yall got any advice for actually finally making a move on a girl bc i desperately need it
I had to push out SOMETHING today. My depression has been getting a little better since I’ve been on my new medication. I still don’t have very good time management skills yet but I’m trying my best to be active on social media. At the very least it helps me keep working on projects.
Speaking of which…
I’m starting on some commissions soon so there’s that.
I’m considering starting a YouTube channel. I might talk over speedpaints or animations. I’m not totally sure yet… but that’s a ways off. Besides, I have no idea how to do any of that.
I’ve been mostly focused on getting the plot of my comic done. It’s REALLY hard not to lose motivation on something like that, but since I keep giving up on all the big things I try i figure I need to just stick with something even if I start to hate it.
Advice and criticism always welcome.
Someone hide me.
Me learning complex medical concepts for the MRCP: Cool yeah I can do this, just gotta keep studying 😎
Me learning to do basic code in R: *crumples into a crying mess on the floor*
WHY ARE WE HERE JUST TO SUFFER ???
is it normal to sometimes feel content with being and presenting female but sometimes feeling actually disgusted with the same thing?? like im pretty sure that i identify as a girl but rn im just really confused. and im also pretty sure that i dont wanna be a guy. i dont know sometimes i just see myself in the mirror with my hair open and just think ‘ew why do i look like that’ or ‘why do i look so feminine’ when ive identified female my entire life. sometimes i feel the need to be hyper masculine or sometimes even hyper feminine. if someone could help me out that would be appreciated. ill probably figure it out but in the mean time ill be crying in the corner
Tora: When Saga speaks, the point increase! Say something, Saga!
Saga: Dick. Dick. Kyuugumi all are dicks.
Hiroto (the cute clueless youngest baby): *whisper to the camera* Dick.
NO SERIOUSLY 🤣🤣🤣🤣 WE’RE HAVING DICK PARTY OR WHAT??!! SAGA STOP TEACHING BAD THING TO YOUR BABY BROTHER 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Does anyone happen to know how long it takes for a badly pulled/strained muscle to heal?? I am getting pretty panicked because I have a show in about a weeks time that I also need to practice for but I am struggling to walk. I was stretching when I almost tripped on something so my leg went in a very weird position and a really sharp and long pain happened in my upper inner thigh (like right after where the torso and the thigh connect). I struggled to get in bed and I decided to sleep it off, but this morning I woke up and could barely move my leg without intense pain, and walking was almost impossible. Is there anything I can do to fix this and fix it quickly? please help
TAFAKKUR: Part 187
The Solar Eclipse and Its Fine Balance
A heavenly spectacle happening every 6585.32 days, lasting up to 7.5 seconds, can be seen along a track 300 kms wide but cannot be observed with the naked eye
A solar eclipse is a celestial event that takes place when the moon gets in between the earth and the sun. This event has always caught the attention of mankind since the beginning of time and has always been a matter to ponder upon. For example, why can a lunar eclipse be observed everywhere on earth under the night sky yet seeing a solar eclipse is only limited to a corridor 300 km in diameter? A solar eclipse is dependent upon two conditions: First there needs to be an intersection of a lunar orbit with the earth’s orbital plane; second the phase of the moon at the time needs to be a new moon. Because there are 12 months in a year, one would expect 12 solar eclipses, but a 5 degree difference between orbital planes makes this intersection a less frequent event. The diameter of a lunar shadow on earth during a solar eclipse is only 300 km while the shadow of the earth falls on the moon as wide as 12,000 km in diameter.
The sun and the moon, the brightest objects that are most visible to our eyes, are not hanging up there without any purpose. In addition to their many significant effects on our biological, psychological and social conditions, the sun and the moon offer us incredible reasons to be amazed not least during the eclipse when we observe from the earth their complete overlap: a star as big as almost 1.5 million km and a satellite as small as 3,500 km in diameter. The sun and the moon need to be positioned in their orbits with such a precise calculation that this enormous size difference does not get noticed during a solar eclipse by an observer on the ground. This is only possible when both the sun’s and the moon’s distances to the earth are reversely proportioned to their sizes. This fine balance is called “angular diameter” or “visual angle” by scientists. Therefore, in order for a complete solar eclipse to take place, the sun’s and the moon’s angular diameter need to be equal to each other.
If we have to explain this with mathematical expressions:
Lunar diameter / Moon-Earth distance = Solar diameter / Sun-Earth Distance
If we take numbers as below:
Lunar diameter 3,474 km, Moon-Earth distance 376,000 km, solar diameter 1,400,000 km, Sun-Earth Distance 149,000,000 km
Then we get two similar ratios:
3,474 / 376,000 = 0.009239361
1,400,000 / 149,000,000 = 0.009395973
As seen above, the ratio of the two independent and unrelated numbers turns out to be very similar to each other indicating the management of the universe through fine care, calculated fashion and wisdom. The significance of the angular diameter in this solar phenomenon is oftentimes ignored or covered not sufficiently enough in documentaries, books, and journals, whereas it offers a lot for us to ponder deeply over how the entire universe relates to our lives through many apparently irrelevant events. The sun and the moon and their eclipses are substantial reasons for awareness, appreciation and prayer, as highlighted in a Qur’anic verse:
“And the night and the day, and the sun and the moon (all the phenomena and objects you see in the universe) are among His signs (guiding to His absolute Oneness). Do not prostrate in adoration of the sun or the moon, but prostrate in adoration of God, Who has created them, if indeed it is Him that you worship.” (Fussilat 41:37)
A solar eclipse, as do all other things in our material universe, takes place in a world of causations. Yet, it takes place in such mysterious finely tuned measurements that may become a reason for divine testing, and it has been more so in the past for that matter. The Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, gave a warning on this issue for us not to fail this test: “The sun and the moon are two signs of God; they are not eclipsed on account of anyone’s death or on account of anyone’s birth. So when you see them, glorify and supplicate God, observe prayer, give alms.” Thus, it is important to observe the universe and use our intelligence to discover the laws operative in nature and the divine wisdom behind those seemingly supernatural events.
me at my bookshelf of unread books: don’t look at me like that
Okay, long story short? I’ve had a crush on my lesbian best friend for about three years now. And I’ve finally decided to tell her. Of course, there are a few issues with that, such as her being a lesbian whilst I’m an AFAB gnederfluid bean, meaning I;m not too sure if she’d even be interested in me. At all.
But she’s been showing signs that she likes me? So I’m not too sure…
Anyways, I have a date for when I’m going to confess (the 18, our last day at school before the Christmas holiday) but I don’t have a specific plan for how, you know? I kinda wanna do something romantic, but I suck at romance and she isn’t the biggest fan of it, or maybe something cheesy/kinda cringy? Or maybe just go simple and tell her?
My main ideas at the moment are to write her a letter, tell her face-to-face, tell her over text, send her one of those ‘the person who sent you this’ tiktoks that tells her, or do something more creative, like give her one of DIY heart shaped boxes, painted and showing her. But I don’t know!
So. Please help?
Sunan Ibn Majah, The Chapters on Marriage, Hadith 1881
It was narrated from Abu Musa that:
the Messenger of Allah said: “There is no marriage except with a guardian.”
Sunan Ibn Majah, The Chapters on Marriage, Hadith 1881/2015
One really weird and random thing about my ADHD is how much a difference framing makes.
The phrase “I set healthy boundaries” makes me feel panicky, irresponsible, and like I’m being “combative” or “oppositional.”
The phrase “I set healthy limits”? Well, that one
Literally, reframing that makes such a difference and it can be other stuff too.
For reference, my very expensive and supposedly great shrink thinks I’m being difficult when he says something “I don’t like the phrasing of” because “you understand what I mean” - and part of that is a language barrier, he’s *fantastic*, but no, it’s really the ADHD need to turn over a problem, frame it, whittle it down and put it in place.
Point in case:
I have been told not to be a perfectionist for years, I don’t think I am one, but I innately believe that what I interpret to be asked for as to be “Not enough” because gifted children are to exceed expectations if they want to be marked well AND because at the same time, are often told things like “B”s are average and not good enough when they show up on report cards, because no one, in the sight of our parents, ever worked for a “B”, but for ADHDers? Doing the work? Doing the work at all? Is working for the grade, end of story, regardless of what extra someone tells you that you should be doing to “work” for something better. They forget that the base it’s self represents an amount of work you did.
… when my therapist said “anything worth doing is worth doing badly” … that was fucking baller life-changing
Like, I graduated college after ten years on that advice, I finished a grad school certificate on that advice
Depression and anxiety starts when your parents don’t accept that your relatives are abusive and toxic.
I really need a new theme for my blog but I honestly have no idea what I’m doing. Where do you even go to look for fandom adjacent ones?
earlier my older brother told me i couldn’t have a boyfriend (because my older brother would kill him) and i wheezed then cackled. being gay without most of your family knowing is great
does anyone know what happened 2 cozyastronaut aka astrobruce [ i think they were the same person ?? ] ugh idk i know we were mutuals & i loved their posts & artwork esp everything w thorbruce & i can’t find their acc(s) anymore :(
i,,,, i cant breathe,,,, they all look so good,,,, im so weak,,,,,