#I am a simple queer

[fortunedfavors]

I haven't caught up with campaign 3 and haven't been talking or blogging about it but I honestly I don't think a week has gone by without me rewatching the Imodna kiss just to unlock the secret emotions it gives me again

#cr spoilers #imodna #i am a simple queer #watching them BOTH get caught off guard with feelings does it for me

[whaliiwatching]

pink kinda day

#spider man: across the spider verse #spider punk #spider noir #hobie brown #noirpunk #i am an unabashed lover of romantic queer fluff #plus i’m actually proud of how this turned out #even tho it’s simple i like how they’re positioned and all #i want to give noir more interesting clothes but the 1930s!! did not document that shit where i could find it!!!! #stayed up till five am drawing something else only to post this first lol #i am. so tired #anyway they are In Love Type Beat

[gothfatherr]

I like to say I'm aromantic, no scratch that I LOVE saying I'm aromantic

I'm proud of this part of me, because I've felt so isolated and alienated for so many years, and now that I know that there is an actual word for what I feel, for how I feel, for how I don't feel...of course I'm going to flaunt it

#i have an aromantic hello kitty sticker on my phone case #technically i am greyro #but i prefer saying aro #because its more simple #aro #aromantic #lgbt #queer #aromantic spectrum #aroace #arospec #aromanticism #aro positivity #aroallo

[angel-archivist]

It's so interesting and so exceedingly frustrating how agab is being utilized now within the queer community as a way to isolate and sort nonbinary and genderqueer folks into binary boxes that determine their moral purity levels, and their authority to do and write and exist.

The way nonbinary writers are being put under accusation of fetishizing gay men while their AGAB is continually brought up in a way that feels like queer-space-approved misgendering.

The way feminist circles that are supposedly trans-inclusive will use the word AFAB in a way that implicitly but intentionally isolates nonbinary people who aren't AFAB from joining. It's for women*.

The way the language is already flawed and leaves out intersex folks from the conversations while focusing on a binary of sex that isn't truthful.

The constant obsessing over whether someone is AFAB or AMAB and whether or not that gives them the privilege to join, do, write, or be present in certain spaces really really concerns me. How are we supposed to dismantle a binary system of gender if we can't even move past forcibly assigning and focusing on people's genders assigned at birth?

#and yes i understand! that agab language can in some circumstances be helpful in inclusive language and in the medical world but ultimately #is misgendering and unnecessary it should be up to the person to disclose their agab not an expectation of them to give up freely #I think that inclusive language shouldnt be misgendering in nature and agab as far as i can tell should only be used in select discussions #and certainly not as a way to frame a nonbinary writer as a “biological woman” but in a way where the queer community will nod along and sa #“oh they have a point” because you used the word AFAB instead #honestly afab is the term i see used most frequently and most harmfully towards other nonbinary people who don't identify w the label #to exclude trans women and amab nonbinary people #to frame nonbinary people as “still women” because of their assigned gender at birth #also i understand its not as simple as “not using” these terms bc they still serve a purpose and are important #but as they leave the queer community and as they enter the hands of cis queer people they become weapons #i wish i could like manifest my thoughts super clearly but i really cant bc its a difficult situation #its just another example of misogyny and bio-essentialism creeping into the queer community #because the patriarchy impacts all things including our discussions of trans oppression and gender we need to stop viewing it #as a strict binary of male female and oh sometimes we'll mention nonbinary people but we're all afab and amabs at the end of the day <3 #like flames literal flames #if you wanna like chip into the conversation just shoot me an ask or respond to the post i'd love to hear other peoples perspectives #im not infalliable so if i said anything you view as incorrect especially in regards to intersex folks and how you all would like to be #included in these discussions as im not intersex but am aware of how agab is a subject that leans into the idea of a binary of sex #so yeah rant over <3 #retro.bullshit #rant

[patheticblorbloscholar]

Clark Kent could have stopped the trajectory of Lex's downfall simply by being honest. Like dude, he's your friend, he loves you, JUST TALK TO HIM.

#No I'm not okay #nor will I ever be #My anti capatalist queer baby was ruined #For the lies of a small town boy with superpowers #Clex #Just talk to him #OMG #Its so simple #Smallville #lex luthor smallville #just smallville things #ignore me I am in my feelings

[paradoxlily]

Tis the season to be gay as hell

#I've been in ref hell preparing to Art Fight and realized I gotta uphold my one art piece a month here so here ya go folks #i am a simple lesbian who loves foxes awoo #my art #digital art #clip studio paint #artists on tumblr #csp #art #digital drawing #fox #pride month #lesbian #lesbian pride #wlw #pride art #queer #queer art #lesbian art

[skiploomz]

how can someone be both anti inclusion AND anti exclusion?

#u realise policing the right way to be queer and excluding ppl for their identity IS exclusionism u get that yes u understand it right #somehow both dni male lesbians and female gays AND transmeds and anti xenogender ppl???? am i going insane. #how can u b pro xenogender yet not understand that sometimes multigender ppl will be lesbians and men at the same time #or that someone can transition to be a woman but still feel comfortable with identifying as a gay man #like these are very simple concepts. how can u be anti transmed and pro telling trans ppl how theyre allowed to identify? ur a transmed. #vent #complaining #discourse #SORRY im not trying to start drama this just perplexes and infuriates me

[polkadot-pumpkin]

video game date where you show me your favorite ones and i obsessively learn how to play them in my free time so we can play them together

#or i show you mine #they're all simple shits #but they are the best ones ever omg #biggest example rn is cult of the lamb #i am in love with that game #mlm #nblm #nblnb #nblw #mlm concept #nblm concept #nblnb concept #nblw concept #mlm textpost #nblm textpost #nblnb textpost #nblw textpost #gay #bisexual #queer #trans #nonbinary #pride

[saintmachina]

freshly baked bread and headscarves and watercolor paints and dried bunches of lavender and baby animals and farmer’s markets and statues of female saints and embroidery and prairie dresses and backyard picnics but not in a tradwife way, in a gay way

#i am a simple sapphic #i do a little stitching and a little cooking and I turn into a tiny housegoblin #simple living #slow living #cottagecore #cottagecore aesthetic #anti hustle culture #soft living #divine feminine #queer cottagecore #queer history #thoughts

[bekandrew]

Upcoming Surgery

Hey everyone! I have surgery this Tuesday. It's to help with quality of life issues lingering from when I had sepsis in April. I can't work a day job and won't be able to do as much for a while, so I'd be grateful if y'all checked out my art and TTRPG work available from https://linktr.ee/bekandrew

#bek speaks #I have medical bills I need to pay too #my insurance unfortunately doesn't cover the entire cost but this is necessary #literally have organs acting like I'm decades older than I actually am #tho thankfully the procedure itself is simple #queer artist #trans artist #print #print for sale #my art #art #artstation #ttrpg #ttrpg art #ttrpg community #ttrpg illustration #ttrpg character #illustration #inprnt #itch.io #stv #storytellers vault #indie ttrpg #community content #surgery #sepsis #mutual aid

[mossy-crow-jester]

#vito romano #I am a simple man with simple needs #one of which is to draw this dude as horned up as possible #demon character #demon oc #he’s technically a quarter fae but whatever #original character #original art #suggestive #queer artist

[dandyshucks]

yall this old lady craft group is the best thing ever and i want to cry thinking abt how grateful i am to have it fjfkdl i think this might be the one group that i feel wholly welcomed into and actually a real part of for the first time in my life ;-; ♡

the group leader always seems to want me to sit next to her and her daughter is always interested in seeing what im working on when she comes at the end and she also tells me abt different crochet patterns she's seen on fb marketplace or she brings in old patterns for me to look through and take what i want, and then the card maker lady is offering to give me this big old crocheted clown doll that her mum made her years ago and she immediately offered to give me a ride home without me even saying anything (so that i wouldnt have to try take it home on the bus fjdkdl), and they were all super excited for me when i told them I was able to fix my accordion, and they just... treat me like an equal and a human person and fjdksl man ... it's so nice

AND IM JUST 😭💗 about it all !!!! it all feels so foreign to me !!!! i do not know when I've ever felt so fully part of a group and an equal to everyone there !!!

#and theyre always so happy to see me when i arrive fjfkdl #I've had coworkers be happy to see me but thats always been bc i was like... useful and made them feel good LMAO #its so easy to have coworkers enjoy ur presence if u do ur job well and compliment them when they do things well #or even just like. hey i like ur shoes. just simple things go a long way #so ppl have been happy to see me in the past but its only been bc i was useful to them ;-; #BUT THIS !!! this is just me being part of a group !!! i am an equal !!! its such a wild feeling !!! #im like... a full person !! its crazy !! #now granted. idk if they'd treat me the same if they knew that im queer and like. very mentally ill but DHDJDLL #thats okay idk i can live with not sharing those aspect of me bc it doesnt feel important in that setting #AUGGHHH it is just such a good feeling idk fjfldl i wish i could express it better #when u have been lesser ur entire life it is so incredible and wonderful to be treated as an equal #i did not realize how EASY it could be to socialize and feel safe with ppl if they'd just ... treat u like a human and an equal #like idk if I've ever felt so safe in my life around other ppl before fjfkdl this is crazy #ANYWAYS IM GETTING TOO DEEP ABT IT MAYBE SORRY FJFKDL im just soooo in awe that i get to experience this #and i wanted to share this bit of joy djfkdld #dandy.cmd

[fridayiminlcve]

if i dont move to nyc or london or paris by age 27 what is the point of anything

#i looooove my city so much you guys like if i wasnt who i am (queer) rn i would be so fucking glad that i am in my current city but #i loooove art and history and fashion and stuff and this citymight be about second best for all that but its still soo crowded #people WILL judge no matter what you wear something cutesy and people dont shut up especially when ur 16 and tagging along with your mom to #the mall or something and everyone just stares and even among your classmates ive been complimented so many times #for my unique style or whatever (aka i have beaded shoelaces and wear lots of jewelery and absurd ass eyeliner) and theyre like oh #n******** is so fancy itni stylish bandi hai woh and its so attention grabbing but i dont want it to be a big deal !!! #i want to like 20 badges and wear insane makeup and dye my hair without calling much attention to myself!!! #of course i know that will change slowly as you go in to uni and meet ppl of your type instead of a bazaar market and youll pick ur own #friends who r like minded but considering this is india how many people can you truly find. #also my next two years are going to be spent in a college for jee and neet kids #you can wear what you want theres no dress code but you have to appear serious studious and simple if you want to be taken seriously #elle woods at harvard law type #i asked my mom to get an industrial & second lobe piercing and actual dyed hair and shes like turn twenty get into a good college then do #not bc she minds she allowed me to get my hair dyed at age 13 but to go in th college im going to there is SO SO much rigour #and if you dont show yourself as professional and shit they will keep you in lower effort self study classes instead of best of the best #i KNOW how difficult moving abroad is bc my family does not have that money i need to do it myself its so so expensive bc the money #itself has such a high value compared to here (you see americans cribbing abt 30$ hourly wage but here that is 2500inr) #2500 inr is as much as an expensive pair of jeans here. expensive clothes here r 30$ and in usa its 300$ . see the diffence #im changing topics so much but sometimes i do feel this place is suffocating #its a priviledge i have that i can even think about going abroad comapred to other indians but still #dp you get what i mean #and ik movies and all are very romanticised so it might not even be this way in western cities and just an idealisation but still #if things change around here then the entire question of going anywhere is out the window anyway #smalltown boy will byers moment #dni if you read all this and plan on replying unless ur a close mutual (close mutuals u know who u are) #also if someone says why would you want to go to usa uk paris when they colonised your country shut up <3 shut up very much <3

[khlur]

retracting and being closed off abt my own caste, identity, and personal opinions in general on this site has been sooo good for me <3 a couple of years ago some of you supposedly progressive savarna clowns would hound non UC folks for talking about our experiences with caste and our opinions. you'd put us all on the spot and drag us into 'debates' that attracted the h*ndutva side of this hellsite. need u all to sit down and have a think about why u all were readily sharing ambedkar quotes and links to PDFs and quoting all the right things while talking down to bahujans.

#censoring just in case this somehow finds its way into search results #i don't trust any of u plain and simple #whatever u all do in your irl lives is another matter you volunteer all the time you want #show all the solidarity you want be the best activist ever #i am proud of you all of course for taking action i do genuinely think it's a good thing #but do please keep your self righteousness away from me #do not care if you are all more well read and can argue ur positions better #twisted. twisted! #have you all noticed that this is not a problem when it comes to queerness

[whostolemygoldfish]

Y'all I'm confessing to my best friend who I have been madly in love with for a very long time and I bought her a bracelet and some chocolate and a card but oh god they are so pretty and my stupid gay brain said "oh! valentine's day, that will be a good day to make a bad decision!" And so now it's day after tomorrow and I'm panicking because they're much too good for me and aaaaa she's already turned down like five guys (they're bi) and they give me so many mixed signals and they've been doing that for years H E L P.

#daily happenings #sorry for rambling #advice please #dear god help me #they really like the stars and Reese's cups and bugs and frogs and summer time and the pool and making snow angels and Disney kids movies #and Splatoon and Halloween and rain and shiny things and mushrooms and dancing and cosplay and the beach #they could do so much better than me #she's so pretty #lesbian #queer #i am a simple creature #help my sanity

[just-jammin]

who are your top 5 oshis in nijisanji :0?

ohohoho… >:D

in no particular order (maybe :3)

Aia Amare

Maria Marionette

Finana Ryugu

Selen Tatsuki

Pomu Rainpuff

these are the ones i told to one of my cousins (who ALSO likes niji) in case they come across any merch in future cons, sooo i may not like a few (one) of them as much as you’d think

i have a LOT of honorable mentions bc almost EVERYONE’s frickin awesome, but i choose Petra Gurin, Enna Alouette, Ike Eveland, Kotoka Torahime, & Meloco Kyoran!

#i like A LOT of niji livers #it’s jus that i am but a simple queer girl who likes girls more than boys— #also sry Millie #even tho she may have led me to the rabbit hole #her stuff is not of my humor for some reason so yeh not that much of a fave for me :< #anyways #hehehe i wanna tell the reasons why #but i’m not sure if it’s gonna be a short reason or a long ramble so huhuhu :’3c #the meaningful jargon #inquiries of a fennec #hotdof-notdof