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genderqueerdykes · 2 days
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🏳️‍🌈 Severely disabled trans person in need of money for rent, bedding, necessities, & food after recovering from homelessness ♿
hello, i am a multiply disabled autistic trans person who was just homeless for 6 months straight. i am mstruggling with schizophrenia, PTSD, DID, hypermobile ehlers danlos syndrome, and arthritis0. i use a cane and wheelchair. i had to live in a hotel for 2 months almost exactly which ate through my f unds and sal es. i appreciate everything that has been done for me thus far, orders have resumed shipping now that people have aided with us getting a new printer
you can find these new pieces on our Ko-Fi shop, among others, even sharing this post does a lot for us. thank you, i really appreciate all of the support and kindness during this time in my life. you kept a disabled trans person housed for 6 months. we can't thank you enough!
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”oh i don’t know if i’m [thing] or [other thing]!”
TAKE BOTH.
do it.
BE BOTH
“but i can’t do that!”
who said you can’t?
if anyone did, fuck them, and be both.
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apollosimps · 2 days
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they/them pronouns can be used to de-gender people. Queer people need to understand this.
I'll tell you a story to illustrate my point: my parents suck. They're conservative and think that the generational trauma they're inflicting on me is normal. They refuse to listen to my experiences. They've gotten violent before. I've had to flee my house.
Before I was ever outed as a trans guy, my best friend used they/them and identified as non-binary. They still do. I would say they definitely helped me sort my own shit out.
My parents knew about this, and they consistently deadnamed and misgendered them. They pulled out the "they is for multiple people, it's too confusing" card many times. This is one of the reasons I completely shut my feelings and emotions off from them, because obviously, blatant transphobia was not acceptable to me. I defended my friend openly and corrected them every time they would say "she". It got heated, sometimes.
Fast forward to when I was outed. My mom now suddenly insists that he/him is too hard for her to use, and that only NOW she can choose to use they/them for me.
This is de-gendering. I pass more nowadays ever since I started testosterone, but I'll hear a "they" coming from my boss at work even though he knows I'm a trans man, or even people in queer spaces when I have a he/him pronoun pin on me, clearly visible.
It's frustrating because now, my parents being assholes, I think I legitimately might have mild trauma sourced from being called "they" by my parents, who have actively humiliated and abused me ever since I came out.
So, I ask: please do not use they for people who have explicitly outlined otherwise. This should be simple. Apparently, for a lot of people, it's not.
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justdavina · 1 day
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Very,very,very,very,very,very,very.... cute transgender woman!
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mcglouf-blog · 2 days
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I'm feeling hot 💟
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edge-enough-wall · 1 day
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For many years I just went by my assigned at birth gender because that was just how it was done. It wasn't until a friend of mine came out as trans that I started to wonder about my own gender.
I was confused for a long time because I couldn't figure things out in my mind. What makes someone feel like the gender they are? I didn't know. I asked myself, am I a woman? Am I a man? Am I neither, or both, or something completely different? And all I could answer was that I was just me.
I was not uncomfortable in my body, I did not experience dysphoria. But I also knew that if I woke up one day and I had different genitalia or none at all, that I would feel the same way about myself. That I was just me. I didn't think I was agender, I felt just the same about having no gender as I did about being male or female. I wasn't genderfluid, because my feelings never changed, I wasn't female in one moment and then a different gender in another. I was always just me.
I had never felt dysphoria. But one day I experienced something I had never experienced before. It was a simple thing. Out at a restaurant with family. Wearing my usual style of clothes, a t-shirt with a nerdy design, a hoodie, and sweatpants, nothing that screamed any particular gender. The waitress comes to take our orders, and when she gets to me she says "What would you like, sir?" and I turn to look at her, and then she says with some confusion, "Uh... Ma'am?". And a feeling blossomed in my chest that could only be described as giddy euphoria. I quickly gave my order and excused myself to the toilet, so I could process the feeling in private and calm myself down.
I have never felt euphoria quite that powerful since, though there have been a few times when a stranger has asked for my pronouns or chose to use neutral pronouns when addressing me that have made me feel happy. I have since felt dysphoria, only a couple of times, where I've had a family member insist that I should shave because I am a lady. I feel euphoria when I am given the choice to be what I want to be, and dysphoria when someone tries to force me to act in a particular way because of the gender they perceive me to be. And I now know what I am.
I am all genders and none of them. I am non-binary. I am genderqueer. And most importantly, I am me.
thank you for sharing!
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that-bisexual · 2 days
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...uhhhh uh uh huh ummm hahehehemmm uhmmmm...
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menacingpolkamusic · 14 hours
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Feminine in a fag way, masculine in a dyke way
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forcingtumbles · 2 days
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*Other = genderqueer, genderfluid, nonbinary, agender, etc. etc.
Transition = change in name, pronouns, gender presentation, hormones, physical body, etc. etc.
For added context:
I've had trouble figuring out my relationship with gender for years, and some of this stuff is a big part of why. Specifically, I've never felt cis but never wanted to make any of those transition changes, either. So idk if I should say I'm just cis or go by something else, but I've always felt like saying I'm trans is appropriating! Pls help me get some perspective!!
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genderqueerdykes · 58 minutes
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the following words and phrases are magical, ethereal, and family to me: transsexual male, trans male, genderqueer ftm, trans fag, testo butch, tranny boy, ftm butch, tranny dyke, boydyke, bulldyke, boydyke, trans gay & tboy.
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soleminisanction · 5 hours
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I got a bee in my bonnet and spent last night crunching these numbers to confirm a long-held suspicion of mine, and now I'm going to do something with them even if it's only interesting to me. So.
I went through and tallied up all of the fics AO3 currently (as of 3/27/24) has under the tags "Trans Tim Drake," "Nonbinary Tim Drake," "Genderfluid Tim Drake" and "Genderqueer Tim Drake," since I figured that cast a wide enough net without committing myself to reading every fic vaguely tagged Trans Character to figure out which character they were talking about.
I then did the same for Dick, Jason, Damian and Bruce and, after comparing those numbers against each other and against the total number of fics each character has under their general tag, followed up with Duke, Babs, Cass, Steph and Kate, and then Kon, Cassie, and Bart for good measure.
The results confirm the suspicions I was going into check and are really interesting, to me at least:
Despite having far fewer stories overall than Jason, Bruce or Dick, Tim has by far the most stories tagging him under the trans umbrella (653 out of 58,395) and is the only member of the Bats for whom at least one full percent of his stories fall under that category (1.12% to be exact.) He actually has more total trans stories than Jason and Damian combined (308 out of 71,120 and 255 out of 42,607, equaling 0.43% and 0.59%, respectively) and outstretches the 2nd place ranker, Dick, by over a hundred (who clocks in at 438 out of 79,057 -- 0.55%). Bruce amusingly has by far the most stories overall (90,305) but the fewest trans stories (185) for the lowest percentage among the boys (0.2%).
The only one who comes anywhere close to matching Tim percentage-wise is Bart, who has far fewer stories to his name but a ratio of 62 out of 5,717 for 1.08%. I was thinking maybe Young Justice might have a higher percentage than the Bats due to their strong queer fandom but that only really proved true for Bart, with both Cassie and Kon coming in at only 0.2% and 0.28% trans umbrella percentage respectively (actual count 6 out of 2,874 and 39 out of 13,746).
Cassie's numbers correspond with the fact that women just, do not get a lot of these stories, at all, even compared to the general lack of attention they're paid by fanfiction spheres in general. Steph and Kate both clocked in at falling 0.17% under the trans umbrella (29 out of 16,638 for Steph, 5 out of 2,897 for Kate); Cass got 0.13% (21 out of 15,769) and Babs only 0.07%, the lowest percentage out of anyone I calculated for (11 out of 15,785). Duke's showing was a respectable 0.55% (34 out of 6,166) which puts him about even with the rest of the boys.
All of which I just went through to confirm a gut instinct I've had for a while: even in light of the noticeable trend in fandom towards increased visibility for trans and other queer-gendered people over the last decade and a half or so, it's a notable Thing for the DC comics fandom to explore with Tim Drake in specific.
And that doesn't even take into account things like the over 200 "Tim Drake is Catlad | Stray" fics, which almost always have some element of queered gender or at least femme'd sexuality to them, far outstripping any of the other Robin boys' spins in that AU (those counts stand at, respectively: Damian - 11, Dick - 33, Jason - 79, Tim - 242). Or the 11 fics logged under the "Tim Drake is Batgirl" tag, a category that doesn't even exist for any of the other male Robins.
(What makes that last one extra hilarious to me that most people don't know one canonical version of Tim has been a member of the Batgirls.) Part of me wants to use that parenthetic detail as a segway to ramble about the various canon snippets I think probably contributed to this, from Tim being presented as "the pretty one" who most often gets the "looks like his mother" comments to the fact that he is the only male Robin who's ever cross-dressed for an undercover mission and even though it only happened once the Internet will never forget Caroline Hill.
But this post is long enough as it is and I don't really have a point beyond I think this is interesting and cool so I'm going to leave off here for now and put my numbers under a cut so people have the raw data to look at if they'd like to.
TL;DR - Based on the numbers, the internet believes Tim Drake is more likely to be trans than any other member of the Bat-family or Young Justice, and I think that has interesting implications about his character and fandom. It's neat.
Data Taken: 3/27/24
Tim Drake: 58,395 Trans Tim Drake: 513 Nonbinary Tim Drake: 46 Genderfluid Tim Drake: 89 Genderqueer Tim Drake: 5
Dick Grayson: 79,057 Trans Dick Grayson: 399 Nonbinary Dick Grayson: 15 Genderfluid Dick Grayson: 23 Genderqueer Dick Grayson: 1
Jason Todd: 71,120 Trans Jason Todd: 286 Nonbinary Jason Todd: 17 Genderqueer/Genderfluid Jason Todd: 5 (4 have both tags and are the only ones tagged Genderqueer Jason Todd)
Damian Wayne: 42,607 Trans Damian Wayne: 215  Nonbinary Damian Wayne: 37 Genderfluid Damian Wayne: 3 Genderqueer Damian Wayne: 0
Bruce Wayne: 90,305 Trans Bruce Wayne: 180 Nonbinary Bruce Wayne: 5 (2 also tagged Trans Bruce Wayne) Genderfluid Bruce Wayne: 1 Genderqueer Bruce Wayne: 1
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Total Trans Umbrella Tim Drake: 653 Total Trans Umbrella Dick Grayson: 438 Total Trans Umbrella Jason Todd: 308 (313 if you count the GQ tag separately) Total Trans Umbrella Damian Wayne: 255 Total Trans Umbrella Bruce Wayne: 185 (187)
Percentage Trans Umbrella Tim Drake: 1.12% (1.11825) Percentage Trans Umbrella Dick Grayson: 0.55% (0.55403) Percentage Trans Umbrella Jason Todd: 0.43% (0.43307 or 0.44010) Percentage Trans Umbrella Damian Wayne: 0.59% (0.59849) Percentage Trans Umbrella Bruce Wayne: 0.2% (0.20466)
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Duke Thomas: 6,166 Trans Duke Thomas: 20 Nonbinary Duke Thomas: 14 Genderfluid Duke Thomas: 0 Genderqueer Duke Thomas: 0
Barbara Gordon: 15,785 Trans Barbara Gordon: 11 Nonbinary Barbara Gordon: 0 Genderfluid Barbara Gordon: 0 Genderqueer Barbara Gordon: 0
Cassandra Cain: 15,769 Trans Cassandra Cain: 15 Nonbinary Cassandra Cain: 6 Genderfluid Cassandra Cain: 0 Genderqueer Cassandra Cain: 0
Stephanie Brown: 16,638 Trans Stephanie Brown: 27 Nonbinary Stephanie Brown: 2 Genderfluid Stephanie Brown: 0 Genderqueer Stephanie Brown: 0
Kate Kane (DCU): 2,897 Trans Kate Kane: 4 Nonbinary Kate Kane: 0 Genderfluid Kate Kane: 1 Genderqueer Kate Kane: 0
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Total Trans Umbrella Duke Thomas: 34 Total Trans Umbrella Barbara Gordon: 11 Total Trans Umbrella Cassandra Cain: 21 Total Trans Umbrella Stephanie Brown: 29 Total Trans Umbrella Kate Kane: 5
Percentage Trans Umbrella Duke Thomas: 0.55% (0.55141) Percentage Trans Umbrella Barbara Gordon: 0.07% (0.06968) Percentage Trans Umbrella Cassandra Cain: 0.13% (0.13317) Percentage Trans Umbrella Stephanie Brown: 0.17% (0.17429) Percentage Trans Umbrella Kate Kane: 0.17% (0.17259)
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Kon-El | Conner Kent: 13,746 Trans Kon-El | Conner Kent: 19 Nonbinary Kon-El | Conner Kent: 19 Genderfluid Kon-El | Conner Kent: 1 Genderqueer Kon-El | Conner Kent: 0
Bart Allen: 5,717 Trans Bart Allen: 40 Nonbinary Bart Allen: 20 Genderfluid Bart Allen: 1 Genderqueer Bart Allen: 1
Cassie Sandsmark: 2,874 Trans Cassie Sandsmark: 4 Nonbinary Cassie Sandsmark: 2 Genderfluid Cassie Sandsmark: 0 Genderqueer Cassie Sandsmark: 0
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Total Trans Umbrella Kon-El: 39 Total Trans Umbrella Bart Allen: 62 Total Trans Umbrella Cassie Sandsmark: 6
Percentage Trans Umbrella Kon-El: 0.28% (0.28371)  Percentage Trans Umbrella Bart Allen: 1.08% (1.08448) Percentage Trans Umbrella Cassie Sandsmark: 0.2% (0.20876)
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genderoftoday · 2 days
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Today's gender is Apollo's dodgeball of prophecy
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paydawg · 2 days
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r4v3nzcr0ws · 1 day
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genuine question, why do queer people on tiktok hate androgyny so much? i made the horrible mistake of getting slightly involved in label discourse and im currently getting dogpiled in a comment section because i said its okay for trans androgynous people to call themselves lesboys.
have we as a community just collectively decided that its a crime to be genderqueer? what happened to gender being a social construct?? i swear to god tiktok will crucify you if youre a lesbian who isn’t perfectly feminine and fits their exact idea of what a lesbian should look and be like.
i truly don’t understand why people care so much what labels other people use. if a non-binary/genderqueer or trans person calls themself a lesboy then good for them!!! trans/genderqueer people dont owe you convenience and we certainly dont need to be perfectly taxonomically consistent just so we make sense to cis people.
someone replied to my comment and said “boys are boys and girls are girls, hope this helps <3” HELLO??
its like we’ve completely foresaken our queer history just for the sake of making our labels as digestible and consistent as possible. maybe instead of sharpening your pitchforks and crucifying anyone who’s identity you deem invalid you actually talk to them and empathize and understand them and their identity. OR MIND YOUR FUCKING BUISNESS. unless youre dating someone then their sexuality is NONE of your buisness and they dont owe you an explanation.
this is not me trying to insight label discourse because god knows i cant stand it, i just had to rant about this because im just genuinely so flabbergasted by how much people on the internet hate genderqueer-ness
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gnc-culture-is · 1 day
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transmasc genderqueer gnc culture is wondering whether you’re enough of a boy for someone
You’re enough of a boy for /us/.
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