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bebepac · 1 year
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One Year Has Passed
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In case you were wondering what depression can look like.  It can look exactly like this.
Cheslie Corrinne Kryst  
April 28, 1991 - January 30, 2022
It can also look like this:
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And.... it can also look like this....
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But what I’ve come to realize, which has made me take a step back from social media  platforms in general since her passing is something that she had mentioned before.  “Social media is a highlight reel.”  
I would say I can’t believe a year has passed since she made the choice to leave this world, but I can, because I felt various levels of grief throughout it.  I followed her avidly on social media on several different platforms. I perceived her to be happy, and funny, goofy, constantly with a smile on her face.  I also perceived her to be kind, intelligent, goal oriented, ambitious, and a powerhouse of a woman, that had many many skill sets, and a wide knowledge base. Which is only a few of the reasons I had picked her to become my face claim for my Riley in most of my stories when I started writing on the fandom.  I looked up to her as a minority woman from my home state, and she had accomplished so much in her 30 years walking this earth.  
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You can show what you perceive to be the “best of you” to the world and can be struggling with so much more under the surface. She talked once on a post about how many pictures they had taken before they decided on the one to post that made her look “flawless.” 
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We put so much pressure on ourselves to make an effort to be what we perceive to be “perfect.”  Some of those pressures are societal, feeling you have to conform to a certain standard of “beauty”  or “professionalism”  even racial norms, what it means to be “Black” or a minority navigating this world, or simply being a person navigating this world.
For this, I say, we must have more grace with ourselves.  The things we say to ourselves in our minds, we would never say to our best friends.  So why do we feel it’s ok to say those negative things about our selves?  
We must stop being our own worst critic.  We have to love ourselves more.  Have those conversations not only with the people that look to be visibly struggling but those that look perfectly fine.  People are leaving this world by their own choice at an alarming rate. We have to have those conversations with each other that are difficult. 
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Because I don’t want to lose someone else, I care about this way.  
No, I didn’t know Cheslie personally, I wish I had, and over 3 years, I created a world here for her in my stories I created, and I feel like I knew her, and I still miss her.  Seeing all the tributes come across social media for her, by family, friends, and fans, shows the impact she had on the world, and the legacy she will have. I really do hope that she found the peace she was looking for, even though selfishly I still wish she was still here in physical presence.  
Every person that we lose this way, is one too many.  
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perezhilton · 2 days
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So powerful and HEALING for this grieving mother!
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thundergrace · 2 years
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"You have intrinsic value and worth"
I do like what the psychiatrist said here about phrase "suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem", because I agree, the statement itself is not wrong because death is permanent. The issue is the statement is usually dismissive of the pain someone is in in the moment that they just want it to stop so badly that they're willing to do the only thing that they think will achieve that. Will give them release and relief. That pain FEELS permanent in the moment and you cannot suddenly invalidate someone's feelings when it comes to suicide.
Cheslie's last text to her mother was so heartbreaking. What can you even do when someone's brain chemistry is attacking them like that? Making them feel sad and hopeless all the time. Just ALL the time.... how CAN you convince them that's not permanent if to that point it's been their life experience? *sigh*
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boricuacherry-blog · 2 years
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R.I.P. Cheslie Kryst 🥀 suicide is never the answer
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perfettamentechic · 3 months
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30 gennaio … ricordiamo …
30 gennaio … ricordiamo … #semprevivineiricordi #nomidaricordare #personaggiimportanti #perfettamentechic
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tornadopost · 1 year
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rudrjobdesk · 2 years
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म‍िस USA Cheslie Kryst की 60 मंज‍िला इमारत से ग‍िरने से हुई मौत, हरनाज संधू ने ल‍िखा इमोशनल पोस्‍ट
म‍िस USA Cheslie Kryst की 60 मंज‍िला इमारत से ग‍िरने से हुई मौत, हरनाज संधू ने ल‍िखा इमोशनल पोस्‍ट
मिस यूएसए 2019 चेस्ली क्रिस्ट (Miss USA 2019 Cheslie Kryst Suicide) का रविवार को निधन हो गया. मिस यूएसए 2019 का खिताब जीतने वाली और पेशे से वकील अमेरिकी मॉडल चेल्‍सी क्रिस्‍ट 30 साल की थीं. चेस्‍ली के न‍िधन पर मिस यूनिवर्स 2019 बनीं हरनाज संधू (Harnaaz Sandhu) ने एक इमोशनल पोस्‍ट ल‍िखा है. संधू ने कहा कि यह खबर सुनकर उनका दिल टूट गया है. डेली मेल की खबर के मुताबिक, चेल्सी ने 60 मंजिला इमारत के…
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Pretty Privilege is Sometimes A Curse
Hey there fellow tumblr users.This is my first blog ever and it is just completely full of my opinions or well in some cases facts.
TW: suicide
So I don't think many people noticed but on 30th January the death anniversary of of Miss USA 2019 i.e.. Cheslie Kryst took place. Cheslie Kryst commited suicide by jumping off from her apartment in Manhattan .In her final letter she revealed that she was suffering from high functioning depression. While all of this happened, people around the world had formed their own opinions. According to them someone "gorgeous" could not have depression and commit a suicide as everyone loved pretty people and there could be nothing wrong with them .Fans commented on her post that they couldn't believe that someone who was a former Miss USA took their life and was suffering depression.
This is where the problem lies .Everyone expects people who live up to the beauty standards of the society as ""privileged, lucky ,happy, carefree" as if they don't have any problems in their life and their job is just to match the expectations of other people .It negatively impacts those people and makes them set unhealthy standards for themselves. Other than that, women who have big breasts ,ass ,nice lips etc. are constantly sexualized ,stereotyped and cat called by men. Most of the male population thinks that having features like that just exist to satisfy and appeal them which is not really true at all.
First of all we should get rid of the beauty standards set by the society like having round ass ,hourglass body ,big boobs ,nice lips ,acne- free face ,fairness ,good eyesight ,a male with a height more than 6ft,broad shoulders,good hands,muscular etc. .While all of these can just be preferences, they should not be unanimously accepted by majority which unfortunately has already happened .The root of this cause is also social media. Social media is FAKE. Make sure you know that before making assumptions about someone else's life. All of it is just an act .Try not to compare yourself with others .Remember EVERYONE is beautiful. Coming to an end ,it feels nice to finally have typed this out since all of this has been going in my mind for a week.
Stay positive loves <3
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ramtracking · 1 day
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Former Miss USA Chelsie Kryst's Mom Says Her Daughter's Final Text Was Meant to 'Comfort' Her (Exclusive) [ Depression ]
Former Miss USA Chelsie Kryst’s Mom Says Her Daughter’s Final Text Was Meant to ‘Comfort’ Her (Exclusive) [Highlights] Former Miss USA Chelsie Kryst’s Mom April Simpkins believes the final text she received from her daughter before her death by suicide was… Already a full-time attorney licensed to practice law in two states, Cheslie Kryst was crowned Miss USA in 2019 at age 28. Former Miss USA…
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theperezhilton · 2 days
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Another article. New info. Even more heartbreaking!
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bebepac · 18 hours
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It arrived! I'm starting to read now, and i'm already in tears. 🥺
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spidermanepisodes · 3 months
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MR. UBER-TOUGH was self-punisher. If you are a self-punisher. You need no drugs(medical). Too hard to give drugs to self-punisher. Lol
I went depressed since this took place.
Chisel (Cheslie Kryst) Chesil Uber Nazi Terminology Master
Made me think about high places.
Kurt Bobain made mi dink about item throwing business. Such as. Radbinton. I had this radi bindon ned just for flanders. Flanders sokd moi duk - naaat! Just for kiddings
They don't have lezzie action at Zimbsons but the marge's sisters or who is the selma and her friend
Gay action is very banned everywhere
Lez action is rare too
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rebeleden · 5 months
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CC AMERIKKKA
CC RABID MISOGYNOIR AND BLACK FEMICIDE
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perfettamentechic · 1 year
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30 gennaio … ricordiamo …
30 gennaio … ricordiamo … #semprevivineiricordi #nomidaricordare #personaggiimportanti #perfettamentechic
2022: María José Ulla, María José Ulla Madroñero, modella spagnola, eletta Miss Spagna nel 1964. Fra gli organizzatori della manifestazione vi era il suo futuro marito, il giornalista José Antonio Plaza, i due si sposarono cinque anni dopo l’incoronazione. Partecipò alle selezioni di Miss Mondo e Miss Universo, arrivando ad entrambe le competizioni alle fasi finali. In seguito si dedicò alla…
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