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silent-somebody · 11 months
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On the topic of pedophilia.
As a young adult who grew up with YouTube and Tumblrs favorite rock bands, a lot of entertainers of my day are facing child exploitation accusations or have even been charged with their cimes: Cryaotic, Boyinaband, Shane Dawson, Pierce the Viel, All Time Low, Blood On The Dancefloor...
And I'm tired of every article or post that I read talking about the next 30 year old "pedophile" coming from the God awful world of entertainment.
I would like to get it out there that these crimes are not against pre-pubescent children. That is not to diminish the accusation or even defend it. Child predators should be prosecuted. Everyone is so quick to slap the label of pedophile onto any individual preying on minors. It's because it's the heinous, hotbutton word to scare and enrage parents.
There are three kinds of child predators: pedophiles, hebephile, and ephebophiles.
Pedophiles target pre-pubescent children. That's a age range of 0-10.
Hebephiles target pubescent children. That's a age range of 11-14.
Ephebophiles target pubescent children. That's a age range of 15-19.
And I know so many people out there do not care about the distinction. A child as it is defined under your law is a child. "Who gives a flying fuck if this creep seduced a 14 year old or a 17 year old? It's all a slippery slope."
Well, by misidentifiying the targets of these crimes you're spreading fake information. You make it harder for people to actually protect minors.
And this goes beyond entertainers with a shred of stardom. You know that child predator website that tells you where all the predators in your community live?
Can you understand how much of a difference it makes to know your 3 year old child isn't going to be the target of the ephebophile four blocks away? Parents generally feel more secure after talking to child predators about the crimes, the nature of them and how long ago it occurred.
Maybe I'm desensitized to the whole thing since I was a target of a hebephiles and sexted as a teenager, but I truly believe that these distinctions make a difference.
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stinkymothtattoo · 1 year
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Insane how these two took the entire internet by storm, like I cannot describe the chokehold !
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steepedwonders · 17 days
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If he cringed at his past self in the twitch era, imagine how he feels about the desandnate style youtube era when he did nickandnoah lol!
nickandnoah? I don't even know what desandnate is. 😅 I'm a terrible fan. LOL.
I tried finding the nickandnoah on YouTube, but couldn't find anything. I assume those were included in the deletion of his YouTube account?
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alsjeblieft-zeg · 4 months
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519 of 2023
Your name starts with an M. You’re a girl. You have green eyes. You have blonde hair. You’re really pale You love music. Music helps you concentrate. You like screamo. One of your favorite bands is Blood On The Dancefloor. You hate country. You have self harmed. You have thrown up from crying so much. You’ve been to the hospital 4+ times. You were born in California. You have moved before. You have a best friend. Your taken. You’re in high school. Your favorite color is purple. You love Chinese food. You have an older brother. You have a half sister. Your parents are still together. You hate where you live. You’re not that popular You hate when people label themselves. (well, not hate; I just find labels unnecessary to myself) You’re listening to music right now. You have heard of the band “The Medic Droid” You kind of like Techno. You’re an extremely picky eater. You think gay marriage should be legal. You love Desandnate. Your favorite song changes more than 3 times a week. You are a little bipolar. You get angry easily. There is alot of things you don’t like about yourself. You can sometimes be jealous. You want a gay best friend. You have had beer before and thought it tasted gross. You’ve never smoked. You can’t drive. You live in a small boring town. You love rollercoaster. You play/played an instument. You would rather hang out with guys rather than girls. You hate drama.
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venomous-spade · 9 months
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I had a dream that I was staying with a friend for some reason, and Anthony Padilla was also staying with my friend, and even though in my dream I was married he wouldn't stop trying to get me to date him. Wouldn't stop flirting with me, kept confessing his love, and he actually stole money from me at one point over a pizza and he was just like "sorry, my bad."
At one point in the dream he was straight up like "will you move in with me?"
And I was like.. Anthony Padilla what the fuck.
I love my husband
I can't really just move in with a random dude that wants to date me when I'm literally married, the fuck is wrong with you.
And because I said no, he pouted and tried to make me feel bad about loving my husband by being passive aggressive and weird.
And then I woke up next to my fiancé and I was extremely relieved.
And fun fact, back in the day I was an Ian stan, Anthony Padilla just reminded me too much of Destery and I always thought Des from DesAndNate had a really weirdly shaped face and mouth. I have no idea why I'm having dreams about Anthony Padilla at all, but in my dream he was pretty much just bothering me the entire time and maybe that says something about what my subconscious thinks about Anthony idk.
In my dream he was a womanizing thief, and I have no idea why.
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totessstxrbb · 1 year
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ogs remember desandnate 🥺😭💕🫶🏼🫶🏼✨
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imagineseverywhere · 7 years
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imagine Destery always laughing at your jokes.
(Requested by: Anonymous)
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linknealismydad · 7 years
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You know what i've realized?
That almost everyone I regularly watch on youtube are a duo. (and these are just a few, so feel free to add to this.) :D
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Lazy Thursday watching Destery
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I have an addiction, and these wonderful people are responsible 😍 In all seriousness, these past 2 years of my life have been hell. But these amazing smiles have helped me through the worst times of my life, and for that I’m extremely grateful. ❤ (Side note: I’m not the only 23 yr old who watches these guys religiously…. Right??)
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bomberonion · 7 years
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Seriously, don’t play with photobooth DOWNLOAD LINK
For my fellow Desandnate fans out there, you guys may have noticed that their SERIOUSLY DONT PLAY WITH PHOTOBOOTH video was muted because of copyright restrictions on a song they used, which really sucks because it’s one of my favorite videos of theirs.
So In my desperation to see it again, I scoured the internet, trying to find it re-uploaded anywhere, but I couldn’t find it.
Until, I found this kinda shady site that was in Indonesian, but SOMEONE RE-UPLOADED IT JUST A FEW DAYS AGO :D
Here is the link, and you can even download the video if you want!
I have to warn you, the website I found this on was just a liiiittle bit shady, but I downloaded it myself on my macbook and it works just fine, I don’t know if it’s safe for windows users thou.
I didn’t reupload it, the person’s user is FUCK KPOP. The site doesn’t seem to have any profile pages or anything, otherwise I would link you directly to their profile.
While I disagree with your taste in music, I owe you a great debt, FUCK KPOP, you have given me a reason to live. ;w;
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vampiregerard · 5 years
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do you guys ever have one thing that you and your friends quote all of the time? like when my friends and I were in elementary/middle school, I showed them desandnate youtube videos and now and forever that will always be our inside joke, we can quote all of those videos to each other. sometimes I wonder what “the thing” like that is in other friend groups so feel free to share lol
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alsjeblieft-zeg · 1 year
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124 of 2023
Created by rose897
Your name starts with an M. You're a girl. You have green eyes. You have blonde hair. You're really pale You love music. Music helps you concentrate. You like screamo. One of your favorite bands is Blood On The Dancefloor. You hate country. You have self harmed. You have thrown up from crying so much. You've been to the hospital 4+ times. You were born in California. You have moved before. You have a best friend. Your taken. You're in high school. Your favorite color is purple. You love Chinese food. You have an older brother. You have a half sister. Your parents are still together. You hate where you live. You're not that popular You hate when people label themselves. You're listening to music right now. You have heard of the band "The Medic Droid" You kind of like Techno. You're an extremely picky eater. You think gay marriage should be legal. You love Desandnate. Your favorite song changes more than 3 times a week. You are a little bipolar. You get angry easily. There is alot of things you don't like about yourself. You can sometimes be jealous. You want a gay best friend. You have had beer before and thought it tasted gross. You've never smoked. You can't drive. You live in a small boring town. You love rollercoaster. You play/played an instument. You would rather hang out with guys rather than girls. You hate drama. You don't like Justin Bieber. You love Christofer Drew Ingle. You want to have 2 kids. You want to be a little kid. When you were a little kid you wanted to be a grown up. You cry alot. You like blood. You're addicted to food. You're an unhealthy person. You have a small bladder. You love the beach. You're scared of rejection. You like when guys flip the hair out of their eyes. You love when guys smell good. You sing in the shower. You have a dog. You always wear bracelets. (no but I bought one) You can make any sentence sound dirty. You're really crazy around your friends. You hate being alone. You have to pee. You hate when guys get pee on the toilet seat. You love showers. You usually always wear makeup. You use alot of heat on your hair. You would never get a fake tan. You love to cuddle. You watch Adventure Time. You've been suicidal. You don't like the radio. You're different than most people. There is a song that always makes you cry. There is a song that always makes you think of someone. You've been called a whore/slut/tease more than 20 times. You've sexted You have regrets. People say you're pretty, but you don't think so. You love wittyprofiles.com You need to shave your legs. You take alot of pictures. It takes you 50 tries just to get a good picture of yourself. Your best feature is your eyes. You hate your nose. You want to get your belly button peirced. You want a tattoo. You've lost alot of friends, but you think it's for the better. You love texting. You have had your heart broken. You have cried over a guy. You love when guys have blue eyes. You've been used. You've been backstabbed by a friend. You became really close to your best friend this year. You like BrokeNCYDE. You say 'haha' alot. You hate when people say 'K.' You sometimes question who your true friends are. You've been depressed. You've been to a counselor. Your favorite store is Hot Topic. You miss someone. You still keep in touch with the first friend you've ever had. You live 5 minutes away from your best friends house. You consider your best friend a sister. You have alot of guy friends. You've fallen for one of your guy friends. (yay he’s my husband now! :D) People call you short. You've donated to a charity. You've been part of the Girl Scouts. You can put both of your legs behind your head. You've liked someone so much that it hurt. You're afraid of the dark. You like scary movies. You've been dresscoded.
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sapphcon-ic · 3 years
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Every few weeks i think of hailedabear aka ledamonsterbunny
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winwxn · 3 years
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tw: sexual assault of minor(s), manipulation, cheating
another day another disappointment. goddammit. if you didn’t hear, capndesdes/Destery (a youtuber) has had multiple people come out saying he was very manipulative towards them, cheated on partners with MINORS, and took his friends’ money from their shared account (desandnate). i really enjoyed watching destery and have watched him for 7-8 years consistently (which doesn’t happen for me that often due to content changes and other things). i have a signed poster up on my wall at home and everything. it’s really disappointing to hear and i hope everyone who feels comfortable sharing, is able to get their voice out there and trusted. no one should be able to attack people this way and for this long.
if you want more information, just search destery or capndesdes on tumblr search, @gackpo-against-groomers has posted many twitter threads from destery’s old friends and victims, see youtube videos (The Hot Box and ready to glare).
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stinky-and-the-pain · 3 years
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& then there was one
my parents finished renovating our house my freshman year of high school. i was 14 and finally had my own room...a place i didn’t have to share with my 11 year old brother or my 3 year old sister. i painted it green & a couple of months later painted a tree on one wall and filled the branches with lord of the rings quotes. it was my sanctuary. 
my grandma gifted me my first laptop around the same time. she won it in a company sweepstakes and gave it to me because she had one already. it was the coolest thing. we had a family computer in the office (nee playroom) that i had played both sims 2 and 3 on. but now i could take the sims to my room! 
amongst other things. 
i played skyrim religiously after my brother got bored of the xbox, as he was also gifted a playstation 4 along with GTA V. i also adored several creators on youtube, at that time a bastion of comedic skits and random tangential clips lasting no more than 6 minutes or so. i felt deeply invested in the community -- not so much with fellow audience members but with the youtubers themselves; as if these videos were a two-way conversation. shane dawson led to desandnate led to smosh led to kalel cullen led tobuscus led to pewdiepie led to cryaotic, etc., etc. they were great! 
forget the boy bands of the 90s and early 2000s....which youtuber did you want to date? SMASH + fuck, marry, kill in the back of the chilly and damp bus driving home from a scholastic bowl meet. my heart ached for these people. they appealed so deeply to me and i fell madly in love with them all. and i wasn’t alone; we all fell in love. 
i’m not sure how i found out about omegle. at a slumber party or birthday, someone pulled out their laptop & we could see and chat with strangers. live. no supervision. we were...14? 15? had to be 14 because i succinctly remember laughing a while later when i told a grown man i wasn’t 18 but actually 14 after he had finished for me. all while sitting in my new green bedroom. 
for the longest damn time i thought i had an extremely average adolescence. i was lauded as independent and mature, and took pride in that. maturity meant i was better but also inherently prepared for what life was throwing at me. plus independence meant that i could effectively do whatever i pleased. and to that extent, i never attended a party (though i did sneak over to a boy’s house when i said i was going to a friends’ but that was later figured out and actually excused) but i pursued other exploits. 
another piece of the puzzle is that youtube around 2010 appealed to people exactly my age. and was simultaneously extremely sexual. the mass cancellation of shane dawson is ultimately rooted in his behavior around this time. and this behavior was broadcast to us, 12-14 years old, which signaled to us what could be deemed appropriate. queue me believing that men around the ages of 19-25 could find me, a barely there 14 year old, attractive. and boy did i run with that. 
i spent immeasurable time on omegle. it was thrilling, especially when men’s faces would light up as my video appeared. “finally, a real person and not just a dick!” i remember one, zach herzog (sp?). he was so kind, introducing me to imgur which rounded out my early internet diet. he had a girlfriend but at one point admitted to me that she was not as pretty as i was. we would message on kik for hours. he graduated college a year after we met (my junior year of high school). jake was around that time too. but honestly jake was special in that we met through omegle chat (no video). and we actually chatted for about 3 years, at one time making sure to watch the weekly game of thrones episode (freshly downloaded off pirate bay) together and discussing what went down afterwards. after we skyped with video on, we slowly stopped communicating. 
another, stephen i believe. he was from the UK and i only remember that because of his accent and that i had him say my (fake) name multiple times. i never once used my real name nor talked aloud to these men. always text. but does that matter? over skype, he would send videos of himself jacking off...which would have been pleasant save for the fact he liked smacking his penis near the end and i couldn’t take that seriously. 
the first man i reciprocated for -- that is, i obliged requests to show parts of my body -- was sam. i don’t remember anything too striking about him save he did his business to me while we were still on omegle (only strange because the fashion then was to move to somewhere more ‘private’ and stable like kik or skype) and then promptly ghosted me. somewhere in my hs junior year planner, there are notes to sam asking him if he would ever come back. 
then senior year. so stressed with college applications (i applied to one school) i spent most of my time in my bedroom alone, indulging in a healthy diet of top gear and youtube, by this point dominated by cryaotic and pewdiepie. but i always had time for my dear favorite, capndesdes (of desandnate fame who later made his own solo channel where he published several q&a’s and apartment vlogs). october 2013 and i was wearing his blue ‘crescent moon face’ shirt (referencing the photo booth video). i met Anthony, Mike, and David on omegle. i immediately picked out Anthony and sure enough he was interested. him being in a group, i knew we wouldn’t be doing anything that night but the video chat was fun. the connection even died at one point but we got back in contact as i had shared my twitter (and my real name, though for months he believed my fake name was my middle name because i felt bad telling the truth). i guess i should’ve known this time was different when he insisted on skying the next morning before i went to work. i felt embarrassed for how i looked but he said i looked beautiful. and was so earnest i had to believe him. 
we skyped everyday. every day. essentially right as i got home from school because that’s conveniently when he got off work. oh and i eventually had to admit that my microphone was not in fact broken. we played minecraft and gta on the xbox. he said he planned to visit me one day. but that’s absurd, right? i would laugh and say ‘you’re too much.’
he visited november 9 2013. drove all the way up. i was at my friend’s birthday party. we had just woken up and he revealed he was in our town. i gave him directions to the park so we could meet. i remember running to him from my car, friends sitting in the back seat. we walked about two miles around the park, chatting. he was even more beautiful in person. the sight of the freckles on his nose are still so vivid. even after all these years remembering, my naiveté still strikes me. a day later, he asked me to be my girlfriend as we walked to his car after dinner. i said yes, that i would do him the honor of making him the happiest man on earth. a day later, he took (but i also gave) away my virginity. he met my friends and then we said goodbye on a rainy and cold afternoon. i still sometimes smell the sweet mustiness of that room. 
a handful of memories that are still striking after 7 years:
washing the strawberry lube off myself in my parent’s bathroom, praying they did not ask why i had spent the last 5 afternoons and evenings staying so late at a friend’s house; forcing myself to connect to Lorde’s music after he said he enjoyed her first album; saying that thin mints were my favorite after he admitted to buying too many; taking my adventure time backpack to the hotel room and filling out my cheatsheet for my physics test the next day while he watched and eventually rolled me over to kiss me; feeling too insecure to lead him around town so instead opted to stay silent as he chose what to have for dinner; eating at my favorite local mexican restaurant after losing my virginity; showing my friends the pictures we had taken in the hotel room and them losing their minds. 
after he left, i was devastated. and essentially remained devastated for the next 7 months. i cried the morning after he left, while driving to work and listening to ribs. 
there’ll be more, when i have strength. 
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