#HPD

[cluster-b-culture-is]

cluster b culture is finding love, empathy and friendship to be entirely separate things. i don't love you but i care. we're friends but you bore me. i'm willing to listen and give comfort but i feel nothing towards you.

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#cluster b culture is #cluster b #anonymous #bpd #npd #hpd #aspd #mod orange

[a-healthy-dose-of-apathy]

unfortunately for the both of us, i really like you

#bpd #actually bpd #borderline personality disorder #bpd problems #actually borderline #bpd feels #bpd meme #bpd memes #paranoia #bpd rage #cluster b #cluster b culture #hpd #npd #bpd fp #actually mentally ill

[chronicallyqueercoining2]

"We need more mental health acceptance and awareness!" Y'all still call ppl with cluster b disorders evil 💀

"We need more weird people!" Y'all COMBUST when someone is xenic 💀

"Healthy coping mechanisms are important!" When someone age regresses, you call them creepy 😭

"More people need to be proud of who they are!" When you see a furry, you cry 😭

(U should totes follow me if ur a supporter of these so I can b on the good side of tumblr XD /nf!)

#mogai #xenogender #hpd #bpd #npd #aspd #cluster b #cluster b pd #pds #furry #fursona #queer #actually hpd #actually cluster b #agere #age regression #sfw agere #sfw #actually histrionic #sfw furry #xenic #xenogender user

[sin-esthezia]

the thing that gets me the most about ableism against pd’s is that ppl will be like “these disorders make you an ASSHOLE!!!!” and then turn around and pretend that other disorders can’t and don’t make you act shitty.

depression and anxiety can make you irritable and snappy. they can cause you to refuse to listen to people and to be distant and withdrawn. they can cause you to seem angry, bitchy, rude, uncaring, etc.

ptsd causes an array of difficulties in forming meaningful relationships. it pretty much shakes up your entire worldview and sense of self a lot of the time. ptsd can cause you to get angry often. it can cause you to yell and scream. it can cause you to withdraw from others, run away, or cut them out. it can cause general changes in demeanor and more cynical worldviews. it can make you seem grouchy, negative, explosive, impolite, difficult, needy, controlling, etc.

and yet when people with personality disorders have symptoms of that nature, suddenly we are irredeemable monsters. when it’s npd, bpd, hpd, or aspd instead of ptsd or depression and anxiety, people suddenly and magically lose the ability to be understanding.

mental illness is an explanation, not an excuse. i firmly believe that. hurting others is never justified simply because you have any disorder.

but if you can be patient with people who have depression, anxiety, ptsd, ocd, or any other more well understood mental illness, you can be patient with us.

#ableism #ableism mention #ableism tw #cluster b #cluster b positivity #npd #bpd #hpd #aspd #npd positivity #bpd positivity #hpd positivity #aspd positivity #narcissistic abuse #narcissistic abuse awareness #actually cluster b #actually bpd #actually npd #actually borderline #actually narcissistic

[npdemu]

thank you for your constructive criticism. unfortunately, i have been sent into a rage which i will not mentally recover from for three years

#npd #npd safe #actually npd #actually narcissistic #cluster b #cluster b safe #actually cluster b #bpd #hpd #aspd

[dollotron]

the overuse of narcissist, psychopath/sociopath being used as an insult in media makes watching basically anything completely unenjoyable. At first it just made me roll my eyes because it negatively effects me, but now i just look at it as lazy and bad writing. Someone in that show is selfish? They're a narcissist. Someone acted aggressively or violently ? They're obviously a psychopath. It's getting really fucking old and boring

#cluster b #npd #aspd #hpd #bpd #narcissistic personality disorder #antisocial personality disorder

[frogsforthefrogwar]

We love people with low and no empathy here!

#low empathy #no empathy #autism #actually psychotic #actually autistic #psycotic #autistic #npd positivity #npd #bpd #hpd #aspd #cluster b #schizophrenia

[aintnopartylikeaprideparty]

as someone who has experienced abuse from someone with a personality disorder, it's actually incredibly easy to not dehumanize everyone with a personality disorder. i've seen people do borderline eugenic rhetoric surrounding people who have npd, aspd, bpd or other personality disorders, and then be like "I'M allowed to say these things because i'm a survivor, and if you disagree you are hurting abuse victims."

and frankly? i'm tired of it. as an abuse survivor i'm here to say that you're NOT allowed to turn into a fucking eugenicist the moment you're hurt by someone with a personality disorder.

does hurting and belittling other people who happen to have the same disorder as your abuser, people that are already suffering and that are already looked down on by society, bring you any healing? does it bring you peace?

Being hurt by someone isn't an excuse to hurt others that you feel justified in lashing out on. you're literally in control of your own actions,

you may claim to be making a safe space for abuse survivors, but i will never feel any solidarity with you, and i ESPECIALLY don't feel safe with you considering i might have a personality disorder.

you are excluding a large amount of abuse survivors in the name of "advocacy". a lot of people with personality disorders developed one or multiple due to heavy abuse. in the aim of creating a safe space, you are excluding the ones who need a safe space the most.

#npd #aspd #bpd #avpd #ocpd #hpd #spd #ppd #dpd #stpd #trauma #abuse mention #ableism #abuse survivor #i'm sorry this is so rambly i'm tired AAAAAA #i wish i was better at articulating my points bc i have so much to say on this😔 #i've felt this for awhile but felt to make this after seeing a particularly bad post that claimed everybody with npd and/or aspd is a- #-monster who can't feel emotions and only gets joy out of abusing others #if you think THAT'S bad i'm leaving out MANY details from the post that i don't want to get into #personality disorder #max speaks

[ghostfacetheballfondler]

[image id: 4 kittens sitting upright next to each other looking at the camera. from left to right, the orange cat has the text bubble of "i'm bpd". the light colored cat has the text bubble of "i'm hpd". the black cat has the text of "i'm npd". and the gray cat has the text bubble of "and i'm aspd" end image id]

[gif id: pink sparkling text that says, "we are the cluster b brothers!" end gif id]

#npd #hpd #aspd #cluster b #bpd

[necromances-chances]

how the world feels about cluster b

bpd: need me a bpd girl ahah mood swings hahaha crazy girls with daddy issues

npd: a narcissist is anyone who is mean to me ever and i sense them with my Empath Eyes

aspd: exclusively serial killers and psychopaths, they are so evil and terrible

hpd: what the fuck is that

#cluster b #stop villainizing cluster b pls #bpd #npd #aspd #hpd

[nicepersondisorder]

sonic sez

#sonic #sth #actually npd #npd safe #aspd safe #cluster b #bpd #hpd #npd #aspd #npd memes #hpd memes #aspd memes #bpd memes #i dont have hpd and aspd myself but im still gonna put 'actually x' tags with them for other people who Do have them to see #actually borderline #actually bpd #actually antisocial #actually histrionic #actually aspd #actually hpd #actually narcissistic #☆.txt #sonic the hedgehog #teehee #actually cluster b

[cluster-b-culture-is]

Cluster B culture is resisting the urge to lash out always

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#cluster b culture is #cluster b #anonymous #bpd #npd #hpd #aspd #mod orange #mood

[doomsdayradio]

born to be vague and mysterious for attention, cursed to overshare and have zero boundaries. also for attention

#words words words !! #npd #hpd #narcissistic personality disorder #histrionic personality disorder #cluster b #actually narcissistic #actually histrionic #!

[a-sip-of-milo]

It's very common for people to push those with demonised personality disorders to the end of their tether via manipulation, bullying, abuse, etc. and then get upset with them when they inevitably snap.

It happens a lot within the neurodivergent community, too! People spread lies about us, do things that purposely upset/trigger us and then when we start to get upset/stand up for ourselves/etc. it's "sEE??? we were right about them all along!!!!"

#npd safe #npd #bpd #bpd safe #aspd #aspd safe #hpd #hpd safe #cluster b #cluster b safe #cluster a #cluster a safe #cluster c #cluster c safe

[3ntity56]

Tips for Cluster B Anger

~ coming from someone who has BPD and a psychology special interest Have you been feeling like your anger is completely uncontrollable and all encompassing? Do you feel like your anger controls you more than you control it? Me too! But here are some things I've found to be helpful: - Taking notes. Write down triggers for what causes your anger episodes (as well as other episodes e.g sadness or paranoia) once you come down from it and start looking for a pattern. Not only will this help you to slow down and self reflect, you can begin to either avoid those triggers or find ways to regulate the effects. - SLOW DOWN. If something is making you want to hurt someone else or yourself, slow the FUCK down. Push against the grain, step back and let yourself have a good cry or scream into a pillow. Do whatever you can to (healthily) process the emotions, no matter how long it takes, before making major decisions. - Avoid self harm, substances or unhealthy habits like disordered eating or emotional self harm. It's so tempting, believe me, but it will only serve to make things worse. You might feel like you want it to get worse now, but in the future, you WILL regret it. If you start feeling these urges, refer to the urge surfing diagram below this. - Get outside advice. Think you're splitting but you can't tell? Run the situation by a close friend or loved one and see how they feel about it. Try to relay it with as little bias as possible and see if they agree with the decision you're about to make or if you perhaps need to reevaluate some things. - Take care of your heart. I know this is cliche, but a good sleep schedule, hearty food consumption habits, hydration, exercise routine and mental health care go a long way in helping you succeed in the above tips. You are struggling with an illness, and ill people need as much care as possible. Become your own parent. This works for anger in all Cluster B personality disorders, as well as with autism spectrum disorders! Urge surfing:

#bpd #bpd problems #actually borderline #actually bpd #actually npd #npd #npd safe #npd positivity #actually aspd #aspd #aspd safe #actually hpd #hpd #histrionic personality disorder #cluster b #actually cluster b #cluster b safe #anger management

[npdemu]

i got a b in personality disorders??? did i not study enough?

#cluster b #cluster b safe #actually cluster b #bpd #hpd #npd #aspd #bpd safe #hpd safe #npd safe #aspd safe #actually npd #actually narcissistic