE the same thing as "a very tall innocent little child". Humans are way more complex than that. Inability to verbalise his thoughts and function exactly like everyone else in some areas doesn't make him a child. Lacking understanding of some things doesn't mean that the person lives in a fluffy pink candy land of their own, detached from the real world. A low IQ and the mind of a child are not the same thing. Bubba lives on a farm with his family for fuck's sake. Sex is one of the most down to earth things there are in human lives. 

That fucking abhorrent mentality is not too fucking far off from "disabled people shouldn't be able to get married, they are children and need to be protected", and that shit is extremely harmful in real life.

-Furball891

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Well said as always Furball! You really get it you know? Thank you for chiming in.

Seriously anyone I see pulling this shit, on any character in our circle, not even ones that I like in that specific way, I will not tolerate it. I am sick of it, so, so sick of the lack of education about these things and the most basic surface level thought being spewed out as fact.

It's just awful how many people just say, totally seriously, "Oh yeah disabled people like that have no desire for sex or pleasure or physical intimacy, moreover they can't fully understand it, comprehend it or consent to it." and think that is an okay thing to say! And it isn't! And I am gonna make sure that they fucking know it isn't okay, it's shitty, wrong, harmful and just factually incorrect.

#An ice cold take that is all too common #But Furball knows better of course and I love themmmm #BHF asks #BHF speaks #BHF vents

[bisexual-horror-fan]

Friendly reminder to never, ever call me "mommy" or any variation of it even in a joking context please and thank you!

#Big squick #Like I do not fuck with that #Please be respectful #You want an alternative Boss is good my friend Vic uses that and it's fun #BHF vents #BHF speaks

[bisexual-horror-fan]

Wow don't you love how some people add onto your posts without acknowledging any of the original things you said and add their own, shit tier, reasoning as to why they disagree? Not actually opening up a discussion, showing they didn't read your post and also not making their own SEPARATE POST?!

Yeah. Me too.

You know what else I love? Not responding to their fuckery and blocking their ass.

#Like dude #Clearly nothing I say will change your mind #And if you think he is like that? #I don't care about what you have to say #And I don't wanna deal with you #And I'm fucking blocking you #BHF vents #Just say you don't understand nuance and move on #Like fuck people LEAVE ME ALONE LATELY MAYBE? #Too hard a challenge? #I guess so! #I'm fucking tired

[bisexual-horror-fan]

My God this should not be a wild or controversial take but nothing pertaining to fandom is worth telling someone to seriously kill themselves.

#Like it is not that fucking serious #Do not do that shit #Don't bring that negative ass energy anywhere near me #You can block or blacklist or unfollow and ignore it #And please do not try to defend this stance and try to convince me times where it is acceptable to tell someone to do this #It is gross #BHF speaks #BHF vents

[bisexual-horror-fan]

So after seeing some less than savory shit in the tags here is your big fat fucking reminder that I am polyamorous and it is a big part of who I am! I write so much polyam stuff because I want to see more content for people like me, I have a lot to say on it and it is important to me. SO! If you are a person who doesn't support polyamorous people or think that we are not deserving of love and respect, that our kinds or relationships aren't valid or that they are wrong, inherently more abusive or WHATEVER, that you can leave.

The shit I write, even if it is NOT polyam is not FOR YOU! It just isn't and I would super appericate it if you could get out and never come back.

#Like my GOD #I am not gonna say it again and I am not gonna apologize #BEGONE #Polyam Postivity #BHF speaks #BHF vents #BHF rants

[bisexual-horror-fan]

Okay so, I do so much to keep this blog a happy, positive and inclusive space and strive to show and cultivate that on the daily.

But today?

I’m fucking pissed.

My good writing friend/mutual @knifewh0re got an ask last night alerting them to the fact that one of their fics was put on wattpad without their permission or knowledge and that SAME person did the same with my fic. They took my fic Sleepover and put it on their page and they also had a whole collection of stolen work, looks like it has been taken down now, thank GOD, but I am still pretty angry about this.

Whoever you are, I assume you are a fan of mine, right? I dunno who you are but I hope you are reading this and are aware of the fact that this shit sucks. It is fucking gross and not okay.

That you are aware of the fact that I am angry and genuinely upset with you.

I work hard as fuck on all of my stories, I pour so much time and effort and thought into them, put pieces of MYSELF in them and for someone to turn around and repost my shit without a single thought or care to me or the work I do is honestly disgusting.

Did you ever think maybe there are specific reasons that I haven’t put my shit on wattpad? No. Of course not.

Like if you ARE a fan of mine there are so many better ways to get more eyes on my stuff. Tumblr hates me and has me blacklisted so finding my blog is a challenge, my shit does not show up in the tags, so the ONLY WAY new eyes get on my stuff is via reblogs. You could recc, talk about or reblog my writing if you want to support me! And I heavily encourage this and would love that.

Not from you however, whoever you are who stole my shit, you aren’t welcome here anymore, I don’t know you and as a result can’t block you but yeah this shit I am doing here? It is not for you and I don’t want you here because I write for adults and clearly you aren’t because I thought we all learned why plagiarism is wrong in the FOURTH FUCKING GRADE.

In closing. This is a massive fucking reminder that I do NOT consent or want anyone else posting my shit on other sites.

And to my lovely supportive followers, fans and moots, if you ever see my writing somewhere that isn’t here on my tumblr blog or my Ao3 account here, that I didn’t post it there and I would be endlessly thankful if you could bring it to my attention/report it.

Thank you so much for your time and listening to me vent about all of this.

#Like I am so fucking bothered by this #Danny deserves better #I deserve better #This shit is so fucking annoying and disheartening #BHF vents #BHF rants #Bexxx is fucking pissed

[bisexual-horror-fan]

As a bisexual person I am so fucking tired of the constant, "Ugh yeah, I hate being attracted to MEN! Gross, MEN are the worst-" like STOP. I get not everyone has had good relationships with men, I fucking get that and respect it, but at the same time shut up. You do not encapsulate the entire bisexual experience. I am bisexual and unapologetically LOVE men so fucking much.

#Seriously #If you have had shit experiences with men #My heart goes out to you it DOES #But acting like hating being attracted to men is central to the bisexual experience TIRES ME #Seriously this is a personal post #Anyway #BHF vents #BHF rants #You can reblog tho

[bisexual-horror-fan]

So this is not just a RENT hate account anymore. It is also a La La Land hate account too now.

#It was... #SO bad #Just #Do you ever just try to invoke the imagry and vibe of old hollywood and fail spectactularly? #Like and not involve any people with legit serious musical theater training? #The music the lyrics the costuming the color blocking it is ALL awful #I hate hate hated it #There was ONE good song and it was not done by the main leads #BHF thoughts #BHF vents

[bisexual-horror-fan]

That feeling that no one will ever be able to match and return your level of intensity, effort and passion? Sucks.

#What is this about? #Who's to say #Something that's been on my mind but it's MY issue #So there's nothing to be done about it #My expectations of others meeting NY level are ridiculous and I am all too aware of it and normally fine with it #But sometimes man... #BHF vents