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autopsycollective · 3 days

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‘you’re a ____ fictive?? i know someone with a ___ fictive and i ship your characters together you should definitely meet’

fuck off.

we are not our sources and it’s incredibly uncomfortable for you to be shipping us with other people, especially people we’ve never met. it’s weird and a huge breach of boundaries.

i do not care if you ship our sources together in whatever source it is we come from, that does not mean we should connect nor does it mean you have any sort of a say over who we end up with.

fictives are not their source character and have boundaries that should be respected.

lastly, don’t ship people in general, that includes headmates.

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pluralcultureis · 3 days

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plural culture is having multiple alters of the same guy like why do we need three

#endos dni #osdd #pdid #did #did system #pdid system #osddid #actually did #traumagenic #actually dissociative #plural culture is

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sharkbrainfart · 2 days

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Normalize referring to yourself as "we" "our", even if there's just one of you guys on the front.

#actually did #actually dissociative #did stuff #did system #actually plural #did #did alter #neurodivergent #did alters #actually osdd #actually traumagenic #plurality #plural stuff #plural #plural shit #plural system #pluralgang

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system-hottakes · 3 days

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my hot take is that some littles/middles don't want to be treated like their age or feel like they cant participate in mature topics

most ive met want be treated according to their age, but ive met some littles/middles who are capable of 'adult' activities. alter age is complicated. treat littles/middles the way they want to be treated, and that includes respecting them if they choose to date (body age comes first), use substances, drive, engage in sexual acts, etc! it depends on the alter/system if they can consent to these things!

yeah! Alter age and alter maturity are very different! Some of our littles are sexual alters, they present as children but are much more mature and capable of consenting and acting "adult". It's important to keep in mind every system is different and alter age Vs alter maturity is very different. This is also important to keep in mind for adult alters, as if the adult alter is older than the body they likely won't be as mature as an actual adult, as alters are limited by what the brain knows and can't really be more mature than the brain itself!

#anti endo #did system #system #actually did #alters #did #hot take #endos dni #hot takes

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rin-and-jade · 3 days

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Is This (Truly) My Reflection..? : A Post on Imposter Syndrome [Master Guide]

" Did well on a test? Must be luck. They think im smart? Man, i must've tricked them because im not. My condition is bad? Well it could be even worser than this. Im struggling? Must be a minor thing, plus everyone struggles worser right..? "

If these words hits close to home, take a moment to look in the mirror. What do you notice? Maybe you fear lots of things, having horrible self-esteem, or being a perfectionist and overthinking everything?

Fear not! They're just blotches obscuring your true reflection, let's finally clean your mirror, shall we? So let's get on with the post;

How did go dusty?

Materialistically speaking, we all know that objects also need regular maintenance to keep it's best quality and lifetime,, mirrors are one of them, especially glasses because magical smudges spawns in once in a while, pretty annoying to see with when things are not clear isn't it?

I think the imposter image also clouds you the same way, it doesn't change the facts, but it does change the way you perceive them.

But, how did they spawn in your vision? It doesn't just pop out, maybe we didn't see it coming when it's small, dust and smears are more visible when they cluster together. What this means is how criticism, out-of-reach demands, and unrealistic expectations you hear most often gets accumulated, slowly obscuring you. Make sense right?

Since the things you hear the most echoes through your chamber harder than the less frequent ones, and that nobody hear's the same thing/words automatically means there are different forms of this syndrome's manifestation, i'll list them down: (bare in mind this is read in a pov of talking to oneself)

Perfectionist - "It all has to be right" You must do it perfect, everything must go smooth, if it doesn't go like how you planned you could've done better in many ways because why can't you see it coming before? That's impossible and unforgivable, there's no toleration for mistakes. Makes you look like you're not as good enough as others.

Expert - "Until then, i may be competent" There's a lot to master or learn, only then you can call yourself worthy of a title. Because the greatest ones must know everything, they don't have any weaknesses--since that's what an expert is! What are you, who learnt most things it has to give, but still missing a lot of little gaps? Once it is all flawless and understood you can call yourself that.

Natural Genius - "I am great, as long i can wing it" Everything must be an easy feat, you must be able to do things right on first try, if not, you might be no other than an average person. Geniuses are fast learning--and they can do everything right where people least expect it. Only then you can truly be smart or intelligent, wrong deductions are associated with less bright people! So if you just make one mistake out of anything, You are just the same as them, you don't have such talent!!

Lone wolf - "It's not real effort if it's intervened" A status or level means nothing if someone helps you, because thats cheating! You should start from scratch like everyone else, asking for help will equate to not being competent or worthy. You will never be able to asses your competence or abilities if it was assisted by someone else, you need to prove being worthy by doing it all yourself!

Hardest Worker - "I should perform as the best" Only if you work the most, the hardest, diligently and with no rest, is only when you can settle down and claim your achievements. What are you if you are not as special? You are nothing but a fraud if you're not the hardest working person ever, you also don't deserve to take a break until you reach to a higher level than others! You are nothing if you are not productive, or didn't achieve any amazing outcome.

Each types has its own fixations and areas where self-doubt comes around, you might even be a mix of these 5 (pick the dominant one if can), the manifestations are endless. Note that the main theme it all has are fear of being fake/inadequate and, or causing extreme doubt, one way or another.

If you need more assurance, i have prepared links for two short quizzes to figure out if you are showing signs of the imposter syndrome! They're already tested by me, so give these two a try.

How should i clean it??

Good question, but before that, i want to mention that this inner critic is a common automatic second voice where it's created in a place of potential abuse or mistreatment for many kinds of victims. Just like how you wipe your stuffs clean can go dirty in a few days despite leaving it be, this is the same. But the more you take care of your glass, the harder the specks will stick on it. That's our goal right there: Make the critics bother you less and more weak the more we deflect them.

Now to the main point, its a tough one here, because depending on what type you have, has it's own root of cause that needs to be tackled accordingly. This post is how to specifically tackle the sense of fraud in being a system, but you can apply this to any other general things the syndrome is causing you problems at.

Dear Perfectionist, here's how you can clean your mirror:

Understand that CDDs have no 'right' way of how it'll present the symptoms to you. Like, for someone to have a cold who have a sore throat for the early onset, while you're having runny nose,, does not mean you are the odd one out for not being the same as other's manifestation.

Nothing is constant, or the same, in frequency or intensity. You don't have to suffer 24/7 to finally accept you have a CDD or anything else. Just like for those with chronic pain, who doesn't experience pain for a day, does not mean they are cured of, or not having it. One minute of feeling okay still can happen to those with illnesses.

Perfectionism seeks outward assurance to fit whatever it finds 'right' or it's prime example as reference, which is the opposite of what you truly need: Acceptance. Comparison can be helpful, but oftentimes it causes counterproductive results. Your experiences are already real and it uniquely belongs to you, no amount of external validation will fill you, accept as how you are.

Dear Expert, here's how you can clean your mirror:

Having CDD means having a very covert disorder, it is not that you're a fraud for not knowing, or have proof of what caused you to be one, or know every parts and places in the innerworld, or need a perfect book filled with documentation on anything you can find. You do not need to 'master' or understand how your disorder truly works in order to feel like you have it--because guess what, you do have despite it, buddy.

You cannot rush things! Take things slow and steady, a microwaved meal may not taste good but it sure gets served in a mere minute, but gourmet are made from long and tedious work that trusts the process instead of the final result. Many systems rush to develop a better communication without fully learning what type of communication they have, like communicating with vibes instead of the stereotypical type for example.

Nobody ever figure things out by a 100%, so ease back and embrace uncertainty and the unknown. If the greatest researchers still can't make sense of how our galaxy works, then you should not be guilty or feel incompetent for not being able to figure it out, we are not perfect ofcourse, there are limitations to what we can know of our CDD.

Dear Natural Genius, here's how you can clean your mirror:

Having a disorder does not mean you immediately know what it does, will do, or how it'll turn out. Never feel bad about learning from scratch, you also don't have to get things right first try because it might be a new topic you're unfamiliar with. If you once think you have DID, but turns out to be Polyfragmented the longer you learn and research, it is a very natural thing to experience as CDD's have many similarities between each other.

You can't keep relying on being unprepared, but expect to do it perfect. It is not a negative thing to always recap, or learn it again, and whenever you do get things wrong, it is a valuable information to learn from, it's not your enemy. The lightbulb isn't invented at first try, but after hundreds and thousands of tries, and the worth still never gets devalued.

Dear Lone Wolf, here's how you can clean your mirror:

It is never cheating to ask for help, or get insight from another person. It never means you are not competent if you need some external help, rather like how you cannot see crumbs in your face until someone points it out. One can do an okay amount of progress, but if with many, it can progress even better and faster.

You must dismantle whatever makes you think of this way, things like hyper-independence are caused by a deeper root, you must delve and explore why are you only deemed worth, or feel okay, if you do everything yourself. We grow better when we surround ourselves with many other things.

Dear Hardest Worker, here's how you can clean your mirror:

healing is a journey, i understand that you want to get over with the whole CDD's symptoms and it's problems and start getting into final fusion/functional system, that the fluctuation with everyday's progress may frustrate you, but everyday doesn't have to be succeeding something or have an eureka, progress is never linear. You will still get there one day, don't fret on it too much okay?

Worries may not leave you alone fully, and just so you know, your worth or validation isn't tied with productivity. Whatever guilt or doubt you have that is causing this, i hope you can incorporate more self-compassion. For the alter with role jobs, you all deserve to have a break and have fun outside of those jobs, and rely with other parts for help. You're doing enough.

Why does it happen? Where's the takeaway?

Well, imposter syndrome relies on many biases/distortions and possible fallacies, i'll tell you some in hopes of helping you get out of its grip better than your previous attempts after learning the awful trick of theirs:

Confirmation bias: When you take a part of a fact to confirm your current image of you have, whilst downplaying contradicting and or disregarding other pov to maintain it.

Mental filter: Fixated on the negative aspects or flaws while missing out on the bigger picture or contextual information it has. Leading to false judgement of one's situation/ability.

Overgeneralization: Where a person assumes an experience from one event will apply to another different event. Or base an answer from a limited evidence or current failures. For example, interpreting a single mistake or setback as evidence that they are incompetent or unworthy, despite having a track record of success in other areas.

False consensus bias: Believing that others share the same negative opinions or doubts about oneself, even when there is little evidence to support this assumption. For example, one may believe that everyone in their workplace or academic environment is highly competent and confident, leading them to feel even more out of place and undeserving.

Fundamental attribution error: Where one underemphasize situational and environmental factors for the behavior of itself/someone else while overemphasizing dispositional or personality factors. For example, people who cut lines in traffic is a jerk, but if you cut traffic it's because there's something important. The pure opposite can be true in this specific example: Sarah receives praise from her supervisor for completing a project ahead of schedule and with excellent quality. However, instead of attributing her success to hard work, skills, and knowledge, she discounts the positive feedback by attributing the outcome to external factors. Saying "I just got lucky this time," or "My team members helped me a lot, so it wasn't all my effort." instead.

So there a hecking ton of information i put here.. But these things are very important to learn about, because the imposter syndrome is a multifaceted problem that has to be addressed in more than one angle.

I hope, everything that is written from start to end, can be used as your chemical cleaner, wiping cloth, along with your handy guide on how to take care of your mirror professionally,

Happy cleaning everyone!

- j

#did #actually did #did community #did osdd #did system #dissociative identity disorder #sysblr #plural #system stuff #jeducates #imposter syndrome

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transweird · 1 day

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hey just a very aggressive reminder that you absolutely do not have to like p//dos or z//s to be radqueer. i don’t know how the fuck this started. being radqueer means inclusivity for all queer people, including paraphiles. but just because they’re also queer doesn’t mean that we all have to like them??? queer people are not a hivemind ??? for fucks sake?? terrible people can be queer too??

#pro rq 🌈🍓#radqueer #transid #did system #plural system #pro transx #rq 🌈🍓#rqc🌈🍓#system #queer #queer community

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c0stiffen · 2 days

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Gen question! Do some of the pokemon characters in your Blind Arven AU have mental disabilities, or do they just have physical disabilities?

(No hate BTW! I love your AU and Art!)

GIACOMO!!!

And more...

To the best of my understanding, (both my research and what I've talked to professionals about), selective mutism comes from an anxiety disorder (and that counts as a mental disability, at least that's the information I've received).

About of the rest of the characters, I'm still informing myself properly, I know that a lot of people like the HC that Nemona is part of the Autistic spectrum so I've been considering it I have also considered DID Systems, I am still doing adequate research on that topic.

I've also thought that Blind Arven could also be part of the Autism spectrum, Ortega has dyslexia, Penny has social anxiety. I want to include more characters but I want to be 100% sure that what I'm doing is well researched, feel free to leave suggestions! ❤️

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antiendovents · 3 days

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pov: you have maladaptive daydreaming disorder and hallucinations /neg

awh, I'm sorry. I hope you guys figure it out eventually and I'm wishing you the best <3 (/platonic)

#Sorry if this isn't a very good reply #I'm not very good at this #anti endo #did #did system #endos dni #plural #actually did #alters #system #endos fuck off #did osdd

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systemuserboxes · 3 days

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[alt; userbox reads "this system is introject heavy"]

#anti nontraumagenic #did system #non traumagenic dni #system #anti endo #did #endos dni #system stuff #userboxes

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pluralcultureis · 1 day

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Fictive heavy Plural culture is being so fucking pissed off that people for some reason assume you’re faking being a system if you Roleplay. Like- that’s literally our only way to express ourselves for who we are because we’re so isolated and don’t talk to anyone but our mother irl, who we’re scared to tell we’re not the host, so when we switch, no one will know and it’s so fucking lonely never being called your actual name or treated as who you are and Roleplay is our only escape from that.

Does this make sense? Probably not, I’m just annoyed.

~Empire System🐕🎖️

#endos dni #osdd #pdid #did #did system #pdid system #osddid #actually did #traumagenic #actually dissociative #plural culture is

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wxrmeaterz · 1 day

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don't shame yourself or other headmates for feeling emotions or reacting to things

take accountability if you(&) hurt someone of course, but we just saw someone shaming/belittling an alter having a panic attack

beyond worried at the number of people we see doing this

emotions are allowed, no matter who told you they're not.

#endos dni #actually did #polyfrag did #did system #did alter #did osdd #osdd #cdd system #osddid #endos fuck off #polyfrag system

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disrealities · 2 days

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An alternative system host flag.

image id for the first flag was by @smilepilled !

here is the original! The oranges / yellows were a little hard on my eyes , so I made an alt with a softer colour palette.

[pt. An alternative system host flag.

image ID for the first flag was by @/smilepilled!

here(link) is the original! The oranges/yellows were a little hard on my eyes, so I made an alt with a softer colour palette .pt end]

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system-hottakes · 10 hours

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I know this is going to get flamed bit as an addition to the 'source seperation' Anon, that should also include alters having to change their names. Sometimes a name is part of a source and it's unfair to demand an alter change their names for you and your comfort. It's exactly the same thing as forcing an alter to source seperate.

yeah.. forcing someone to change their name, whether they're an alter or not, is just fucking weird. If you wouldn't make a singlet change their name, don't make an alter change their name. if you wouldn't make a cis person change their name, dont make a trans person change their name. People are not required to change themselves, especially important parts of their identity, just to make you feel more comfortable. Unless their identity is genuinely harmful to others, there is no need to try harass someone into changing their name

#actually did #anti endo #did system #system #alters #did #endos dni #hot takes #hot take

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