#Exclusionists tw

[seraphic-sapphic-safehaven]

Me: *looking through aspec-related tags to get posts for Ace Week* Hmm... is ace/aro exclusion still a big thing on this hellsite? Are we still doing TheDiscourse™? Or have you all stopped being absolutely duck tits bonkers and grown up and realized how fucking ridiculous and horrible you were being to aspecs??

Me: *sees there's an 'exclusionist positivity tag'* Oh no....

Yo, you jokin', right...??

Yo, you jokin', RIGHT?!?!

HELLO???????

Anyway, I hope this shit is a joke lmao. In other news, Send Help.

#ace #asexual #aro #aromantic #aspec #exclusionists dni #anti exclusionist #fuck exclusionists #anti transmed #anti truscum #aphobia #acephobia #arophobia #exclusionists tw #exclusionists mention #exclusionists cw #ace discourse #aro discourse #discourse #transphobia #enbyphobia #exorsexism #trans discourse #nonbinary discourse #enby discourse

[tub3rculosis]

it is 2024 can we PLEASE stop w these kind of videos now. thanks

#tw homophobia #tw ableism #obviously this is an exaggeration but like. is it? #these videos attract the WEIRDEST combination of like actual right wing “i hate everyone who isn't 'normal' by my definition” ppl #and like. queer and nd people who crave validation from conservatives and want to prove “we're not like THOSE freaks” #the right hates everyone. it doesn't matter if your name is thomas and ur fully transitioned or ur name is ✨️arson✨️ ze/it/pup #if u dont fit their narrow idea of “normal” anything u say is immediately invalid #mental illness #nd #neurodivergent #cringe culture is dead #cringe culture #cringe #tiktok #ableism #queer #queer discourse #transgender #transphobia #anti exclusionist #leftist

[littletissueghosts]

Transmasc Person: "I am a straight guy, since I am a guy who loves women."

Toxic Queer People™: "Ew, straight guys are all predators, since only non-queer people are straight! Anyways, discrimination against straight men isn't real, even when they're a minority."

Transmasc Person: "Okay, I am a lesbian, since even if I'm not a woman, I still have a connection to womanhood."

Toxic Queer People™: "Lesbian is woman-only! If you are in any way a man or not a woman, you are not a lesbian! Transmascs can never be lesbians or have a connection to womanhood/a lack of manhood! Stop invading the lesbian community!"

I dare you to make it make sense.

#transhet #transmasc lesbian #transmasc #trans mlw #trans man #anti radical feminism #anti exclusionist #radinclus #critinclus #transandrophobia #let trans people define their own relation with gendered terms ffs #trans people need to be allowed to define their own relationship with gendered terms #even if it means that they may be using the “incorrect” word for their orientation #no I do not advocate for calling trans MLW overall lesbians #but if that is the term a trans man uses to describe himself he should not be forbidden from using it #it's 2023 #we need to stop with the “men sneaking into the LGBTQ+ community” radfem rhetoric #q word #tw discourse

[esf-art-and-design]

You wanna know something crazy?

I work for a LGBTQ+/Queer non-profit, I’ve had to sit in on training seminars on how to best support our community, how to create a space that is actually safe for everyone in the community, etc.

You wanna know the one thing that was emphasized by these professionals running these seminars (who are also a part of the community btw)

Telling queer people what their labels for their identity ought to be is extremely harmful.

Gatekeeping the community from other people who are figuring themselves out because of labels is harmful?! Shocker I know, but yes it is.

You know what this means right? It means that:

You don’t get to tell a guy experimenting with queer sex that he’s gay/bi/queer/etc if he ID’s as straight

You don’t get to tell a woman experimenting with queer sex that she’s lesbian/bi/queer/etc. if she ID’s as straight

You don’t get to tell aces who are hetero sexual/Romantic that they don’t belong in queer spaces

You don’t get to blame bi lesbians/m-spec women for creepy cishet men entering wlw spaces to hit on women (in an entitled way) (that’s called misogyny babes)

You don’t get to tell someone they are unlovable/not deserving of a relationship/etc. because of the label they use

You don’t get to tell people that actions invalidate their labels because “actions speak louder than words”

You don’t get to demand to know what labels someone uses because of their actions. (Or you don’t force someone to out themselves)

You don’t apply labels to someone from pure speculation (you could be outing someone and putting them in danger)

You don’t get to tell people their labels are “contradictory” or “don’t make sense” and demand they choose one label over the other

Other Labels cannot harm your own identity, and if you act like it can your wrong and harming the community

And ultimately, It means that according to actual professionals within the lgbtq non-profit space, the exclusionists in the community are wrong and are doing immeasurable harm.

Basically what I’m saying is that everyone is welcome here on my blog, policing identity is harmful, and yes, the exclusionists that told you that your identity is invalid or made fun of you for your identity we’re so fucking wrong.

Everyone who experiences sexual orientation, attraction, gender identity, and gender expression differently belongs within our community.

Gatekeeping only keeps people deserving of services away from the spaces where they can get those services. It keeps them away from peer support. And that’s not good, especially if you know the statistics for self harm and suicide within the community.

#tw suicide mention #tw self harm mention #bi lesbian #inclusive lesbian #he/him lesbians #gaysbian #ace #asexual #aromantic #aroace #aroallo #anti exclusionist #exclusionists dni #sapphic #bi lesbian positivity #aroace positivity #asexual positivity #aromantic positivity

[sirenium]

'Safequeer' mfers when people are queer in a way they don't like:

[GIF ID: a toy decor skeleton getting absolutely eviscerated in a blue shredder with silver blades. Said skeleton looks like it's thrashing and flailing about as it slowly gets consumed. End ID]

#tw discourse #how are you going to claim you're anti exclusionist but two lines later be like 'l*sb*ys are icky!' fuckin loser💀 #like that's blatant exclusionism in your 'anti exclusion' space hon idk what else to tell ya #the absolute lack of self awareness makes me feel like I'm seconds closer to an aneurysm every time I'm subjected to anti mspec les etc shi #oh yeah also 'safequeers' are against nontraumagenic systems so it's the whole nine yards of bs with them huh💀 #use hazardqueer instead cuz that label is truly anti exclusionism #queer #lgbtq #lgbt #mogai #liom #hazardqueer #mspec lesbian safe #lesboy safe #endo system safe #endo safe #friendly reminder that all system origins are valid btw. not just endo and trauma

[mlp-friendship-isnt-magic]

Exclusionists: Self diagnosis isn’t valid because only a doctor can diagnose a mental disorder. It doesn’t matter what traits you have. Only a doctor can do the complex work of sorting out what traits indicate a disorder.

Also exclusionists: All aplatonics and aplspecs have a personality disorder. All of them. No, I’m not a doctor, but I’m still qualified to say that about them. Personality disorders are just lacking friends and nothing else, right?

#exclusionists are so frustrating #why did i think it would be a good idea to scroll through their tags #for the record i support self diagnosis #and aplatonics that do have disorders #but that’s not all of us #aplatonic #aplspec #anti exclusionist #exclusionist bullshit #tw exclusionism #inclusionist #self diagnosis

[the-irken-pony]

As an aroace trans man who joined tumblr right around the peak of its aphobia phase (2016) it’s surreal seeing people with “aphobes dni” in their bio post the exact same shit about trans men that people were posting about asexuals ~5 years ago and by surreal I mean I hate it here

#it's all the same exclusionist bullshit recycled and yet people still fucking fall for it every time #aphobia tw #transandrophobia tw #transphobia tw #ask to tag #mine #random #not prompted by anything recently but it has been sitting in my head a while

[posting-stuffies]

Original | Exclu comments

Exclus went full circle.

"I'm attracted to one gender" -> "I am bisexual". Lolgic!

#transmultiphobia #multigender issues #mogai discourse #bisexual #bi discourse #tw discourse #tw exclus #exclu takes #exclusionism #tw exclusionist #lgbt discourse #straightbian #straight lesbian #lesbian discourse #lesboy #bisexuality #monosexism #bisexism #bigender #trixic #nblw #feminamoric #vixenamoric #tucute #screenshot #facebook comments #regardless of gender #all genders #lolgic #sjw logic

[queerasf4ck]

People will be like, "I’m not transphobic; I just think that the terms for different sexualities should be so heavily policed that they exclude nonbinary and multigender people or force them into a new binary 🙂

#news flash you are transphobic #and this very much includes the people who are against the terms mspec lesbian and mspec gay #mspec #mspec lesbian #fuck exclusionists #fuck transphobes #transphobia #exorsexism #monosexism #lgbtqia #nonbinary #tw transphobia #tw exorsexism #tw monosexism #lgbtqplus

[bloggingboutburgers]

Since aphobes (or just the one aphobe idk) decided to go ham in my inbox today I didn’t choose peace either

Good thing those peeps are a minority in the community tbh (I think...? I hope...? From what I know...?)

#no one can know i don't like sex #aphobia #acephobia #asexual problems #aromantic problems #exclusionist tw #ace exclusion #real talk i don't like drawing stuff like this i hope i can get back to lighter hehehoohoo stuff that doesn't fingerpoint at anyone soon #just needed things out of my system ig #my art #nonburger

[vacuously-true]

💜🤍💚💜🤍💚💜🤍💚💜🤍💚💜🤍💚💜🤍💚

TERFs get my beloved genderqueer pride flag out of your icons before I biting and ripping and killing you. There is no radfem pride flag, there is no radfem pride, the only things you bring upon yourselves are shame and your denial of it.

💜🤍💚💜🤍💚💜🤍💚💜🤍💚💜🤍💚💜🤍💚

#leemursays #mine #exclusionist tw #queer #genderqueer

[silentfoxproductions]

A WARNING FOR PICREW USERS

There's a picrew called RADCREW and it features stuff like pro- pedophilia, transid, zoophilia, incest, necrophilia, etc..it's very gross and claims being a "critinclus" is being an exclu which it isnt? Anyways just watch out for them. They're gross. Also they're a pro-shipper! Disgusting

#picrew #anti exclusionist #anti map #anti radqueer #real radinclus #inclusionist #inclusionism #inclus #radical inclusion #tw radqueer #tw proship #fuck proshippers #anti ship #tw zoophile mention #tw trace #tw transx #tw transid

[ravagen]

Can anti mspec lesbians not use “colonizing” to describe queer ppl identifying in a way they don’t want

#like dude. #are you seriously comparing colonization. to fucking queer ppl #i swear to god #discourse #mspec lesbian #pro mspec lesbian #whitewashing tw #I Guess cuz it’s appropriating a term #exclusionist tw

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

*post gets deleted* damn, but I bet it'll be posted if I spam it 7 more times!!

#found this person when they were spreading misinformation on intersex-ness and then bitched and moaned after being downvoted #istg I feel like every exclusionist is intersexist #like I've never met an exclusionist that wasn't intersexist #there is a connection between intersexism and exclusionism and you cannot convince me otherwise #tw exclusionism #bi lesbian #mspec lesbian #bi lesbians ily <3 #varioriented #mspec mono #critinclus

[scary-radinclus-anon]

Message to young LGBT+ and Queer exclusionists:

If you really cared about the queer community, you'd eventually understand that the history of our rights hasn't been this long-winded so that you can yell at other young people being openly queer online

You don't like the adjectives they identify with? The pronouns? The nouns? That's a shame, leave them alone and stop assisting the enemy by bullying them online

If you think an identity label that's not known outside of Tumblr is a threat to the queer community, I expect to see you actually fighting back against things in the real world that seriously hurt the community

"The problem with the LGBTQ+ community today" is not labels or pronouns on Tumblr or TikTok or Twitter - it's the fact that we're still facing violence, and a huge amount of the next generation are still stuck hiding from the world by spreading online hate instead of spreading the word

#lgbtq #lgbt #queer #radqueer #radinclus #exclusionist tw #exclusionism #exclus #radexclus #anti harassment #anti xenogender #anti neopronouns #bi lesbian #xenogender #neopronouns #mogai #anti mogai #pro mogai #discourse #lgbtq discourse #queer discourse #mspec lesbian #lesboy #microlabels #neogender

[just-antithings]

Imagine thinking good faith identities are bad BRKFIDKN

#just anti things #submission #dni hall of shame #queerphobia tw #just exclusionist things #queerphobia mention tw