Flan is just so adorable! There's a couple scales of shed still left on her face, but they're so minor they'll come off on their own. She ate a yummy roach and went for a nice big toasty plop in my hand
Day 71: Monday March 11, 2024 - "This was 32 months"
32 months was a memorable one - put a pin in it. It was a stand out mile marker. The one where the tantrums hit, and we soaked it all up with humor and skill. Personally, Id been ready and wondering when it would hit - all that work Ive been doing so hard on myself is work I was doing, I know now, for 32 months. Ready to be mindful intentional skillful. Ready to be free of fear and full of joy. And William provided a lot of joy. I likened it to running the rapids, which once I figured out how, began to sharpen and enjoy the skill of running right to the edge, but preventing the meltdown, in a healthy productive way. And taking every opportunity to practice and show repair. Finally, we're here and we were ready and making a big positive impact on William's future. He developed hard this month, and we loved bearing witness to it! And we were so blessed to have backup most of this month from Grandma, visiting from cold wintery Michigan. Some of the most eventful tantrums she got to witness included meltdowns over not getting his third popsicle or wanting to climb in and out of the car seat on his own. There is also the one where I caught him trying to climb into the freezer to find Ice Cream. In full disclosure - Id probably meltdown if you interrupted my perfect plan too. All perfectly reasonable explorations of the boundaries of his horizon. Totally fine with him testing and challenging. I can hold space for that. I can be his sturdy leadership.
Not only was 32 months the tantrums era, this was also William's Beyonce Era. Not sure who first put Beyonce in his brain - but fairly certain we can blame my Mom for throwing Crazy in Love on Youtube into his little 32 month brain, after sitting on the toilet looking at the A is Awesome book. B was you know who. If he falls hopelessly in love with curvy mocha colored goddess, we'll know perfectly well where it came from. At 32 months you flipped from Elmo and Abby, to Beyonce.
A lot of great weather this month and we spent a lot of time reading springtime books - Mama has been keeping us fully supplied with new seasonal books and as we flip into the 33rd month we're reading a lot of St Pats books. He's been mostly accident free, and fully potty trained and multiple times while we were out at the Donut Shop or the Taco Shop, he'd pop a squat right in the parking lot. Once, at Pacos, to get Flan, he sat feet off Speedway and watched all the cars whiz by, while whizzing in the back of Mama's car. So memorable.
These are fun times. Riding and running the rapids and I just tell myself to be present, keep showing up, and dont miss a thing. Its a wild time, but such an important time to test your skill. I really feel like we're setting a positive foundation for the next several years. I keep pouring it all in, and we'll see where it goes in the 33rd month!
Favorite Food: Donuts
Favorite Song: Beyonce - Crazy In Love
Favorite Book: Twinkle Twinkle Little Star in Daddy's bed
Favorite Toy(s): Monster Trucks bought with his own money paper
Best Phrase/ Word: “No, I Dont Want That!"
Favorite Favorite: Beyonce. No, Real Beyonce
Least Favorite: Sleeping in his own bed.
Big First: First Physical Tantrum, First I'm Sorry, First time buying toys with his own money (Valentines money from Aunt Jane)
Song:Beyonce - Crazy In Love
Quote: “Finding the good inside can often come from asking ourselves one simple question: “What is my most generous interpretation of what just happened?”
― Becky Kennedy, Good Inside
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Do you play Pokemon? What inspires your creatures? Scariest creature that you ever drew?
Firstly, thank you for my first ask!
And yes, I’ve played pokemon, played and watched the first generation in fact, but my inspiration steams from all kind of sources.
Sometimes I just like the appearance of something
other times I just like to goof-off
Sometimes I like to use puns or word plays and turn them into something a little more literal, like, say, a leopard gecko?
I also love to dare myself & be dared to turn something into a creature, this one time someone told me to make one out of flan pudding and another out of vomit.
needless to say... I managed
I like to see If I can convert more abstract concepts, like phrases and such. Ever been caught with your hand in the cookie jar? Know someone with Arthritis?
I do
I just like to consider myself someone with a lot of curiosity and observation skills. The more knowledgeable you are the more tools you possess and the more versatile you can become. I just love learning!
Just observing the little details and learning how things work, how in an inextricable way things are connected.
But not forgetting the little things either, see the bigger picture by seeing the pieces that make it.
Which is why I like researching and apply just about anything.
From the aesthetics of dancing
Feelings and emotions
Simplicity
References such as “Jekyll and Hyde”
Or putting twists in already existing myths and leyends
Or simply going wild
So inspiration may come from anywhere really. Just got to look for it. Sometimes you find it, sometimes you dont, and some poeple have it more than others; life is funny that way.
Some people are WAY more creative than me in some things and viceverse.
Now, the scariest creature I ever drew?
Hmmm. That one is a little up for interpretation. I once played with the concept of a flying spider raptor... the kind that would totally give you a run for your money in a movie and you would be like “FOR REAL?! WHATS WITH THIS THING?!”
I did manage to find a couple of drawings that might fit that category though...
So I’m currently flying home for Christmas (to the land where the geckos play and you can’t understand a word the people say), and, because a backpack full of heavy cameras and a laptop wasn’t enough to drag around, I also threw a 600-page book in my bag: The Name of the Rose by Umberto Eco. I first heard about this book because John said he loves it in this interview, and I have a personal mission to read every single book he’s ever mentioned in an interview. And MAN y’all I LOVE THIS BOOK. John has good taste! Goddddddd I want to talk about books with him so bad, that’s why I’ve asked him about them via other people not once but twice (Flans when he was asking him stuff on Twitter one time and the They Might Be Playing TMBG marathon DJs last year).
Incidentally, this interview is also the source of one of the nerdiest and therefore most amazing things he’s ever said, which is also about books:
“I have the old limited edition Britannica that I found at a used bookstore and I gotta say it is my favorite thing, I feel sort of ridiculous about this but I wish that I could replicate in some other way the pleasure I get from this book you know it's so well written, very different from nowadays so I'm actually, I've seen other copies of the same thing and I'm like "Oh I wish I could buy it again, I liked buying it the first time but I've already got one." There's no point.”
Flan having a small anger over us checking up on her (she's not held hard, but sometimes you just need to immobilise them for a second) also she has some grub pie on her chin, messy
She's dreaming of desk work, or having a big meal sitting at a table, or doing a puzzle, or crocheting a wee hat, or doing her taxes, or that she's on the toilet 😂