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#How to forgive
rehamramzi · 2 years
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Absent fathers
How can we forgive our fathers? How do we react when our absent fathers show us affection? How do we forgive our fathers for marrying our mothers? Or how do we forgive our them for divorcing our mothers? How do we forgive our fathers for never understanding or listening to us? How do we forgive our fathers for being cold and harsh? How do we forgive them for leaving us when we needed them the most? How do we tell them, despite of all that they’ve done, we still fight the deep urge in our hearts to tightly hug and tell them that we love them? Shall we forgive them for leaning or pushing? How do we tell them about our fight with the deep rush of tears that make our vision blurry when we see them?
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by John Beeson | “How can I forgive them?” It’s a question spoken out of a yearning to release the one who has inflicted injury. It’s a question that is said out of hurt and sometimes anger...
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firella26-blog · 2 years
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¿ Perdón ?
Ya no se que sentir cuando me pides perdón, porque ahora se que lo haces por sentirte culpable, lo haces por ti, parece que nunca haces nada por mi pero que todo es mi culpa
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acoolchristianchick · 2 years
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Forgiveness maybe hard but releasing your feelings of being hurt is harder.
I have a brother that has wronged me. Over the years, he has done many things to me that has hurt me and I have forgave him over and over. Recently, I let him back in my life. We talked and I thought things was better. It was nice to have a relationship with him again. So I rejoiced. 
He hurt me again.
So, now I am back in the same place that I was before. I am supposed to forgive an unlimited number of times but do I forget? Does God want me to forget? or just Forgive?
I don’t think that God wants me to be a doormat.
I think that he wants me to let him handle things. I am trying to do this. I am trying to handle things right now. 
The first thing that I did was cut off all communication so that he can’t contact me to do anything else. Next, I am on my knees praying to God for help. I know that I can’t do it alone so I am praying for strength to forgive him and strength to release my feelings of being betrayed and hurt. 
Now I will always be open to reconciliation with him but he has to get help and until then I will not open life again because if he hasn’t changed he could hurt me again. Even if I do open again, I will do so extremely slowly to make sure that the change is real. 
God told us to forgive so that he will forgive me and I will rejoice throughout all of my tests to show him that I love him. I have an opportunity to show God my love of him through my actions no matter how difficult. So I rejoice at this test. 
I will forgive. I will maintain closure of my life until I see that he has changed and then possible in the future I may restart a relationship with him but until then I am going to pray for him, pray for my family, pray for forgiveness and the release of anger in my heart. 
I think that God wants us to forgive but this doesn’t mean that he requires us to keep a relationship with someone that could potentially hurt us physically or hurt us in some really bad way. 
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earl-greytea · 2 years
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i live with a thousand regrets, wishing and hoping that one day i can plead for your forgiveness
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autumnleafetragedy · 2 years
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I wish forgiving was as easier as loving someone. How come you love them despite their flaws but not forgive them for causing one more flaw of their life?
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sane-one · 2 years
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Holding onto negative feelings/events affects your mental health and peace, making your stress levels to increase and lowering enjoyment for life. It in turn results in developing more negative emotions in your mind.
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It’s important that you learn to adapt, correct your errors, and grow from negative events. A key component to being able to do this is to be able to forgive yourself for any mistakes or wrongdoings you may have done.
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It's okay to make mistakes!
Take care!
Be kind to yourself!
You are loved!
~Lokeshwari H Naidu,
Team @lemmebegirls
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julievenn · 2 years
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hisworldmylife · 2 years
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Family can cause heartache and turmoil. In this chapter a lot happens from murder to lying to polygamy. As we all know, these are acts of sin. Although we should never commit acts of sin, we are imperfect humans- it happens. We must beg and pray for forgiveness from our Lord God. If God lays out laws of sin and we can be forgiven for committing acts against this law, we can forgive others, especially family members. Of course they're certain circumstances where this is not feasible, or advisable. Cain murdered his brother out of an act of jealousy. God preferred Abel's gift over Cain's. Even when God knew the truth and knew the actions of which took place, when asked, Cain lied. Still, God made sure he would not be crucified. He made him leave Eden and took his means of employment, housing, and family. He gave him forgiveness. We need to try to forgive forgivable acts. It doesn't mean consequences wont be put into place. Consequences are necessary. Its how we learn. Its how we know not to do that thing again. We are all God's children and deserve forgiveness.
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wolfythewitch · 4 months
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i have so much rage in me one day i think i will explode. i dont think i know how to forgive as much as i know how to forget
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blondeforyou · 3 months
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How could I disguise the way that I'm feeling?
I've got my reasons, I could give you a million
My mind has been divided
And I've been questioning myself
Can't keep on hesitating
It's starting to affect my health
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thegreatfatpotato · 5 months
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The Barney theme song and Yankee Doodle are the same fucking song
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dykealloy · 7 months
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how does shanks manage to have some kind of sexual tension with every warlord in the sea whilst also having practically zero screen time. ramona-esque dilf of the east blue. luffy wants to be king of the pirates but is stuck sailing through the several deadly seas of his dad's evil exes. they see the straw hat and it activates their fight reflex. half-convinced that shanks gave it away with full knowledge of this
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cancer-hrc-13 · 6 months
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I feel so absolutely fucked up right now, I can’t believe it’s happened to me again. How many times before it doesn’t happen again?
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wildrosewrites · 7 months
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Forgiving your parents for how they didn't love you
It can be so hard to forgive your parents for the ways they failed to love you. Especially when you come across people who make you feel like you’re so easy to love. So where did it all go wrong? Maybe they weren’t taught to express their love in a healthy way. Maybe they didn’t even experience love. It might be hard to fathom how a parent could be like that. Perhaps you grew up in a different…
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rusticfurnace · 21 days
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IM DONE WITH MY FINAL EXAMS YIPPPPEE have some hoochie daddy shorts soap
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oh and one more.
(if you wanna see the full pic its on my twitter!!! )
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