#DID pride

[gateway-2000]

hey guess what... i maded u a thing x33

all of these + a few more just went live in my etsy shop!! feel free to check them out or share with ur goth friend <3

i am a schizophrenic dissociative crippled trans artist escaping domestic abuse and homelessness who needs help keeping a roof over feyr head. i am very close to my goal, every sale gets me closer to being able to meet the requirements to renew my lease and stay housed!

i spent the majority of 2019 - 2021 homeless, I'd like to keep that streak ended ✌️ thank you so much for considering helping me! we really appreciate it 🙏

you can support us directly here:

pay p al: [email protected]

cash a p p: glitterGraphix

#goth fashion #emo fashion #alternative fashion #share your dollar #mutual aid #cripple punk #cpunk #transgender #ftm #transmasc #transmaculine #intersex #genderqueer #bigender #transgender artist #disabled artist #plural pride #did pride #multiple pride #adhd pride #autistic pride #actually autistic #autism #autistic #adhd #did #osdd #plural #plural system #endo safe

[moonpool-system]

Got our beautiful limited edition DID bunny in!! The description said all the mental health bunnies are designed by people with the diagnosis portrayed and we can really tell 💙💙 From the plural rings on display to the different bunnies sewn into the ears... We're absolutely in love, just wanted to share how happy we are to finally have something explicitly plural like this 🥺 Even the tote bag it comes with is a delight. We feel so seen

#plural #pluralgang #plural community #DID pride #DID positivity #plushies #mental health #bunny #prism subsystem

[thebeesbox]

Day 35 of Pride Flags Drawn as Foxes: DID flag

#theres many flags but this is the one Ive seen used most often #art #digital art #artist #digital arwork #digital painting #artists on tumblr #painting #fox art #did #dissociative identity disorder #did pride #did awareness #disabilties #disabled artist #disability pride #disability #disabled #actually disabled

[paw-pride]

DID/OSDD paw!

#🦴: paws #did osdd #did #osdd #system pride #osdd system #did system #did pride #osdd pride #pride emojis #pride badges #pride pixels #pride emoji #custom emoji #discord emoji #emojis #emoji

[unknownmothergoose]

[image IDs: the right is a 6 stripe flag. The stripes are dark purple, medium purple, light purple, pink, peach then orange.

the left is a 6 stripe flag with the meanings for each flag written on them. The dark purple stripe says "dissociative experiences." The medium purple stripe says "unity, working together." The light purple stripe says "kindness for ones self and others." The pink stripe says "protecting ones system." The peach stripe says "making healthy compromises." The orange stripe says "functional multiplicity." END ID]

Complex Dissociative Disorder Pride Flag AKA: Twilight system flag, Twilight CDD flag

this is a pride flag meant to combine the orange from Entropy System's flag with other colours which have nicer meanings. i've named it the twilight flag :) it is free to use by anyone with a Complex Dissociative Disorder that also identifies as a system or multiple, but is not meant to replace Entropy's flag or any other CDD flag please credit me if using! i do not allow reposts to any archives, pinterest boards, or wikias

#actually did #dissociative identity disorder #other specified dissociative disorder #unspecified dissociative disorder #DID flag #DID pride #system pride #.goose coin

[pridory]

DIDFLUXIC: a gender that fluctuates because of DID

requested by anon, coined by me. please link back to this post whenever possible. term is for DID systems only, but other systems may interact.

#mine #gender coining #did #system #disassociative identity disorder #pride flag #flag creation #did pride #DID flag #DIDfluxic #flag coining

[nighty-night-collective]

Here are some coined terms by me for system roles!!!

• Sibling sympathizer: within this role an alter may feel they need to indulge in the feeling of being a people pleaser towards their sibling(s). Even if said sibling(s) are or were your abuser at some point.

• parent sympathizer: look at the role above but replace it with either a mother or father figure in your life.

• pacifier: this role is a mix of both protector and caregiver role. This roles actions includes settling down another alter and then afterwards they then will sooth said alter. This alter can both protect by solving or settling out or inside disputes and then will sooth and care for If needed.

• piloter: this alter tends to have a neutral role and will tend to front when no one else is available too. This alter can continue tasks without a problem but some but not all of these alters usually have a monotone voice or tend to be neutral in emotions or feelings, making them come off as if they are uninterested or lazy but in reality they are just trying to get stuff done or keep the body going.

• Bouncer: this alter tends to take on multiple qualities of already existing roles such as socializer and physical and emotional protector. This role will usually take on a defensive role while also being fun and socializing. This alter role keeps their guard up usually around social gatherings such as parties, family get-togethers, holiday plans, and any event that usually has alot of family and friends visiting.

DISCLAIMER !!!! I do not claim to 'own' these terms and they can literally be used by anyone i really dont mind. Feel free to use these terms as you wish because they are for all plurals :D !!!

#i do not claim to own these roles whatsoever this is just me rambling about stuff basically #did #did system #dissociative identity disorder #dissociative system #mental disorder #mental health #disorder #actually did #actually osdd #osdd #osdd1 #osdd 1b #osdd system #osdd things #did pride #system pride #system #alters #alter #otherwise specified dissociative disorder #mental illness #mental heath awareness

[mlm-blues]

“lmao imagine liking men” OK!!! ON IT BOSS 🫡🫡🫡 it’s beautiful here

#i’m doing my part! #i love men. so fucking much #mlm #nblm #achillean #gay #gay pride #gay yearning #gay mlm #mlm concept #mlm thoughts #mlm yearning #mlm love #why did this get so many notes. ok!!!! hi

[futurebird]

The "B" is *not* for "buses"

Via mastodon(aka the fediverse)

#everyone welcome #lgbtq #gay jokes #buses #pride month #rainbow flag #lgbtq pride #not you #what did buses do? #I love public transportation

[tma-thoughts]

#did it myself #pride month #jedtavius #pride 2023 #gay #og photo isnt mine

[kandavers]

Ace Alastor Week 2024 on Twitter - Day 2 (No Touch Tuesday)

#hazbin hotel #radioapple #hazbin hotel alastor #hazbin hotel lucifer #duckiedeer #lucifer #alastor #acealastorweek2024 #art #ace pride #kandaversart #comicdavers #i did it guys i used less tags

[b0tster]

BUNLITH PRIDE

#bunlith #goth #trans #lesbian #lgbt #pride #did one of those 'what vibe do i give off' polls on twitter lmao

[andthebeanstalk]

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need. #the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist. #the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28! #a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents. #they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong. #and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives. #you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead? #or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of. #no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow. #i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong. #just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

[buttersteps]

ayo edebiri: the movie reviewer we deserve

and her dad also has an account

#why did i only find this out via twitter what have i been doing with my life i could have spent the pandemic going through her letterboxd #she is so funny #but some of her takes are also incisive and poignant #what a great read #ayo edebiri #the bear fx #inception #pride and prejudice #etc #films #film review #jeremy allen white #movies

[madpunks]

it's okay if you get confused easily. it's okay if you forget things easily. it's okay if you lose track during conversation easily. it's okay if you have to ask for clarification often. it's okay if you struggle to parse information or sensory unit. you're not "playing dumb" or "doing it on purpose". it's okay to be disabled, some people just refuse to be accommodating.

#mad pride #madpunk #mad punk #schizophrenia #mentally chill #mentally ill #mental illness #mental health #adhd #did #ocd #ptsd #autism #brain fog #neurodivergent #mental heath awareness

[armorabs]

In 2018 I made an edit of the Krusty Krab, where the the maritime flags were replaced with pride flags. And not a single person has been normal about it ever since. Here’s a 2022 remaster, happy pride.

#spongebob squarepants #spongeblog shitpost #YEAH PRIDE BABY #yes i did replace the pan flag with the aro flag. i WANTED to keep the pan flag but...