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#Celebrity crushes
tvguts · 1 year
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in this comic: helpful magical beings that i think would make the world a better place. he's like the tooth fairy but for parasocial relationships
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cowboyjen68 · 4 months
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i am 24, from chicago and i have a crush on youuuu
You are very sweet to tell me and this is my opportunity to talk about how healthy internet personalities or "celebrity" crushes are to young lesbians finding thier own sexuality in a world that mostly assumes people straight (becuase statisically that is objectively true).
I still, to this day, remember, as a teen and young woman having a crush on Christy McNichol, Nancy McKeon (or more particularly her character Jo), and Tatum O Neal. There were older women like Markie Post and Erin Gray who I crushed on. "Ooo older women, they are so steady and have their shit together .. and HOT". I actually knew very little about them off screen. My Teen magazines were featuring TEEN stars, for good reason.
But I still crushed on them and watching thier sitcoms. Most of these women were straight but that was not really important. What was important was they were not really real. I could build them to be how I want to be in my mind using the superficial things I could see about them or learn from little interviews etc.
The internet has changed that dynamic slightly. I am accessible. Reachable. A real person. I wonder if someday media experts will refer to"CowboyJen" as a character I created. They would be wrong but I would understand the thought process. There are aspects of my life I don't share. No one wants to see me ass dragging at 10 pm after a 15 hour shift sitting on my bed trying to untie my shoes before I fall asleep or cleaning my bathroom . My life is entwined with others and I protect their privacy unless they agree to participate.
I do answer DM's. I do respond to comments. I am not simply a character on a small screen that does not interact with the audience. That is a shift in the "celebrity" paradigm. And it can make crushes seem much more real.
What I want to address is that crushes and fantasizing about other women IS NORMAL and healthy and a tool to help us figure what we like, learn to enjoy our sexuality. I remember feeling shame for thinking about these women because it was "dirty" and "creepy". In reality it was no such thing. It is just a normal part of being human, to seek out a safe outlet for fantasy, day dreaming and forming our dislikes and likes in our own head and heart so we can translate that to our real dating/love life.
Crushes don't stop at the teens or 20's. I would argue most adults experience crushes as well and it is just another tool in our humanity that we use to navigate the world we live in.
The largest difference is my generation's crushes were relatively unreachable. Fan mail was mostly answered by an employee or a hired service. Any contact in real life with back stage passes or "meet and greets" were heavily controlled and monitored for safety and to protect the image of the celebrity. And also to often to prevent the musician or actor from over stepping his/her bounds too.
Now many smaller scale recognizable people are accessible in real life. We live and work in our communities. I didn't create a character I just share my life and my reality because I think it can truly give other lesbians and women hope that we are not destined to life of stereotypes because we are butch, or lesbian, or bi or female or not rich or any number of things that get false expectations attached to it.
I guess what I am saying is your crush is healthy and normal and I would never shame anyone for having such feelings towards me. It is also my duty as a role model to not breech appropriate boundaries and I take that job very seriously. The fact is I travel to Chicago on occasion and I am out and about in the real world so the chances of me meeting followers like you and and others is highly likely at some point. I love meeting people and often to respond to and meet followers, who become my friends, in person. We are all people and I am dead serious about forming intergenerational lesbian connections in real life.
Your crush is your safe place to explore emotions and attractions so enjoy.
Side note: I don't not consider myself a "celebrity" LOL I am using that word in the broad sense as meaning a recognizable person outside of my in-person friends and community.
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madame-fear · 3 months
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who is the celebration crush yk we won't judge you (no pressure I am insanely interested though)
jskdkxid i love you all frfr 💗💗 My most recent celebrity crushes are Enzo Vogrincic and also Matias Recalt. They are awfully CUTE I SWEAR TO GOD and they both participated in the movie "The Society of the Snow". Ughhdjdk I love them so so muchh 🥰❤❤❤🤭
But recently on a Twitter post I saw a picture of Matias Recalt and his girlfriend and I kinda wanna jump off a roof now though. Holding back tears rn everyone. 🥴
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(^ Enzo Vogrincic)
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(^ Matias Recalt)
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tenderbittersweet · 4 months
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For anyone wondering, I will be taking all my favorite old men with me into 2024.
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coolgirlblaire · 4 months
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my favorite photos of kurt cobain from nirvana 💗
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jk-unless · 7 months
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If you’re a mind reader and you ever find yourself around me,I sincerely apologize for the graphic depictions of male celebrities twice my age doing unspeakable things to me.
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thrillhoues · 16 days
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Top 10 Celebrity Crushes
Challenged by @wolfboy88 and @arewordsenough (hi guys!!)
This was harder than I realized lol
Chris Evans
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2. Ryan Kelley and 3. Tyler Posey (convenient gif by yours truly, maybe I should write some Scott / Parrish stuff)
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4. Cody Christian
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5. Michael B Jordan (jesus that gif)
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6. Daniel Dae Kim (a crush since 2004)
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7. Henry Cavill
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8. Rainer Dawn (honestly he just looks very hot is all)
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9. Tom Holland
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10. Mark Consuelos (and freebie KJ Apa because he's also unspeakably hot)
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wolfboy88 · 16 days
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Top 10 Celebrity Crushes
Tagged by @chasing-chimeras and @arewordsenough
In no particular order:
1. Dylan Sprayberry
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2. Cody Christian
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3. Tyler Hoechlin
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4. Brenton Thwaites
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5. Chris Evans
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6. Josh Hutcherson
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7. Michael Yegear
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8. Henry Zaga
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9. Steven R McQueen
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10. Rainer Dawn
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Tagging @ksbbb @thiamsxbitch @thrillhoues @volsungar-the-mighty @mmoosen @haven-of-dusk
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kabishkat19 · 11 months
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Celebrity vs. Childhood crushes :
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The realisation I never wanted…
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rreskk · 8 months
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You can’t tell me that 20 year old Trevor DIDNT doesn’t look like 20 year old Jack Nicholson
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They are twins. Idc what you think, in my mind, Jack and Trevor are twins.
(I’m in love with both)
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My boyfriends
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haven-of-dusk · 16 days
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Top 10 Celebrity Crushes
Taaged by @wolfboy88
Picking only 10 would be an exercise in impossibility so I'm going to say this is the top 10 at this very moment mostly in no particular order. But if I made this post again tomorrow it's entirely possible half the list would change. Some entries are pretty locked in though.
Overly lengthy preamble aside:
Matt Cornett
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Kit Connor
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Froy Gutierrez
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Lucas Till
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Charlie Carver
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Joshua Bassett
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Nico Greetham
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Xolo Maridueña
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Mason Dye
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& Robert Irwin
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Honorable Mentions go to Stephen Manas, Cody Christian, Daniel Sharman, David Elsendoorn, Charlie Bushnell, Iain De Caestecker...okay I'd better just post this before I either reconsider my choices or double my list size.
Tagging @orbitalpirate @rosesradio and @careless-whispers if you lovelies feel like it.
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mxltifxnd0m · 2 years
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if i was ever stuck in a room with all of my celebrity crushes
i would run out of the room so fast out of fear because i’m convinced they aren’t real and just exist on screen or in the scenarios i’ve made up about them in my head
or id be crying and shitting my pants being in that room
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madame-fear · 2 months
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I saw a picture of one of my celeb crushes sucking someones feet. It looked pretty much real and one of the actors that worked with him retweeted the pic making fun of him.
Enough fucking said.
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tenderbittersweet · 6 months
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Oh really? Then explain this:
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coolgirlblaire · 2 months
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photos of Kurt Cobain 💗
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inspoocean · 16 days
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Celeb Crushes
Challenged by @thrillhoues
This list is gonna be super hard, so I will start with 10 and work my way up!
10. Kellan Lutz
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9. Lewis Tan
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8. Taylor Zakar Perez
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7. Henry Cavill
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6. Tyler Hoechlin
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5. Diego Tinoco
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4. Oliver Stark
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3. Glen Powell
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2. Ian Bohen
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1. Michael Evans Behling
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