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mrd-gvf · 4 years

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So about that E chick situation

Okay I’m going to try and see if this works. It’s a pretty link heavy post, so fingers crossed this works, and I should say I came across *all* the drama when it was over ( or “Over”):

So apparently Sebastian was dating a woman called Ellie (Elouise Ross- a model who mostly does catalogue work I think? she and Sebastian have a few mutual friends in common- I think she the friend of his friends wife) early in 2018, some on tumblr think he was dating her since March but what we do know that they were first sighted on a date sometime in July- July 29th (somewhat complete timeline here: https://free-seb.tumblr.com/post/179147920217/does-anybody-have-those-photosvideos-of-the there’s some more information/speculation here: https://sebstangossip.tumblr.com/post/178918915969/can-you-list-all-the-information-or-timeline ) People went batshit and started whining because it looked like Sebby was off the market. (Her thirsty antics didn’t help either but c'mon if you were dating Seb wouldn’t you want the world to know?) Around late November of that year, screenshots started circulating indicating that Ellie who, you know would have had to be 28/ 29 at the time used the phrase “N*gga please”. (Also playfully told someone to kill themselves for taking a bad picture. ) At the time the screen caps first came out (Nov 25th?) the fandom widely assumed that they had been faked but then Seb took her to the Brazil con which would sync up with DM’s she had, and people started to believe that the screencaps were real. The Screen Caps in question: https://sebstangossip.tumblr.com/post/181224766160/a-break-down https://thessopinions.tumblr.com/post/180893459282/lol-she-admitted-it-sebastian-you-are-so (Yeah that statement is….. weird) Not only that but people found screencaps of Ellie’s friends and family being uh….not so great: https://sebstangossip.tumblr.com/post/181020784100/do-we-have-picks-of-ellies-family-calling-people Anyway. Seb and Ellie left Brazil separately, and I think the fandom assumed they had broken up. Until Ellie made her Instagram private in early February. That was fine until there seemed to be some fuckery around May 29th of this year, which happens to be Ellie’s birthday where some people think that She and Sebastian went on a couples trip to celebrate her 30th birthday (sorry don’t have links) to T&C, but then some people were mysteriously cut out of photos on their friends Instagram pages, with speculation that it was Sebastian and Ellie, not wanting to be pictured, since fans would go after her again. (and him, with the implicit accusation that because he was standing by someone who has used racial slurs and has friends who have used other slur, he’s therefore not that great of a person) He’s mentioned social media, and the impact it has on his personal life several times at cons now and also talked to someone about bullying on social media at a Ronald McDonald event I think? So it’s clearly been weighing on his mind for some time now. (Just to be clear I’m not saying Seb is trashy, or right-wing. It’s unfortunate that so many of the people in his circle seem to be problematic, but I think it’s a stretch to claim that he shares their views. I mean I still stan Chris Evans and he still considers RDJ- with all the messy shit he’s said and done- and Scar Jo friends. Relationships are messy and humans are complicated and it’s harder than people think to cut off ties with people especially when feelings are involved) That’s basically all I could find on the subject

Hope that helps

Submitted by @gildinwenthekittenblog

Thanks for this. I will never understand why anyone would go through this much trouble just hate on a person for dating someone they have less than zero chance with. It’s so ugly. Like how can you call yourself a fan and bully the people in your fave’s life? Just mind your business. I’ve seen this with quite a few celebrities and it got so bad to the point where they had to say something. Even Seb had to call out fans for hating on his friends and family. It’s just ridiculous. These people shouldn’t be allowed on the internet if they’re going act like 5 year olds.

Nobody is perfect but that doesn’t mean we have to immediately cut ties with everyone in order to be considered unproblematic. Life does not work this way. If we start hating on people just by association then we’re all going be lonely bitter people.

#submission

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