this is your reminder that self care is a process of solitude. it isn’t comfortable nor easy, but it’s life-saver for sure.
you’re the only person who cannot abandon yourself.
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Oh Allah, grant me something more beautiful than I wished for, more than I expected, and better than what I prayed for.
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I found peace when:
I began to trust myself
I accepted the things that I can't change
I realized that not every relationship had to last
I no longer let people dictate how I felt about myself
I started to appreciate the things I had
I accepted my own imperfections
I began to be honest about how I felt
I learned to set boundaries
I started to show up authenticity
I stopped committing to more than I had time for
I stopped trying to "save" or "fix" people
I stopped trying to prove my worth
I stopped explaining myself to people who didn't want to understand me
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ʀᴇᴍɪɴᴅᴇʀꜱ ꜰᴏʀ ᴡʀɪᴛᴇʀꜱ <3
it's okay to stray from your story. go write that short fic you can't take your mind off of! give you—and your characters—a break.
you! won't! always! make! your! word! count! -- you don't need to keep stretching sentences because the scene you finally got right is a hundred words too short. sometimes it's better that way.
the "rules" and "tips" are just ~guidelines~ (especially for people who like to swear by them) -- writing has no laws. especially first drafts. scrap the grammar, scrap the emotional tips, write it because it feels right, not because someone else says so.
every writer procrastinates. it's not easy being a writer.
take time off for yourself. the only thing harder than writing a story is to keep pushing it when you need a break the most. come back to it later. I promise there will be no dumpster fires when you're gone.
all writing is "real" writing. I don't think there's an explanation here?? fiction writers are writers. nonfiction writers are writers. fanfic writers are writers. (like how all reading is real reading!! in every format, too!)
it doesn't need to be perfect. honestly, it might never be. but it can be really close to it. if you're not satisfied with it, move on and come back when you're ready.
you are just as skilled as any bestselling author. remember that everything you read has been heavily edited by teams of people! their first draft could not even be as good as yours is now.
not using clichés is cliché. you will find one in any story. no one can bring you down for liking a certain trope. just because it's common doesn't mean it's bad!
no writer is fully well-rounded. dialogue will be easier to write for some, and description for others.
and, finally, no one knows what they're doing. trust me. we're all stumbling around blind here.
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and if today was rough for you, i am proud of you.
and if you suffered today silently, i am proud of you.
and if you struggled with eating but you still ate, i am proud of you.
and if you were not happy for your body but you let it exist in the peace, i am proud of you.
whatever happened today good or bad, whatever you felt today - i am still very much proud of you, please keep going my friend, i love you.
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